![-]( "Beauti4") Beauti4 at 20-10-2010 07:33 PM (14 years ago)  (f) i never marry yet, so i no wan multiply anything yet. | Posted: at 20-10-2010 07:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Women are made to b Multiplicators. IF a man give her a house, she will give him home. IF he offers her money, she will give him meal, if he give am belle, she will give am pikin. But incase anything happen in a way that the man cannot provide for the family like b4 then it only takes a virgues woman to stand in the Breadwinning Position. The man was made to gain favor from God only if he is matured (spiritually) enough to handle life. So i think most men will not allow their woman to bcome the bread winner. And she do, then they will feel belittle. Men needs to learn o...
Yes! Because a real man shouldn't threatened by a strong woman.
Live and let live! | Posted: at 20-10-2010 07:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Beauti4") Beauti4 at 20-10-2010 07:42 PM (14 years ago) (f) Women are made to b Multiplicators. IF a man give her a house, she will give him home. IF he offers her money, she will give him meal, if he give am belle, she will give am pikin. But incase anything happen in a way that the man cannot provide for the family like b4 then it only takes a virgues woman to stand in the Breadwinning Position. The man was made to gain favor from God only if he is matured (spiritually) enough to handle life. So i think most men will not allow their woman to bcome the bread winner. And she do, then they will feel belittle. Men needs to learn o...
Yes! Because a real man shouldn't threatened by a strong woman. Lolz...u jst summarize the purpose of this topic. | Posted: at 20-10-2010 07:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Live and let live! | Posted: at 20-10-2010 07:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Renewed") Renewed at 20-10-2010 07:49 PM (14 years ago) (m) A. is it okay 4 women 2 be breadwinas? B. MEn: if d tides turn n u found ursef in a similar situation,will u be com4table alowing ur woman be d breadwina? c. whats d impact of d switch in a relationship/marriagae? many men feels dat whn these occurs,women stops respecting dem--is dat true?
lets hear what u think..
A. For me, NO its not okay 4 women to be breadwinnas; B. I definitely won't be comfortable but I could allow it (for a time though) depending on the situation; C. I think that depends on the maturity of the couple involved. I don't expect any negative impact. Personally, I don't expect my wife to disrespect me in times like this except dem follow am from village  ...afterall no be my money I use take pay her bride price?
I Am Different Because I Stand For The Lord Jesus! | Posted: at 20-10-2010 07:49 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 20-10-2010 08:00 PM (14 years ago) (f) learning..
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 20-10-2010 08:00 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "macgreat") macgreat at 20-10-2010 08:03 PM (14 years ago) (m) i never marry yet, so i no wan multiply anything yet.
Okies. . .
My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time | Posted: at 20-10-2010 08:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "macgreat") macgreat at 20-10-2010 08:04 PM (14 years ago) (m) learning..
Make i come sit with you? 
My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time | Posted: at 20-10-2010 08:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "misty120") misty120 at 20-10-2010 08:05 PM (14 years ago) (f) A. is it okay 4 women 2 be breadwinas? B. MEn: if d tides turn n u found ursef in a similar situation,will u be com4table alowing ur woman be d breadwina? c. whats d impact of d switch in a relationship/marriagae? many men feels dat whn these occurs,women stops respecting dem--is dat true?
lets hear what u think..
Women are meant to be HELPERS........MAN's punishment for disobeying God was to TILL the ground for food, no more provision by the Almighty......that means HE should provide, he should be the MAIN provider.....his wife is to support. Real MEN dont feel comfortable with such switch.......... It is normal for the man to feel threatened by such a switch becos Power comes with RESPONSIBILITIES........in other words, when you have been vested with RESPONSIBILITY of providing for the family, you have been indirectly been vested with some POWERS.....For sure, our men are afraid of losing their POWERS to their women...... PERSONALLY........I dont want to be the MAIN breadwinner......I just wanna support............. True Talk | Posted: at 20-10-2010 08:05 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "macgreat") macgreat at 20-10-2010 08:09 PM (14 years ago) (m) Yep. . .
My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time | Posted: at 20-10-2010 08:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 20-10-2010 08:22 PM (14 years ago) (f) learning..
Make i come sit with you? why not... wear your glasses oo
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 20-10-2010 08:22 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "mallorca") mallorca at 21-10-2010 01:13 AM (14 years ago) (m) A. is it okay 4 women 2 be breadwinas? B. MEn: if d tides turn n u found ursef in a similar situation,will u be com4table alowing ur woman be d breadwina? c. whats d impact of d switch in a relationship/marriagae? many men feels dat whn these occurs,women stops respecting dem--is dat true?
lets hear what u think..
Women are meant to be HELPERS........MAN's punishment for disobeying God was to TILL the ground for food, no more provision by the Almighty......that means HE should provide, he should be the MAIN provider.....his wife is to support. Real MEN dont feel comfortable with such switch.......... It is normal for the man to feel threatened by such a switch becos Power comes with RESPONSIBILITIES........in other words, when you have been vested with RESPONSIBILITY of providing for the family, you have been indirectly been vested with some POWERS.....For sure, our men are afraid of losing their POWERS to their women...... PERSONALLY........I dont want to be the MAIN breadwinner......I just wanna support............. someone want to run away from her responsibllities O Y O for you........my MAIN responsibility is to have kids.........and then make sure they are properly brought up......as for providing for the family, it is the man's MAIN responsibility.....and I am to support.........if I like self I fit fold my hands.......... fold ur hands?...dat is what igbo people called Oriaku......but in this suitation am looking for Oso di achu aku not Oriaku like you
HOPE IS MY ROAD,VICTORY IS MY DESTINY | Posted: at 21-10-2010 01:13 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 21-10-2010 07:08 AM (14 years ago) (f) U all are 1peeps wit beautiful ideas
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 21-10-2010 07:08 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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A. is it okay 4 women 2 be breadwinas? B. MEn: if d tides turn n u found ursef in a similar situation,will u be com4table alowing ur woman be d breadwina? c. whats d impact of d switch in a relationship/marriagae? many men feels dat whn these occurs,women stops respecting dem--is dat true?
lets hear what u think..
Women are meant to be HELPERS........MAN's punishment for disobeying God was to TILL the ground for food, no more provision by the Almighty......that means HE should provide, he should be the MAIN provider.....his wife is to support. Real MEN dont feel comfortable with such switch.......... It is normal for the man to feel threatened by such a switch becos Power comes with RESPONSIBILITIES........in other words, when you have been vested with RESPONSIBILITY of providing for the family, you have been indirectly been vested with some POWERS.....For sure, our men are afraid of losing their POWERS to their women...... PERSONALLY........I dont want to be the MAIN breadwinner......I just wanna support............. someone want to run away from her responsibllities O Y O for you........my MAIN responsibility is to have kids.........and then make sure they are properly brought up......as for providing for the family, it is the man's MAIN responsibility.....and I am to support.........if I like self I fit fold my hands.......... fold ur hands? and u will be happy to fold ur hands right? hmmmmmmm | Posted: at 21-10-2010 08:33 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 21-10-2010 09:03 AM (14 years ago) (f) A. is it okay 4 women 2 be breadwinas? B. MEn: if d tides turn n u found ursef in a similar situation,will u be com4table alowing ur woman be d breadwina? c. whats d impact of d switch in a relationship/marriagae? many men feels dat whn these occurs,women stops respecting dem--is dat true?
lets hear what u think..
Women are meant to be HELPERS........MAN's punishment for disobeying God was to TILL the ground for food, no more provision by the Almighty......that means HE should provide, he should be the MAIN provider.....his wife is to support. Real MEN dont feel comfortable with such switch.......... It is normal for the man to feel threatened by such a switch becos Power comes with RESPONSIBILITIES........in other words, when you have been vested with RESPONSIBILITY of providing for the family, you have been indirectly been vested with some POWERS.....For sure, our men are afraid of losing their POWERS to their women...... PERSONALLY........I dont want to be the MAIN breadwinner......I just wanna support............. someone want to run away from her responsibllities O Y O for you........my MAIN responsibility is to have kids.........and then make sure they are properly brought up......as for providing for the family, it is the man's MAIN responsibility.....and I am to support.........if I like self I fit fold my hands.......... fold ur hands?...dat is what igbo people called Oriaku......but in this suitation am looking for Oso di achu aku not Oriaku like you Heheheheeeeeeeeeeeee !! women are made to be either ori aku or odozi aku
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 21-10-2010 09:03 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 21-10-2010 09:16 AM (14 years ago) (m) A. is it okay 4 women 2 be breadwinas? B. MEn: if d tides turn n u found ursef in a similar situation,will u be com4table alowing ur woman be d breadwina? c. whats d impact of d switch in a relationship/marriagae? many men feels dat whn these occurs,women stops respecting dem--is dat true?
lets hear what u think..
@ Divineproject: Well spoken from Biblical yardstick (bk of Gen.) However, with evolution of contemporary concepts of fundamental Human Rights, women have increasingly demanded and got to decision making positions which hintherto had been male prerogatives making them income earners. In rural African settings, most men depended on cash crops whose market values are drastically falling, paving the way for women's petty trading as main sources of family income today. I conclude: a woman earning more than a man is no problem in a home in as much as there is love for no external party will even know who earns more as in Biblical Proverbs 31 (Virtues of a woman)-if my quote is right Examples. A village girl was brought to Yaoundé for marriage to a military personel. Due to economic challenges, she opted to fight it out by roasting fish at the roadside. Today her monthly earnings are 3 times that of her husband but with counselling from our church group, there is peace in that home such that they can pride themselves with two villas on rent alongside the modest home they reside in, 4 kids. Quess what?- she is still roasting fish and when the husband is chanced, he gives her a helping hand! | Posted: at 21-10-2010 09:16 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 21-10-2010 09:31 AM (14 years ago) (f) Divine Project well said jare | Posted: at 21-10-2010 09:31 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 21-10-2010 09:33 AM (14 years ago) (f) AT POSTER ARE YOU A BREADWINE?
IF THE POSTER IS A BREADWINE SHE SHOULD BE IN A BOTTLE huh  ??
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 21-10-2010 09:33 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 21-10-2010 09:40 AM (14 years ago) (m) Oya if we no wan look why women be breadwinners then, go tell dem lef all offices, all market and internet go back home only di born pickin make men dem enter their offices and markets na!! | Posted: at 21-10-2010 09:40 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 21-10-2010 10:33 AM (14 years ago) (f) Oya if we no wan look why women be breadwinners then, go tell dem lef all offices, all market and internet go back home only di born pickin make men dem enter their offices and markets na!!
Hmmn! it then becoms gay world... | Posted: at 21-10-2010 10:33 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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