![-]( "Vixenx") Vixenx at 31-03-2008 11:47 PM (16 years ago)  (f) Dear Friend,
I am writing all the way from the UK, your story is quite touching and i do really smphytise with you in all sincerity of heart.
Please i will advise you not to go, for obviouse reason
1. For the fact the your ex new guy knows you and because he is rich he decided to use that as a yarstic for causing you pain, heart break and subsequently breaking your relationship.
2. Your girl has cheated on you and she got her desire out of life living you in the state that you are by making you feel guilty and there about capitalising on your short falls instead of her helping you grow and support your vision about life. her support, encouragement and love was all that matters.
My advice for you is this, your girl did not only leave you, she left you with a challenge what is this challenge, make a huge success out of your life, work harder than you use to be, make money because that is what every woman is looking for ''MONEY'' and let her she that you have close every gap totally, don't be remourceful about anything, but thank God she left too soon and not when both of you are married, otherwise it would have been worse. But above all things hold on to God he has it all, always pray for your ex and keep wishing her and her family well at all time, but remember no hard feelings, cos one day we will all meet at a junction.
Finally, use the past mistakes in your relationship and the the pain you went through as a lesson as well and use it to correct every other one that will come by and please do not see every woman as the same, who ever you meet show her love much more than you ever did, remember like attrack like.
You can send me a private message leave a number and i will call you.
Remember you have seen the mistake don't loose the lesson.
All the best
Val (London, UK)
This is definitely going to help someone.... | Posted: at 31-03-2008 11:47 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "myragonza") myragonza at 1-04-2008 09:12 AM (16 years ago) (f) yeah....thats really nice of him...Kudos!!!
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![-]( "lightest") lightest at 1-04-2008 09:47 AM (16 years ago) (m) Hello to all in the house. am Ayo and just joing Naijapals. I guess this is a classical topic that do happen to commited guy and ladies everdayday. As for me, I heard my own share of it last year that the girl that made me stopped so many things like hanging around and drinking said she is no more intrested only to date a guy she met in NYSC camp and you could imagine they dated less than two months. My world was like... but am over it now. To cut this long story shot, my guy, you have to go to that wedding and make sure you give her a tangible present that she will always see to remember you all the time. And as vinex said earlier its going to be a challenge that you must work harder and and be steadfast don't do anything silly and be commited to your God. One day, you know what you will walk up to her and say " THANKS FOR NOT MARRYING ME" hope you know what that means. all the best | Posted: at 1-04-2008 09:47 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "myragonza") myragonza at 1-04-2008 09:56 AM (16 years ago) (f) wow....thats classic....simple but sharp...
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hey, i don't know hw she looks ok, but i realy want u to go on this wedding looking exra-very good looking, buy her d gift she'll never expect from u,. give her a kiss on her hand in fron of husband to be... make sure u conduct urself very well with a pretty lady with you.... don't spend much time n live for ur house immediately,. go have a good day or sleep if u've nothng 2 do,. trust me.. u can lyn on me... i'll ait 4 ur reply.. cheers.. a friend. About a year ago, my honey left me for another rich guy all in the name that she want to get married by 25. first of all i'm not ripe enouch finacially for marriage and i keep telling her getting wedded at that age is not the issue but the blissfulness thereof....... all of a sudden my wolrd tuned upside and no fomular worked any longer.... friends, family and well wishers intervened all to no avail.... at this point the only thing she knows how to do is to capitalised on my shutcomings.... When it got to the point that i discovered i will just die for nothing , i decided to accept my fate! months latter we started communicating - she realised her mistake and i realised mine and improved seriously on the quality of my life... We talk everytime on phone except this few eeks , i tried to smoothen d odd between her ,friend and my family... The funniest part is that the new guy knows me well - right from the time i was tight with the girl but i never knew him. Her wedding ceremony is coming up this month and a copy of invitation has been brought to us.... but i do not think i can stand been at the ceremony for now....... what do u think i can do..............
| Posted: at 2-04-2008 10:27 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Vixenx") Vixenx at 3-04-2008 01:29 AM (16 years ago) (f) No comment  | Posted: at 3-04-2008 01:29 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "myragonza") myragonza at 3-04-2008 07:35 AM (16 years ago) (f) Do i attend my ex- future lover wedding?
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![-]( "cutedilly") cutedilly at 3-04-2008 09:01 AM (16 years ago) (f) i think .its necessary cod i think b4 breaking up with him or her both of u have decided to stay off.so tyring to avoid his wedding is not too good. ok let me ask this WAT IF HIS WIFE OR HUSBAND TO BE IS UR RELATIVE? WILL U STILL ATTEND OR QUIT? | Posted: at 3-04-2008 09:01 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "myragonza") myragonza at 3-04-2008 10:35 AM (16 years ago) (f) i will pretend that i have a flight on that day....i will just take a trip to somewhere close and come back again...lmao
| Posted: at 3-04-2008 10:35 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Vixenx") Vixenx at 3-04-2008 04:27 PM (16 years ago) (f) i think .its necessary cod i think b4 breaking up with him or her both of u have decided to stay off.so tyring to avoid his wedding is not too good.
ok let me ask this WAT IF HIS WIFE OR HUSBAND TO BE IS UR RELATIVE?
WILL U STILL ATTEND OR QUIT?
yes | Posted: at 3-04-2008 04:27 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "ugodaniels") ugodaniels at 3-04-2008 10:27 PM (16 years ago) (m) at the original poster, you try oo, kudos to ya dragon, may you strike and never miss,lol!
You can lose a lot of MONEY chasing girls but can NEVER lose girls chasing money!! | Posted: at 3-04-2008 10:27 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "myragonza") myragonza at 4-04-2008 09:46 AM (16 years ago) (f) at the original poster, you try oo, kudos to ya dragon, may you strike and never miss,lol! so what should the dragon look out for....
| Posted: at 4-04-2008 09:46 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "mr_trips") mr_trips at 4-04-2008 10:05 AM (16 years ago) (m) MAIN THIS WEDDING WILL WIN A HEAVY AWARD. I MOST ATTEND TO SEE THE WHOLE THING HAPPEN IN MY FACE | Posted: at 4-04-2008 10:05 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Hello House, This is Valentine76 again writting all the way from London, since i discovered this site i always want to say one or two things, this topic is really interesting.....! Let me tell everyone saying ''I will attend the wedding'', i am not sure these people has really love someone, if you have really loved without compromised and you are jilted on the long run, honestly it first goes with heart break, very fatal one except you don't have a heart, then it follows with anger and hatred, it takes the grace of God to overcome, only the grace of God. Going to the wedding will hurt you more, why then do you want to go through it and hurt your emotions again, remember she has moved on, you will only live with the memories, all that matters to him/her is the life after marriage, while you go into hidding and live in pain and emotional distress. Take the time going to the wedding to plan your own life and move on too, but do remember to send a gift across to her any how still let her know how much you do really care and wish her well in her marital life simple...! | Posted: at 4-04-2008 07:08 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "ugodaniels") ugodaniels at 6-04-2008 07:17 AM (16 years ago) (m) at the original poster, you try oo, kudos to ya dragon, may you strike and never miss,lol! so what should the dragon look out for.... offcourse the softest and sweetest part of an okpeke 
You can lose a lot of MONEY chasing girls but can NEVER lose girls chasing money!! | Posted: at 6-04-2008 07:17 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Vixenx") Vixenx at 6-04-2008 02:26 PM (16 years ago) (f) @valentine76..plz keep going | Posted: at 6-04-2008 02:26 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "myragonza") myragonza at 7-04-2008 08:23 AM (16 years ago) (f) @Ugo.....do u happen to know any Valentine in ur place....since he is "writing from UK".....
| Posted: at 7-04-2008 08:23 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "daryl") daryl at 7-04-2008 05:19 PM (16 years ago) (m) About a year ago, my honey left me for another rich guy all in the name that she want to get married by 25. first of all i'm not ripe enouch finacially for marriage and i keep telling her getting wedded at that age is not the issue but the blissfulness thereof....... all of a sudden my wolrd tuned upside and no fomular worked any longer.... friends, family and well wishers intervened all to no avail.... at this point the only thing she knows how to do is to capitalised on my shutcomings.... When it got to the point that i discovered i will just die for nothing , i decided to accept my fate! months latter we started communicating - she realised her mistake and i realised mine and improved seriously on the quality of my life... We talk everytime on phone except this few eeks , i tried to smoothen d odd between her ,friend and my family... The funniest part is that the new guy knows me well - right from the time i was tight with the girl but i never knew him. Her wedding ceremony is coming up this month and a copy of invitation has been brought to us.... but i do not think i can stand been at the ceremony for now....... what do u think i can do..............
If you're completely over it,then sure, go ahead. might as well take your new girl(if u've got one) along while u're at it.but from the look of things, u aint up to it emotionally.no point putting yourself thru any trauma cuz of sme chick.... ma advice is, call her up or send a sme kinda message wishing her well n all,but skip the wedding. | Posted: at 7-04-2008 05:19 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "myragonza") myragonza at 8-04-2008 07:28 AM (16 years ago) (f) do u actually have to call and wish her...its all unnecessary....there are other profitable important things to do.....
| Posted: at 8-04-2008 07:28 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "daryl") daryl at 8-04-2008 11:03 AM (16 years ago) (m) well no, it ain't necessary.But it's the best way for him to get some closure | Posted: at 8-04-2008 11:03 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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