Help ... I am pregnant for him but ..... (Page 7)

Hahahaha Oga u dey make me laugh u dey say in case of other time wey the 1 wey dey ground big pass babalawo juju work

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Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:00 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I guess its true what they both did was stupidity in the highest order.

Chances of his fiancee marrying him are slim to none (if she finds out before the wedding)

Chances of him marrying her was already zero/null from the start.

Chances of him and her getting married after the birth are even slimmer than zero/null (He'll be mad, furious, upset at her for breaking his future relation with the now ex-fiancee, and potentially hate the child in the near future -this is subject the change once he realizes the child is here to stay) - I am not sure of Nigeria child support laws but I don't believe they are easily enforceable/enforced - so chances of support from him for the child may be even slimmer still

Lastly, it may be only my opinion but chances of her getting married with a child to another man are now also slimmer

Yes, I understand she wants to keep the child - and i applaud her pro-life choices but she also has to understand being a single mum in Nigeria is hard, and raising a child without a father is not the most ideal condition for a child.

I have seen many single families and the difficulty of raising a child as a single parent, its not easy - but needless to say if her stupidity ends at this - that child will be to most important thing in the world to her.

Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:05 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

So far d guy dey make earnings.........there must be some grants 4rm him account to d welfare per month........hmm u no kw welfare ohh,u must ,i don witness dis kind issue in onitsha b/4

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Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Dis is no matter of playin smart unless say na 4 naija wey corruption full,but i don witness dis in onitsha b/4 n the guy is still payin uptill date,
Here in Yankee pple wey marry americans to get green kpali no dey try sleep wit their wives,cos if they do e fit result in pregnancy n u go pay welfare 4 18yrs n no where 2 run,unless u go leave here comot then u r free.but within the states u r going no where u must pay

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Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:23 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

the welfare around here are handicapped...........if the guy wants, he can flee and the girl will do nothing..........at least it happened to someone I know who tried to force the guy to take care of the pregnancy (a pregnancy he acknowledged and agreed to).........but when he went to the welfare only once, I dont know what happened, but he took to his heels..........

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Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

I dey tell u say i don witness dis child welfare support 4 onitsha anambra state........n u dey tell me e no fit happen.maybe no be d same force go follow the two...but i don observe am 4 naija b/4........moreova if she delete her mind of welfare can u fund the protocols

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Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@POINTZERO.That one you witnessed happened becos the guy wanted to.I mean the guy feels like paying for child support not becos of the law or anything..Its as simple as ABC,she dont need any drama.the little money she will use in running after child's support ,let her keep it and start a lil savings or business.Nigeria is a lawless country.If that guy run away now ,no body fit catch am.why?.becos no data or records of people,not even "CCTV".Even the police no go even dey bothered to go find am.and she get money to bribe people?..I dont think so.You get me.

Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:40 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

GBAM!

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Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

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Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

hu tell u say na my friend....................i no knw her jare

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Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac