Getting Rid of Jealousy

There is this one babe in my office.
I like her as a friend and she share with me her pre-marital relationship.

Due to our conversation, we get closer.
On a long run, she told me that she feels for me and she really loves me.
I did not jump up because of what she said, but calm myself to know her better. Because I was surprise while a person that share with me her pre-marital relationship is falling in love with me.
Because of what she said, I change attitude (avoid some closeness) and she started complaining.
We get better again and continue being just friend.
She continues picking on me and indirectly invites herself to my house but I did not approve.
After sometime I noticed she is having a relationship with the Assistant Director in my Department.
I asked her but she denied and responded that He (asst. director) has been picking on her but she has been turning it down.
I was very angry because she keeps it away from me. That makes me doubt her and everything about her.
And now I notice she is having a relationship with one of our colleagues. This makes me feel jealous.
Please pals, I need your advice.

Posted: at 28-09-2010 10:40 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

@Bittersweet

Thanks for your response

But why is she doing that.

Do you think I should ask her if she going out with one of our colleague?

Posted: at 28-09-2010 10:48 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

You see why l hate office romance U better stay off !

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Posted: at 28-09-2010 10:50 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Good of you!

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Posted: at 28-09-2010 10:56 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

@Bittersweet
Thanks.
You are very fast, is computer scientist?

And what should i do when she notice my distance cos she will want to put me back on track.

@Sophiebaby

Thanks and kudos to you on your response.

Posted: at 28-09-2010 10:59 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

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Posted: at 28-09-2010 11:05 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

just be friend,don't even think of her or have any feeling toward her..don't ask her anything self.do as if u don't see things..na her life.let her be joor joor...don't get jealous for what is not yours now.

Posted: at 28-09-2010 11:14 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

@Bittersweet

But I will like to avoid her totally, you know what i mean, somebody i think should really respect herself but she is just a donatus and a bitch. I'm very very angry with her but I've been keeping my self calm all this while telling myself she is a good girl (she acts like a christian). I just want to lash and ditch her so that she will stay away from me.

@youngk
@mydicksweet

But why is she doing that

Posted: at 28-09-2010 11:25 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

And again, we have said it here a number of times that office romance has so many problems................I wont like to repeat myself!

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Posted: at 28-09-2010 11:28 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

she don't know what she want....and again
she won show now and u too go bold am...since u know wetin u want...just let her be...
u will see,she will one time come ur office come follow u talk....just maintain ur respect...

Posted: at 28-09-2010 11:34 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming