Help ... I am pregnant for him but ..... (Page 21)

But u were against abortion in one topic, are u encouraging it.

Na correct babe u be, abeg rock on.

Forgiving people means that u pardon them or renounce anger/ resentment against  them...it doesnt mean that u av to take them back.
I will buy that excuse of (becuz of lust), if he did it once/ twice...this other woman was practically acting like his wife, cooking, laundry and doing him. I guess it depends on what his commitment is to his fiance, if all he promised is marriage, then he is alrite. But if he ever promised to b faithful then he is in breach big time. I noe it is not easy n all men get tempted, but the diff btw one that luvs n respect his woman n one that doesnt is the struggle to RESIST temptation. He doesnt have to b successful all the time, just gotta try really hard n from what I av heard of this he-goat is that he is not trying @ all. Plus, he is not even trying to protect his woman cuz if he was he wont be sticking his thing (w/o protection) into sum other woman esp w/o protection.

I cab go on and on cuz i really cant stand men like that

when u give birth to a baby u loose ur shape u become a nightmare of urself u become secondhand no nigerian guy will want to  marry you if you want to also b marRied one day pls dont destroy yourself in d name of onenightstand sex u had with an irresponsible hegoat and u r der for another person other than urself  24 hours  d financial aspect of bringing up a child  d suffering u will go through raising up dis child as a single parents dis idiot doesnt deserve all dis stress he has his life u loose ur own life my advice delete every memory of this guy and move on with ur life BE WISE!!!!!!

   IS NOT EVERY BODY THAT  GAVE  BIRTH  LOSE  SHAPE, AM A  MOTHER , I  STILL  LOOK  GOOD  AFTER  GIVEN  BIRT  ENYWAY  THAT  IS  NOT  THE  ISSUE, THE ISSUE HERE IS THE CONSEQUENCES SHE IS GOING TO  FACE ,FOR  REAL  ARE  U PUTING  THE BLAM ON THE GUY, CHECK  THIS  OUT ,WHAT WAS SHE  DOING ALL THAT FOR, IF  NOT TO IMPRESSED  THE  GUY OF COURSE, WHEN SHE  KNWS HE IS IN A RELATIOSHIP, I ONLY FEEL FOR THE UNBORN  CHILD, AND I WILL  ADVICE HER  TO  KEEP  THE  BABY , TALKING ABOUT SUFFERING , BOTH  OF  THEM ARE  GOING  TO  SUFFER   FOR  THEIR ACT, COS  THERE IS  A POSSIBILITY THAT  THE  GUY  WILL LOSE IS   WIFE  TO  BE IF SHE GET TO KNW,  AND  IS  NOT  GOING  TO  BE  EASY  FOR THE GIRL  TO  TAKE CARE  OF  THE   BABY.