Can u marry a guy dat already has a child? (Page 12)

Quote from: kethey on 28-10-2010 02:44 PM

just, hows life now?

baby girl life's kinda kool

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Posted: at 28-10-2010 09:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

the issue of the woman calling my husband or coming to my house is no no bcos i dont want no intruder in my house i dont want to die young the only relationship she has is with her child that means she can pickup the child call d child stand outside and spend weekend or as long as she want with the child but my house is a total keepoff  zone she doesnt have any buisness coming to my home and house its not for strangers and she is not family for me sooo no no no if they want to start another relationship y dont dey say it or if it was so sweet y did dey breakup i cant take that

i have a friend her husbands ex comes to her marital home at will GOD  FORBID ITS NOT MY PORTION the woman lives with her own children somewhere else my husband had a girlfriend an ex and when i came here she was visitin calling him at will me i stopped it cos i dont take nonsense if i want to bring all my ex´S do u know how many lets  leave stupidity bygone is bygone ex is past and forgotten a friend did it to me too b4 i was married i visited for the weekend and his ex came middle of the night and said she needed somewhere to sleep she slept in another room i dey give people grace but second time will not b funny so i let him know in front of her that when it repeats itself  its either i will leave or she will leave and let them know b4 day breaks she should leave my territory 4.00 oclock in d morning she find her way me i really dont need nonsense from nobody who is fooling whobringing ur ex to d house who is a dundie i mean maga

Posted: at 1-11-2010 10:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@post
Aah!
kinda confused, ....but where there is true love, every negative reactions are conqured

Posted: at 1-11-2010 10:36 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

a child is not a disease so i will gladly marry provided he loves me

Posted: at 29-12-2010 04:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

hmm if the child will accept me,then yes i will.if not i wont.

Posted: at 29-12-2010 04:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Nope,not me just wondering cos i have a friend thatz planning to do that

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Posted: at 29-12-2010 04:43 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

reading

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Posted: at 29-12-2010 04:45 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

nope,no be pikin i won marry.but at the end of the day,if that pikin no accept me then wahala dey for me.i know exactly wat i'm saying.

Posted: at 29-12-2010 04:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

ok

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Posted: at 29-12-2010 06:59 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

first of, why did he not marry the girlfriend when she got pregnant for him so all of them with the baby will be a family? If she was good enough for him to date and sleep with, she should be good enough for him to marry since she had a child for him.  The only reason i will consider marrying a guy whose ex girlfriend had a child for is if the girl refused to marry him when he proposed. If he got a girl pregnant and refused to marry her, then he is an irresponsible person and will not make a good husband. If the child is a boy, you have to live with the fact that the first son in  the family is not yours, i know a lot of females in this website are saying they will marry him, but they are not being honest. I had a guy that wanted to  marry me but the only reason I did not marry him was that he had a son by his ex girlfriend and  would not tell me why he did not marry her when she got pregnant for him. I recently watched a Tyra Banks show on this same issues and guy she interviewed were complaining that each time they went out th on a date with a girl they love, the first question she will ask is if the guy has a child from previous relationship, if the guy says yes, that will be the last time  he will hear from the girl. So Trya and the guys were shocked and when she interviewed some girls, they said they will not want to date  nor marry  a guy with a child from previous relationship.  ABOUT 3O YEARS AGO, WOMEN WOULD MARRY A GUY WITH A CHILD BUT THESE DAYS, ONLY  FEW WOMEN WILL DO THAT.

Posted: at 10-01-2011 12:46 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie