CULTURE (Page 3)

Date: 17-12-2010 9:17 am (14 years ago) | Author: Vivian Johnson
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- MissyBarbie at 17-12-2010 10:38 AM (14 years ago)
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Well i dont think i know anything about marriage and culture....So let me learn oooo
Posted: at 17-12-2010 10:38 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 17-12-2010 10:39 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: preciouslyme on 17-12-2010 10:37 AM
even people from the same home are different and may even fight but with culture differences in a relationship it boils down to love, respect, understanding and compromising for things to work out otherwise we fit kill each other Smiley

Hmmmmm.
Posted: at 17-12-2010 10:39 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 17-12-2010 10:39 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: preciouslyme on 17-12-2010 10:37 AM
even people from the same home are different and may even fight but with culture differences in a relationship it boils down to love, respect, understanding and compromising for things to work out otherwise we fit kill each other Smiley
Grin
Posted: at 17-12-2010 10:39 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 17-12-2010 10:41 AM (14 years ago)
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lol

Posted: at 17-12-2010 10:41 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 17-12-2010 10:42 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: solojaro on 17-12-2010 10:07 AM
Homes are crambling now are days because cultures are no longer respected.

Correct talk
Posted: at 17-12-2010 10:42 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Priceless-jewel at 17-12-2010 10:44 AM (14 years ago)
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........
Posted: at 17-12-2010 10:44 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- preciouslyme at 17-12-2010 11:07 AM (14 years ago)
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Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?
Posted: at 17-12-2010 11:07 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 17-12-2010 11:18 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 17-12-2010 10:01 AM
Interracial marriages are more difficult, simply because u think different, reason different,

act different.... U both have to be realy comitted if u want to make it work! --> hard work and a lot of understanding!


MAMAFLY, I LOVE THIS.
Posted: at 17-12-2010 11:18 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 17-12-2010 11:20 AM (14 years ago)
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mama fly?

Posted: at 17-12-2010 11:20 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Treasure2 at 17-12-2010 11:22 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: solojaro on 17-12-2010 10:07 AM
Homes are crambling now are days because cultures are no longer respected.

@SOLO, CULTURES ARE NO LONGER RESPECTED BC PPLE TAKE IS TO BE OLD FASHION.
Posted: at 17-12-2010 11:22 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 17-12-2010 11:23 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 17-12-2010 10:08 AM
Quote from: solojaro on 17-12-2010 10:07 AM
Homes are crambling now are days because cultures are no longer respected.
Not respected while living in ur home country ?

FASHION HAS TAKEN OVER.
Posted: at 17-12-2010 11:23 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 17-12-2010 11:24 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 17-12-2010 10:10 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 17-12-2010 10:09 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 17-12-2010 10:06 AM
BS, yes dear both, 50-50  Smiley

Sophie, u knw it is not easy for both sides,  d person who is abroad dating wit a local it is dificult for both of dem...


Yeah! but atleast na.. the already oriented person can teach
Teaching  a stubborn person is not easy!  Smiley Not everybody is ready to accept an other culture
and live less like ur own... which is also not what they ask for, but there must be understanding and reasoning!


THAT IS THE PROBLEM, REASONING.
Posted: at 17-12-2010 11:24 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 17-12-2010 11:26 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 17-12-2010 10:17 AM
Quote from: solojaro on 17-12-2010 10:14 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 17-12-2010 10:08 AM
Quote from: solojaro on 17-12-2010 10:07 AM
Homes are crambling now are days because cultures are no longer respected.
Not respected while living in ur home country ?

Yes, some family no longer has that value any longer.
I can see things changing in my own country, u have the same feeling? I thought many Nigerians
still live like their grand parents and older sef? that they still respect the same culture...


NOT EVERY WHERE MY DEAR.
Posted: at 17-12-2010 11:26 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 17-12-2010 11:28 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: preciouslyme on 17-12-2010 10:37 AM
even people from the same home are different and may even fight but with culture differences in a relationship it boils down to love, respect, understanding and compromising for things to work out otherwise we fit kill each other Smiley

HMMMM, NO KILL OOO
Posted: at 17-12-2010 11:28 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 17-12-2010 11:30 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 17-12-2010 11:20 AM
mama fly?

NA U KNW.
Posted: at 17-12-2010 11:30 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 17-12-2010 11:32 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 17-12-2010 11:18 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 17-12-2010 10:01 AM
Interracial marriages are more difficult, simply because u think different, reason different,

act different.... U both have to be realy comitted if u want to make it work! --> hard work and a lot of understanding!


MAMAFLY, I LOVE THIS.

Abeg na who be mamafly here?
Posted: at 17-12-2010 11:32 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 17-12-2010 11:33 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 17-12-2010 10:06 AM
BS, yes dear both, 50-50  Smiley

Sophie, u knw it is not easy for both sides,  d person who is abroad dating wit a local it is dificult for both of dem...


Indeed! Smiley

Posted: at 17-12-2010 11:33 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 17-12-2010 11:40 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on 17-12-2010 11:32 AM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 17-12-2010 11:18 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 17-12-2010 10:01 AM
Interracial marriages are more difficult, simply because u think different, reason different,

act different.... U both have to be realy comitted if u want to make it work! --> hard work and a lot of understanding!


MAMAFLY, I LOVE THIS.

Abeg na who be mamafly here?

NA WETIN BE UNA OWN SEF.
Posted: at 17-12-2010 11:40 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 17-12-2010 11:50 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 17-12-2010 09:17 AM
Culture is something that a person learns from his family and surroundings, and is not ingrained in him from birth.

Every society has a different culture, where people share a specific language, traditions, behaviors, perceptions and beliefs. Culture gives them an identity which makes them unique and different from people of other cultures.

When people of different cultures migrate and settle in another society, the culture of that society becomes the dominant culture and those of the immigrants form the subculture of the community. Usually, people who settle in other nations imbibe the new culture, while at the same time strive to preserve their own.
Why is it that many people are loosing their marriage because of CULTURE?

Well, it is easier to drop your culture for a foreign one if you are a kid/teenager............but if you are a full grown man/woman, you find yourself holding on tightly to your culture even though you are in another man's land.........I take myself for example, I grew up away from my home town, so it is easy for me to imbibe the culture of the owners of the land.......but in my own case, I was choosy, I took up some and I dropped some........that way am able to fit in in my tribe's culture and in adopted culture........

Having said the underlined, i think it is easy to see why marriages are destroyed becos of different cultures!.........

Posted: at 17-12-2010 11:50 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- truenaija2 at 17-12-2010 11:53 AM (14 years ago)
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yeah its possible for people to loose their marriage bcos of this cos u r obliged to integrate into this strange and culture from urs its difficult to b submissive its difficult to change  and to adapt to this changes totally and when there is no sacrifice from one or both couples to integrate and accept the culture of the other person a totally different way of life its difficult to live together and to accept the things the other party does and to accept one another love is sacrifice patience trust tolerance humility and acceptance these qualities must come into play for the success of such relationship
Posted: at 17-12-2010 11:53 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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