WHY TYING THE KNOT, WITH THE FELLOW YOU DON'T LOVE? (Page 2)

Date: 18-12-2010 12:16 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Nellygold:2 love is 2 heal...
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- FlyMamacita at 18-12-2010 01:41 PM (14 years ago)
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BS u dont knw if it is dirty or perverse.... He shud open up to his wife and talk!
Posted: at 18-12-2010 01:41 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyin at 18-12-2010 01:43 PM (14 years ago)
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Lady A is very good in bed.And he loves his wife very well.A man can cheat and still go back home to love his wife,becos for most of them cheating is nothing.Its more like having fun.but such men,only God can heal them.

ure! my dear;  she might be good in bed, but that's very bad of him, because whatever his getting from Lady A, the wife can equally give it to him, if he can be very open to her; cheating is cheating No one can be justify for doing that, be it a man or woman
We keep blaming the men,but wat about the women they cheat with.I mean most of all this women are the ones responsible for all this.If lady A can sit him down,talk to him and send him back home.trust he will change.it takes two to tangle.
Posted: at 18-12-2010 01:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 18-12-2010 01:43 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:41 PM
BS u dont knw if it is dirty or perverse.... He shud open up to his wife and talk!

I bet he is,otherwise he would ask them from his wife!
Probably he likes who knows what dirty craps!

Posted: at 18-12-2010 01:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- nellygold at 18-12-2010 01:44 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:33 PM
If only a man will learn to open up to his wife!!

I guess the only thing he need from lady A is sex, maybe his wife is doing something wrong there...

Why can't he just talk to her about it, give her the chance to save her marriage!


Yaa opening-up is sure the key, but i think he may be shying away from that
Posted: at 18-12-2010 01:44 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 18-12-2010 01:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 01:03 PM
@ Blessedme and HearMyCry, i know, but do you guys, think that his reasons are justify?
no
Posted: at 18-12-2010 01:45 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 18-12-2010 01:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:43 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:41 PM
BS u dont knw if it is dirty or perverse.... He shud open up to his wife and talk!

I bet he is,otherwise he would ask them from his wife!
Probably he likes who knows what dirty craps!

U dont knw wat it is... Som men r rily not dat talking type u knw, not even to their wives!
Posted: at 18-12-2010 01:46 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 18-12-2010 01:47 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 01:44 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:33 PM
If only a man will learn to open up to his wife!!

I guess the only thing he need from lady A is sex, maybe his wife is doing something wrong there...

Why can't he just talk to her about it, give her the chance to save her marriage!


Yaa opening-up is sure the key, but i think he may be shying away from that
Yes i think so too! And lady A (like Onyin said) should send him home!

And his wife should open her eyes and realise there is something going on!

Posted: at 18-12-2010 01:47 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 18-12-2010 01:49 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:46 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:43 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:41 PM
BS u dont knw if it is dirty or perverse.... He shud open up to his wife and talk!

I bet he is,otherwise he would ask them from his wife!
Probably he likes who knows what dirty craps!

U dont knw wat it is... Som men r rily not dat talking type u knw, not even to their wives!


I know that men have problems with opening up,but he should have tried talking with her wife about what he wants instead of cheating!
That's why I assume that maybe it's something really nasty, but no matter what would be, he really lacks conscience!

Posted: at 18-12-2010 01:49 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 18-12-2010 01:50 PM (14 years ago)
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 safety and a mysterious reason i guess

Posted: at 18-12-2010 01:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- nellygold at 18-12-2010 01:51 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:38 PM
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Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:25 PM
Fool guy!

I came to realized lot peoples are into such, as a person can way of s** make u be infidel? i mean is it enough reason to cheat?

Probably he respects his wife too much to ask her to do who knows what dirty stuffs!
Libidinous and perverse guy!
 


If i were the wife, i will be glad to know what was that about s**, that get him attracted to other women...., i ill try to reach a compromise to save my marriage, but when he's not opening-up, all in the name of respect, i don't buy the idea,
Posted: at 18-12-2010 01:51 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 18-12-2010 01:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:49 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:46 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:43 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:41 PM
BS u dont knw if it is dirty or perverse.... He shud open up to his wife and talk!

I bet he is,otherwise he would ask them from his wife!
Probably he likes who knows what dirty craps!

U dont knw wat it is... Som men r rily not dat talking type u knw, not even to their wives!


I know that men have problems with opening up,but he should have tried talking with her wife about what he wants instead of cheating!
That's why I assume that maybe it's something really nasty, but no matter what would be, he really lacks conscience!

Agreed! He shudn hav done wat he did!
Posted: at 18-12-2010 01:52 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 18-12-2010 01:54 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 01:51 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:38 PM
Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 01:31 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:25 PM
Fool guy!

I came to realized lot peoples are into such, as a person can way of s** make u be infidel? i mean is it enough reason to cheat?

Probably he respects his wife too much to ask her to do who knows what dirty stuffs!
Libidinous and perverse guy!
 


If i were the wife, i will be glad to know what was that about s**, that get him attracted to other women...., i ill try to reach a compromise to save my marriage, but when he's not opening-up, all in the name of respect, i don't buy the idea,

Sure!
And see his definition for "respect "!

Posted: at 18-12-2010 01:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- nellygold at 18-12-2010 01:59 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 18-12-2010 01:43 PM
Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 01:14 PM
Quote from: onyin on 18-12-2010 01:01 PM
Lady A is very good in bed.And he loves his wife very well.A man can cheat and still go back home to love his wife,becos for most of them cheating is nothing.Its more like having fun.but such men,only God can heal them.

ure! my dear;  she might be good in bed, but that's very bad of him, because whatever his getting from Lady A, the wife can equally give it to him, if he can be very open to her; cheating is cheating No one can be justify for doing that, be it a man or woman
We keep blaming the men,but wat about the women they cheat with.I mean most of all this women are the ones responsible for all this.If lady A can sit him down,talk to him and send him back home.trust he will change.it takes two to tangle.

I wasn't blaming the men  Cheesy, that was why i said: cheating is cheating No one can be justify for doing that, be it a man or woman; Admitted that Lady A wasn't a helping matter here either, but if the man love the wife like he claim, he would have teach the wife whatever is it, his getting from lady A, am sure lady B will do that seeing how much she loves him  
Posted: at 18-12-2010 01:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- nellygold at 18-12-2010 02:06 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:47 PM
Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 01:44 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:33 PM
If only a man will learn to open up to his wife!!

I guess the only thing he need from lady A is sex, maybe his wife is doing something wrong there...

Why can't he just talk to her about it, give her the chance to save her marriage!


Yaa opening-up is sure the key, but i think he may be shying away from that
Yes i think so too! And lady A (like Onyin said) should send him home!

And his wife should open her eyes and realise there is something going on!




No matter how she open her eyes, there's no how she will know without being told, i mean from the way the man is handling it
Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:06 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 18-12-2010 02:11 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 02:06 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:47 PM
Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 01:44 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:33 PM
If only a man will learn to open up to his wife!!

I guess the only thing he need from lady A is sex, maybe his wife is doing something wrong there...

Why can't he just talk to her about it, give her the chance to save her marriage!


Yaa opening-up is sure the key, but i think he may be shying away from that
Yes i think so too! And lady A (like Onyin said) should send him home!

And his wife should open her eyes and realise there is something going on!




No matter how she open her eyes, there's no how she will know without being told, i mean from the way the man is handling it
Hmmm okay so he's good in what he does  Undecided

Why can't u talk to him in a way he will understand and stop wht he is doing?
Are u guys close so tht u can have conversation like dat ?

Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:11 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- nellygold at 18-12-2010 02:13 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:49 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:46 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:43 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:41 PM
BS u dont knw if it is dirty or perverse.... He shud open up to his wife and talk!

I bet he is,otherwise he would ask them from his wife!
Probably he likes who knows what dirty craps!

U dont knw wat it is... Som men r rily not dat talking type u knw, not even to their wives!


I know that men have problems with opening up,but he should have tried talking with her wife about what he wants instead of cheating!
That's why I assume that maybe it's something really nasty, but no matter what would be, he really lacks conscience!


You said it all

@ Iloveit: Naaaaaahhh is his wife, so he should be open to her no matter how misterious....., ....they are now one, no more two..., that what the Bible said, so he should free to share idea with her
Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 18-12-2010 02:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 01:59 PM
Quote from: onyin on 18-12-2010 01:43 PM
Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 01:14 PM
Quote from: onyin on 18-12-2010 01:01 PM
Lady A is very good in bed.And he loves his wife very well.A man can cheat and still go back home to love his wife,becos for most of them cheating is nothing.Its more like having fun.but such men,only God can heal them.

ure! my dear;  she might be good in bed, but that's very bad of him, because whatever his getting from Lady A, the wife can equally give it to him, if he can be very open to her; cheating is cheating No one can be justify for doing that, be it a man or woman
We keep blaming the men,but wat about the women they cheat with.I mean most of all this women are the ones responsible for all this.If lady A can sit him down,talk to him and send him back home.trust he will change.it takes two to tangle.

I wasn't blaming the men  Cheesy, that was why i said: cheating is cheating No one can be justify for doing that, be it a man or woman; Admitted that Lady A wasn't a helping matter here either, but if the man love the wife like he claim, he would have teach the wife whatever is it, his getting from lady A, am sure lady B will do that seeing how much she loves him  
I know.I got your point.I mentioned lady A cos she would have been of a great help.Becos seems like she's the one who is holding more power here.although the man can still avoid her and go back to his wife.Like I said such men needs prayers.And  his wife,hmmm you know sumtimes sum women tend to be too tight and serious after marriage.Probably she hardly give him sex,and she's too carried away with other stuff.I mean if your husband is cheating,no matter wat you will surely know.Tht's if you are really close to him and if you know him really well.I pray he changes though,befor his wife finds out and leave him.
Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- popo2009 at 18-12-2010 02:18 PM (14 years ago)
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thats their business not mine
Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:18 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 18-12-2010 02:20 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:52 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:49 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:46 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 01:43 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:41 PM
BS u dont knw if it is dirty or perverse.... He shud open up to his wife and talk!

I bet he is,otherwise he would ask them from his wife!
Probably he likes who knows what dirty craps!

U dont knw wat it is... Som men r rily not dat talking type u knw, not even to their wives!


I know that men have problems with opening up,but he should have tried talking with her wife about what he wants instead of cheating!
That's why I assume that maybe it's something really nasty, but no matter what would be, he really lacks conscience!

Agreed! He shudn hav done wat he did!


That's what happens when the flesh becomes stronger than the spirit!

Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- nellygold at 18-12-2010 02:28 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 02:11 PM
Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 02:06 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:47 PM
Quote from: nellygold on 18-12-2010 01:44 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 01:33 PM
If only a man will learn to open up to his wife!!

I guess the only thing he need from lady A is sex, maybe his wife is doing something wrong there...

Why can't he just talk to her about it, give her the chance to save her marriage!


Yaa opening-up is sure the key, but i think he may be shying away from that
Yes i think so too! And lady A (like Onyin said) should send him home!

And his wife should open her eyes and realise there is something going on!




No matter how she open her eyes, there's no how she will know without being told, i mean from the way the man is handling it
Hmmm okay so he's good in what he does  Undecided

Why can't u talk to him in a way he will understand and stop wht he is doing?
Are u guys close so tht u can have conversation like dat ?




Am close to both of them, the big problem there, is that both of them (husband and wife) seems to confide in me; and i do same to them 2, that's why there issue is eating me up, am feeling bad for the wife; sometimes i have the urge to give the wife a clue; but at same time i don't wanna be a betrayer; i 've tried talking to him, he told me that sincerely is not he's wish...; but that he can't help himself out
Posted: at 18-12-2010 02:28 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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