I slept with my Ex boyfriend on saturday. after two years of seperation , he called to inform me that he was in Lagos and I jumped right into bed with him again. I have never slept with two guys at once in my life.Although its being months that i had it with my boyfriend yet I was contended until my Ex came on saturday. He's now begging me to return. I really do love him more than the one I am with right now but He flirt alot and my boyfriend is very caring. What do I do now?
Posted: at 19-10-2010 12:43 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
diplomatik at 19-10-2010 12:47 AM (13 years ago) (f)
hmmm..u done fck up.... tell ur main man how u feel don't keep him bcos u want stability then go cheat bcos of God knows what ..its time to decide what u want...u're in the best position to do so cos i have never met mr caring, and mr flirt
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 19-10-2010 12:47 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Gurl, don't treat your caring bf like that. If u don't love him then plz don't keep him. its not fair at all. but i think u r really confused mehn... He is a human, u don't have to love him but let him go abeg. I suggest u search within yourself and see wat u really want. cos u don't knw that your ex beary well. Good luck!
Posted: at 19-10-2010 12:49 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
sixtyhoneyy at 19-10-2010 12:53 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Beauti4 on 19-10-2010 12:49 AM
Gurl, don't treat your caring bf like that. If u don't love him then plz don't keep him. its not fair at all. but i think u r really confused mehn... He is a human, u don't have to love him but let him go abeg. I suggest u search within yourself and see wat u really want. cos u don't knw that your ex beary well. Good luck!
you hv said it all,goodluck@poster
Posted: at 19-10-2010 12:53 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
mydicksweet at 19-10-2010 01:23 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Dont mind her she 4got that what goes around do comes around ......dont do to other's what u dont want them to do to u be wise.......i'm pretty convince that it's bcs of money that's why ur treating him this way which is unfair but trust me i hate to see women like u who cant keep their hot pant in one place
Posted: at 19-10-2010 01:23 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
justceetah at 19-10-2010 04:53 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: twistingangel on 19-10-2010 12:43 AM
I slept with my Ex boyfriend on saturday. after two years of seperation , he called to inform me that he was in Lagos and I jumped right into bed with him again. I have never slept with two guys at once in my life.Although its being months that i had it with my boyfriend yet I was contended until my Ex came on saturday. He's now begging me to return. I really do love him more than the one I am with right now but He flirt alot and my boyfriend is very caring. What do I do now?
imagine! This is why i keep saying girls don't deserve love.U have some1 dat luvs,care n adore u still u betrayed him.U think gud guys r easy to come by?
Friends determined by distance are no friends at all
Posted: at 19-10-2010 04:53 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 19-10-2010 07:02 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Hmm! If u still love your ex,u should have ended this relationship u have now first, and only after that....whatever u want! Now, u cheated..... Just tell your guy that u can't continue this relationship, and release him from this lie!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 19-10-2010 07:02 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
benbabs4love at 19-10-2010 07:29 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Why dont u learn to luv ur boyfriend, bcos it is better 4 u to marry somebody dat luvs u dan getting married to somebody dat u luv & may not luv. Its not easy, but try.
Posted: at 19-10-2010 07:29 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
What a hot pants you have !! What made you separate from your ex ? maybe that no longer matters to you and you jump into bed with him just because he came into town without thinking abaut he consequencies of your actions ?
Don't be suprised if he just came arround to pass on an STI to you .................
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 19-10-2010 08:42 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
mikelly004 at 19-10-2010 09:05 AM (13 years ago) (m)
hello, first ask for forgiveness frm God and ask for His direction. u r @ T-junction now, u don't know which path to take, he is d only one dat show u d way. God bless
Posted: at 19-10-2010 09:05 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
Common gurl, have you had a re-think of what got you to separate from your ex?
You may say, it's was because you caught him with another girl was the reason why you separated from him. But, sincerely speaking, if you really love him, why didn't you settle your differences then, and continue with the relationship?
We do silly things atimes because we easily forget about what led us to where we are. What you have just done is totally wrong and you knew it. I am equally sure that you will not be happy if you discover that your new bf did something like what you have just done.
The truth is that you didn't love your ex-bf neither, rather you loved his money, if not there was nothing unforgivable that he might have done to you that warranted the separation from him.Be carefulgirl
Posted: at 19-10-2010 09:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
It's shockin' 2 me.... never knew that gurls flirt too lol... even when their boyfriend is caring. However, u hv to tell ur present boyfriend dat u ain't gonna continue with d relationship, but u gotta learn how to keep ur hot pant intact, if i may ask u, how do u feel - staying with a flirting boyfriend 'nd perhaps a husband? Use ur tongue to count ur teeth, u got d final decision to make.
Posted: at 19-10-2010 09:16 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming