women as breadwinners: AN ISSUE?

Date: 20-10-2010 5:04 pm (14 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- at 20-10-2010 05:04 PM (14 years ago)
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A. is it okay 4 women 2 be breadwinas?  B. MEn: if d tides turn n u found ursef in a similar situation,will u be com4table alowing ur woman be d breadwina? c. whats d impact of d switch in a relationship/marriagae? many men feels dat whn these occurs,women stops respecting dem--is dat true? 

lets hear what u think..


Posted: at 20-10-2010 05:04 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- do4sure at 20-10-2010 05:16 PM (14 years ago)
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Not created to be so
I will not be comfortable if there exist a better option
Many women find it difficult to manage the breadwinners' position as a helpmate.
Posted: at 20-10-2010 05:16 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 20-10-2010 05:22 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 20-10-2010 05:04 PM
A. is it okay 4 women 2 be breadwinas?  B. MEn: if d tides turn n u found ursef in a similar situation,will u be com4table alowing ur woman be d breadwina? c. whats d impact of d switch in a relationship/marriagae? many men feels dat whn these occurs,women stops respecting dem--is dat true? 

lets hear what u think..

Women are meant to be HELPERS........MAN's punishment for disobeying God was to TILL the ground for food, no more provision by the Almighty......that means HE should provide, he should be the MAIN provider.....his wife is to support.

Real MEN dont feel comfortable with such switch..........

It is normal for the man to feel threatened by such a switch becos Power comes with RESPONSIBILITIES........in other words, when you have been vested with RESPONSIBILITY of providing for the family, you have been indirectly been vested with some POWERS.....For sure, our men are afraid of losing their POWERS to their women......

PERSONALLY........I dont want to be the MAIN breadwinner......I just wanna support.............

Posted: at 20-10-2010 05:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- diplomatik at 20-10-2010 05:24 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 20-10-2010 05:22 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 20-10-2010 05:04 PM
A. is it okay 4 women 2 be breadwinas?  B. MEn: if d tides turn n u found ursef in a similar situation,will u be com4table alowing ur woman be d breadwina? c. whats d impact of d switch in a relationship/marriagae? many men feels dat whn these occurs,women stops respecting dem--is dat true? 

lets hear what u think..

Women are meant to be HELPERS........MAN's punishment for disobeying God was to TILL the ground for food, no more provision by the Almighty......that means HE should provide, he should be the MAIN provider.....his wife is to support.

Real MEN dont feel comfortable with such switch..........

It is normal for the man to feel threatened by such a switch becos Power comes with RESPONSIBILITIES........in other words, when you have been vested with RESPONSIBILITY of providing for the family, you have been indirectly been vested with some POWERS.....For sure, our men are afraid of losing their POWERS to their women......

PERSONALLY........I dont want to be the MAIN breadwinner......I just wanna support.............


 Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 20-10-2010 05:24 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyin at 20-10-2010 05:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 20-10-2010 05:22 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 20-10-2010 05:04 PM
A. is it okay 4 women 2 be breadwinas?  B. MEn: if d tides turn n u found ursef in a similar situation,will u be com4table alowing ur woman be d breadwina? c. whats d impact of d switch in a relationship/marriagae? many men feels dat whn these occurs,women stops respecting dem--is dat true? 

lets hear what u think..

Women are meant to be HELPERS........MAN's punishment for disobeying God was to TILL the ground for food, no more provision by the Almighty......that means HE should provide, he should be the MAIN provider.....his wife is to support.

Real MEN dont feel comfortable with such switch..........

It is normal for the man to feel threatened by such a switch becos Power comes with RESPONSIBILITIES........in other words, when you have been vested with RESPONSIBILITY of providing for the family, you have been indirectly been vested with some POWERS.....For sure, our men are afraid of losing their POWERS to their women......

PERSONALLY........I dont want to be the MAIN breadwinner......I just wanna support.............

True talk.
Posted: at 20-10-2010 05:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- xena15 at 20-10-2010 05:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Ok

Posted: at 20-10-2010 05:25 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 20-10-2010 05:28 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: diplomatik on 20-10-2010 05:24 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 20-10-2010 05:22 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 20-10-2010 05:04 PM
A. is it okay 4 women 2 be breadwinas?  B. MEn: if d tides turn n u found ursef in a similar situation,will u be com4table alowing ur woman be d breadwina? c. whats d impact of d switch in a relationship/marriagae? many men feels dat whn these occurs,women stops respecting dem--is dat true? 

lets hear what u think..

Women are meant to be HELPERS........MAN's punishment for disobeying God was to TILL the ground for food, no more provision by the Almighty......that means HE should provide, he should be the MAIN provider.....his wife is to support.

Real MEN dont feel comfortable with such switch..........

It is normal for the man to feel threatened by such a switch becos Power comes with RESPONSIBILITIES........in other words, when you have been vested with RESPONSIBILITY of providing for the family, you have been indirectly been vested with some POWERS.....For sure, our men are afraid of losing their POWERS to their women......

PERSONALLY........I dont want to be the MAIN breadwinner......I just wanna support.............


 Cheesy Cheesy

Talk something jor................ Grin

Posted: at 20-10-2010 05:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- diplomatik at 20-10-2010 05:29 PM (14 years ago)
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u talk my mine jare ...i 'll support

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- do4sure at 20-10-2010 05:30 PM (14 years ago)
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DP THANKS FOR THAT POINTBLANK SHOT.
Diplomatk threading with care.
Posted: at 20-10-2010 05:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mercyilori at 20-10-2010 05:32 PM (14 years ago)
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AT POSTER ARE YOU A BREADWINE?
Posted: at 20-10-2010 05:32 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- diplomatik at 20-10-2010 05:32 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: do4sure on 20-10-2010 05:30 PM
DP THANKS FOR THAT POINTBLANK SHOT.
Diplomatk threading with care.

huh?  Huh? Undecided

Posted: at 20-10-2010 05:32 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mallorca at 20-10-2010 05:33 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 20-10-2010 05:22 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 20-10-2010 05:04 PM
A. is it okay 4 women 2 be breadwinas?  B. MEn: if d tides turn n u found ursef in a similar situation,will u be com4table alowing ur woman be d breadwina? c. whats d impact of d switch in a relationship/marriagae? many men feels dat whn these occurs,women stops respecting dem--is dat true? 

lets hear what u think..

Women are meant to be HELPERS........MAN's punishment for disobeying God was to TILL the ground for food, no more provision by the Almighty......that means HE should provide, he should be the MAIN provider.....his wife is to support.

Real MEN dont feel comfortable with such switch..........

It is normal for the man to feel threatened by such a switch becos Power comes with RESPONSIBILITIES........in other words, when you have been vested with RESPONSIBILITY of providing for the family, you have been indirectly been vested with some POWERS.....For sure, our men are afraid of losing their POWERS to their women......

PERSONALLY........I dont want to be the MAIN breadwinner......I just wanna support.............

someone want to run away from her responsibllities

Posted: at 20-10-2010 05:33 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- do4sure at 20-10-2010 05:43 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mercyilori on 20-10-2010 05:32 PM
AT POSTER ARE YOU A BREADWINE?
IF THE POSTER IS A BREADWINE SHE SHOULD BE IN A BOTTLE
Posted: at 20-10-2010 05:43 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 20-10-2010 05:47 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mallorca on 20-10-2010 05:33 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 20-10-2010 05:22 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 20-10-2010 05:04 PM
A. is it okay 4 women 2 be breadwinas?  B. MEn: if d tides turn n u found ursef in a similar situation,will u be com4table alowing ur woman be d breadwina? c. whats d impact of d switch in a relationship/marriagae? many men feels dat whn these occurs,women stops respecting dem--is dat true? 

lets hear what u think..

Women are meant to be HELPERS........MAN's punishment for disobeying God was to TILL the ground for food, no more provision by the Almighty......that means HE should provide, he should be the MAIN provider.....his wife is to support.

Real MEN dont feel comfortable with such switch..........

It is normal for the man to feel threatened by such a switch becos Power comes with RESPONSIBILITIES........in other words, when you have been vested with RESPONSIBILITY of providing for the family, you have been indirectly been vested with some POWERS.....For sure, our men are afraid of losing their POWERS to their women......

PERSONALLY........I dont want to be the MAIN breadwinner......I just wanna support.............

someone want to run away from her responsibllities

O Y O for you........my MAIN responsibility is to have kids.........and then make sure they are properly brought up......as for providing for the family, it is the man's MAIN responsibility.....and I am to support.........if I like self I fit fold my hands..........

Posted: at 20-10-2010 05:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 20-10-2010 06:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Nothing wrong with that!

Posted: at 20-10-2010 06:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- macgreat at 20-10-2010 06:18 PM (14 years ago)
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Reading. . .


Posted: at 20-10-2010 06:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 20-10-2010 06:19 PM (14 years ago)
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Personaly i dont wanna b d one who bring d highest salary....

my priority is my home....like DP said, i can support...

For d women who r d breadwinners, dont make ur man feel less over it
cos i knw som of dem talk to their guy as if they b houseboy
Posted: at 20-10-2010 06:19 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- justceetah at 20-10-2010 06:39 PM (14 years ago)
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There's nothing wrong in dat especially if d man cannot live up to his task.But in my own case,na God Forbid

Posted: at 20-10-2010 06:39 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Beauti4 at 20-10-2010 07:27 PM (14 years ago)
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Women are made to b Multiplicators. IF a man give her a house, she will give him home. IF he offers her money, she will give him meal, if he give am belle, she will give am pikin. But incase anything happen in a way that the man cannot provide for the family like b4 then it only takes a virgues woman to stand in the Breadwinning Position. The man was made to gain favor from God only if he is matured (spiritually) enough to handle life. So i think most men will not allow their woman to bcome the bread winner. And she do, then they will feel belittle. Men needs to learn o...
Posted: at 20-10-2010 07:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- macgreat at 20-10-2010 07:30 PM (14 years ago)
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Beauti , wetin you wan multiply this afternoon?

You on point with that one. . . though, i no read am finish Tongue


Posted: at 20-10-2010 07:30 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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