Funmi thought she could again get away with it. She was wrong. She had been embroiled in a sizzling, but illicit romance with her boss, Mr Benson who is married with a kid. On this fateful Friday evening, Funmi rushed down to the house to take a shower.
She packed some clothes and intended to deceive her husband that she was going on a trip with the management of her firm . After she had entered the bathroom, her husband, Davies, inquisitively felt like checking her bag for the most innocuous reasons, but stumbled on a hotel address within the same city as well as a pack of condoms. He was enraged , but tried to keep his cool .
After her bath, she dressed up and told him “Love, I am sorry, my management team and I would be on a two-day trip to Benin for our annual board meeting and I’ ll miss you”.
When she moved closer to give him a hug, Davies blurted out in anger “oh, the board meeting at the hotel with a pack of condoms…?” She wished the ground would open up and swallow her. Davies continued “ so, this is what you have been doing to me, right?, slowly bringing out the pack of condoms. What the hell do you need condoms for? She was speechless and immediately went on her knees weeping profusely… What would you do if you found a hotel address with a pack of condoms in your wife’s bag?
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VICTOR It is outrightly wrong for that to be found with a married woman, especially by her husband, which simply implies that he knows nothing about how it got there. She might give an excuse that she is to have a management meeting at the hotel, and that the condom was shared at a seminar; but can’t the meeting be communicated with an official letter? Even if she did something wrong, she will definitely present an explanation that will tend to justify her wrong doing except proven otherwise with a very concrete evidence . She only has a right to be in the possession of a condom, if her husband practices protected sex with her. She must go.
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ISAH One thing that will come to my mind is that she is cheating on me and I do not need further information and I’ll let her go. The solution is just to divorce her, because, my mind will never be at rest.
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KINGSLEY As long as I do not use condoms on her, I will demand to know what the item is doing in her bag, because if I do not do that, it simply means I do not value her. Everyman has a tendency to be jealous as well as women . I’ll always say that love is built on trust. I will believe whatever she tells me .
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DARE Due to the fact that I trust her, I would ask how she got the condom, because on a good day, there’s nothing wrong in having a hotel address. If her response is reassuring, I will believe she is not cutting corners, but if she’s defensive , I definitely would know she cheats on me and I will send her packing without hesitation.
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Posted: at 3-10-2010 08:26 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
all that na story and a flimsy excuses , you met a man standing beside another man mateched to death with cutlass in his already soaked hands with the blood of the dead , you need not to ask who killed the man again , he killed him , the lady knew that GOD had exposed her , and thats why she went down on her kneee crying , i parys such a thing will never happen to me nor any of my relatives AMIN, the only advice i can give you is that , that you called your wife is never your wife so , but a wh*re and another man,s wife , the earlier you send her packing the better
Posted: at 3-10-2010 09:42 PM (14 years ago) | Grande Master
The story says she's on her knees,right? That says it all that she has plans to cheat and she lied. There's no two ways to it for me,it's a decision which might end the relationship/marriage
Posted: at 3-10-2010 09:52 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
Why should one being inside of a marriage/relationship and cheat. The cheating marriage (adultery) brings curse inside of it and the cheating relationship bring bondage. If I was a man and find condom inside my wife bag I will need to know what makes her to cheat. Is it money or sex addiction, then I will seek the right counselling for her. I don't believe in DIVORCE. Now if I should find condom in my husband wallet, then he will be living a life of separation with me until he comes to his senses.
Godly WISDOM is to Fear God. His UNDERSTANDING is to resist the devil.
Posted: at 3-10-2010 10:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Obiageliaku at 3-10-2010 11:25 PM (14 years ago) (f)
If a man truely loves his wife then he will try to please her so that she will not cheat. If she is cheating than maybe the husband is doing something wrong. Why should he leave his wife because of one small thing. she no be prostitute. They should work on their marrige because they promise it before God
Posted: at 3-10-2010 11:25 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
If a man truely loves his wife then he will try to please her so that she will not cheat. If she is cheating than maybe the husband is doing something wrong. Why should he leave his wife because of one small thing. she no be prostitute. They should work on their marrige because they promise it before God.
You sound like one of the cheaters.
Posted: at 4-10-2010 12:27 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
dumosky2010 at 4-10-2010 02:01 AM (14 years ago) (m)
That's messed up, but what's the gain of doing all of that....but man u should think other wise too, what's her purpose of doing that? is it to keep her job because of the corrupt society, or she is just doing it for fun? man i don't know what to do, but she ain't leaving my house thogh.
Posted: at 4-10-2010 02:01 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
If a man truely loves his wife then he will try to please her so that she will not cheat. If she is cheating than maybe the husband is doing something wrong. Why should he leave his wife because of one small thing. she no be prostitute. They should work on their marrige because they promise it before God
if she is not a prostitute as you said , was that a part time job then ? and is that how you treats your own husband too ?
Posted: at 4-10-2010 04:52 AM (14 years ago) | Grande Master