There's this friend of my, who got married 5years ago; during our chat, he told me, that he's still seeing the lady (Lady A) he went out with before getting married; I was astonish hearing that!, 'cos i know the wife, from my own perspective she (the wife/Lady B) got all it takes, both in terms of beauty and wife material stuffs:
I told him if you so love this other lady, you she have got married to her, instead of your present wife..., you courted both of them and decide to settle for Lady B (the wife); He responds was, over my dead body will i settle for Lady A, but at the same time, i find it difficult letting her go, 'cos i have tried severally to stop seeing her, at the end of the day, i still find myself in her arms; I quit agreed with you that my wife got all it takes, but all the same something is missing somewhere....., you wouldn't get it, he added:
The essence of courtship is to figure out things... before tying knot..., we all know that no one is perfect (i:e no ideal woman/man); but at the same time, i think, E:g if out of 10 characteristic we need..., we find say 7 in one particular person; why will one get stuck with a fellow that has 4, when he already tie the knot, with the one that has 7?. It suck!; Moreover, i found out, that he's not ready to quit Lady A, 'Cos when i asked him, how will you handle things, if your wife finds out? he said, how will she..? you are not gonna tell her, will you?
So my question is, WHY TYING THE KNOT, WITH THE FELLOW YOU DON'T REALLY LOVE/WANT?
Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:16 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 18-12-2010 12:22 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Safety?
Live and let live!
Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
nellygold at 18-12-2010 12:50 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: SNYPER on 18-12-2010 12:26 PM
inability to make the right choice.
i think d guy needs deliverance, he is in bondage.
Believe me, if you ask me or if am a man, i wouldn't say is a wrong choice, they wife is doing all she can, to the extend of changing Religion, you and I know how hard that can be b/w Christian and Muslim, but she did it; other men are envying his wife, yet.....
Posted: at 18-12-2010 12:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Lady A is very good in bed.And he loves his wife very well.A man can cheat and still go back home to love his wife,becos for most of them cheating is nothing.Its more like having fun.but such men,only God can heal them.
Posted: at 18-12-2010 01:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
nellygold at 18-12-2010 01:14 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: onyin on 18-12-2010 01:01 PM
Lady A is very good in bed.And he loves his wife very well.A man can cheat and still go back home to love his wife,becos for most of them cheating is nothing.Its more like having fun.but such men,only God can heal them.
ure! my dear; she might be good in bed, but that's very bad of him, because whatever his getting from Lady A, the wife can equally give it to him, if he can be very open to her; cheating is cheating No one can be justify for doing that, be it a man or woman
Posted: at 18-12-2010 01:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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