BRIDEPRICE FROM WOMEN. RIGHT OR WRONG? (Page 3)

Date: 25-10-2010 4:54 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Emmanuel Tawah
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- Emmandazie at 26-10-2010 08:57 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 25-10-2010 06:21 PM
Hmmmmmmm yes support the wedding but not brideprice.
Remember her participation for the brideprice is only known between her & the guy!
Posted: at 26-10-2010 08:57 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xena15 at 26-10-2010 09:13 AM (14 years ago)
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I dunno,bt i no fit!
I can assist in any little way i can.
Posted: at 26-10-2010 09:13 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xena15 at 26-10-2010 09:14 AM (14 years ago)
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I dunno,bt i no fit!
I can assist in any little way i can.
Posted: at 26-10-2010 09:14 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MsCurious at 26-10-2010 12:23 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: solojaro on 25-10-2010 05:25 PM
It is not good for a woman to pay for her bride price. There will be no respect for the man as a husband, it will means that the has now becomes the husband and the he will never have any say in that marriage. but I believe that in some countries women do pay for their husband bride price but how true it is is what I do not know.
I live in America and here the tradition is that the father of the bride pays for the wedding, But all fathers cant afford so it is common for both bride and groom to contribute to wedding expenses. It is also common for women to have higher income than the man, so the man is not expected to carry such a load alone. Here Marriage is viewed as a partnership and it is ok for both to contribute equally. No one will ever know who paid what except the bride and groom anyway.
Posted: at 26-10-2010 12:23 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- blessedme at 26-10-2010 12:41 PM (14 years ago)
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that is the white man tradition
Posted: at 26-10-2010 12:41 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- MsCurious at 26-10-2010 01:03 PM (14 years ago)
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I WAS NOT BORN OR RAISED IN NAIJA SO THIS IS THE TRADITIONS I WAS RASED WITH. IT IS NOT WHITE TRADITION IT IS AMERICAN TRADITION.
Posted: at 26-10-2010 01:03 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- blessedme at 26-10-2010 01:17 PM (14 years ago)
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wat am saying is that it is not an African tradition
An african tradition states that a man goes to marry a woman and pay her bride price
Posted: at 26-10-2010 01:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- MsCurious at 26-10-2010 01:26 PM (14 years ago)
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WHAT IF HE IS POOR AND SHE IS RICH? DOES THE SAME STILL APPLY?
Posted: at 26-10-2010 01:26 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- mydicksweet at 26-10-2010 03:50 PM (14 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 26-10-2010 03:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 27-10-2010 01:24 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 26-10-2010 08:57 AM
Quote from: onyin on 25-10-2010 06:21 PM
Hmmmmmmm yes support the wedding but not brideprice.
Remember her participation for the brideprice is only known between her & the guy!
I know,but I cant.If the list for the brideprice is too much for him,he can negotiate with my family.I know my family will listen.
Posted: at 27-10-2010 01:24 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mydicksweet at 27-10-2010 01:30 AM (14 years ago)
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Talk i'm listening...... Smiley Smiley
Posted: at 27-10-2010 01:30 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 27-10-2010 01:33 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mydicksweet on 27-10-2010 01:30 AM
Talk i'm listening...... Smiley Smiley
lol.Listenin to wat?
Posted: at 27-10-2010 01:33 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mydicksweet at 27-10-2010 01:37 AM (14 years ago)
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What ur family would say when........................... Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 27-10-2010 01:37 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 27-10-2010 01:42 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mydicksweet on 27-10-2010 01:37 AM
What ur family would say when........................... Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
lol.oh ok.
Posted: at 27-10-2010 01:42 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mydicksweet at 27-10-2010 01:45 AM (14 years ago)
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Lolz how was ur day today?
Posted: at 27-10-2010 01:45 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 27-10-2010 01:47 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mydicksweet on 27-10-2010 01:45 AM
Lolz how was ur day today?
Fine,thx.And yours?.Actually today just started ,its just 2:00am.
Posted: at 27-10-2010 01:47 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mydicksweet at 27-10-2010 02:00 AM (14 years ago)
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Ur welcome.mine is great and yea it's true will soon go marry my bed as usual pretty soon
Posted: at 27-10-2010 02:00 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 27-10-2010 02:08 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mydicksweet on 27-10-2010 02:00 AM
Ur welcome.mine is great and yea it's true will soon go marry my bed as usual pretty soon
lol.Well,i'm off to bed now.Good nite and sweet dreams. Wink
Posted: at 27-10-2010 02:08 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mydicksweet at 27-10-2010 02:13 AM (14 years ago)
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Same too u dear will soon be on my way aswell...........
Posted: at 27-10-2010 02:13 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Won1 at 27-10-2010 11:36 AM (14 years ago)
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Before i believe the woman should assist the man with any other things but not the bride price bc the man may tell you 2morrow that he was not ready but u forced him.

But in a situation whereby the woman is desperate, age is not also on her side and the man really wants to settle down with her but have no money. Giving her man money to pay the bride price should't be a problem since she needs this marriage more than the man.
Posted: at 27-10-2010 11:36 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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