Inter-tribal marriage: What pain, what gain? (Page 8)

Date: 21-12-2010 10:39 am (13 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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- FlyMamacita at 22-12-2010 06:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ksurrina on 22-12-2010 05:54 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-12-2010 07:46 AM
Quote from: ksurrina on 22-12-2010 04:06 AM
For a change Edo wasn't mentioned. Anyway this guy is very dark and then he went and wear the BLACK SUIT. Couldn't his wife show him how to enhance his colour. When you have complexion like this you used colors to tone it down. He wore the BLACK SUIT that showed up his tone more. I hope it is love she married for and not because he maybe can give her a good life. We should take care of our men. Apparently she wasn't on the best day of her life. A fat lady will not wear an extra fat dress it will make her look odious. Instead she will wear something close fitting but not tight fitting. The first thing that attracted my attention was his blackness. He need a woman to take care of him. This wedding show that she isn't capable of doing this.
Awww dear i didn expect dis from u?

If he wanna wear blacker then black suit, why not? His wife shudn make him feel uncomfortable abt his skin colour
by telling him wat to wear and wat not! If a fat woman wanna wear sexy clothes, it is bcos she feels gud in dem!
Nobody shud make any comment abt it! Why is she not capable taking care of her man? Bcos she let him wear black suit??




When persons talk the truth some of you take offense and judge. A person who is black like this MUST or SHOULD wear clothes that will enhance his colour. Are you going to wear a Orange Blouse with a BRIGHT red Skirt. NO you will not. I was not talking either about SEXY clothes. I was just explaining that a woman who is FAT will not wear a suit that is big because she will look more fatter than who she really is. It is time our eyes are open to truth so that we can help each other. If he was my husband he would wearing a WHITE suit for his wedding. The white will articulate the blackness and then his wife would never have stand out. If my husband to be is this black when I eventually meet him face to face,  he will be wearing Traditional Colour that will enhance him at our wedding. This show that she is all about herself. There is no way a woman who loves a man will not help him to make himself look better.

Everytime I go to my fiancee pictures and look at them. There is a vast difference before he met me and during  our friendship. I don't know him Face to Face but yet my encouragement, prayers and the way I display my love for him makes him start to change. Love is more about living with someone or even being married. It is the impact that the Almighty God allow you to make an individual life. Hugs and blessings
Why cant i wear orange and red together? Bcos am white, and it wud be too bright? If it fits me, i will go for it  Cheesy But i understand ur point, i do.... But even putting him in a white suit, isn dat gonna make it worse, like it will reflect more on d white??

Anyway, u can also look at it from a different view, maybe she is proud of him being black like dis, and she dont want
him to look different or lighter....  Kiss

Posted: at 22-12-2010 06:29 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- olumbareal at 22-12-2010 06:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: missKalu on 22-12-2010 12:56 AM
hmmm i never reach to marry jare lolz.


What?Huh?Huh??? Stop dreaming and deceiving yourself. Ask your mum how old she was when she gave birth to you!!!


Cheiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii see assignment?
Posted: at 22-12-2010 06:30 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kuye10 at 22-12-2010 07:00 PM (13 years ago)
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it is an evidence and instrument of national developmnt
Posted: at 22-12-2010 07:00 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- mchinwendu at 22-12-2010 07:01 PM (13 years ago)
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ANYONE FROM ANYWHERE who does not tell their partner before marriage what they should know before marriage is creating trouble for themself!    The same, if two want to marry and are from different tribes, cultures, countries, etc. both must make sure to educate the other on things they NEED to know about the culture, norms, etc. before marriage, NOT AFTER.  It's the hidden things not shared that are bound to burst out after marriage that can and do cause serious damage and/or death to a relationship.   If both are fair and trust each other, disclosing the truth {necessary information to make the best decision for oneself} before marriage shows they truly love and have the other person's best interest at heart as well.     
Posted: at 22-12-2010 07:01 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ksurrina at 22-12-2010 07:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-12-2010 06:29 PM
Quote from: ksurrina on 22-12-2010 05:54 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 22-12-2010 07:46 AM
Quote from: ksurrina on 22-12-2010 04:06 AM
For a change Edo wasn't mentioned. Anyway this guy is very dark and then he went and wear the BLACK SUIT. Couldn't his wife show him how to enhance his colour. When you have complexion like this you used colors to tone it down. He wore the BLACK SUIT that showed up his tone more. I hope it is love she married for and not because he maybe can give her a good life. We should take care of our men. Apparently she wasn't on the best day of her life. A fat lady will not wear an extra fat dress it will make her look odious. Instead she will wear something close fitting but not tight fitting. The first thing that attracted my attention was his blackness. He need a woman to take care of him. This wedding show that she isn't capable of doing this.
Awww dear i didn expect dis from u?

If he wanna wear blacker then black suit, why not? His wife shudn make him feel uncomfortable abt his skin colour
by telling him wat to wear and wat not! If a fat woman wanna wear sexy clothes, it is bcos she feels gud in dem!
Nobody shud make any comment abt it! Why is she not capable taking care of her man? Bcos she let him wear black suit??




When persons talk the truth some of you take offense and judge. A person who is black like this MUST or SHOULD wear clothes that will enhance his colour. Are you going to wear a Orange Blouse with a BRIGHT red Skirt. NO you will not. I was not talking either about SEXY clothes. I was just explaining that a woman who is FAT will not wear a suit that is big because she will look more fatter than who she really is. It is time our eyes are open to truth so that we can help each other. If he was my husband he would wearing a WHITE suit for his wedding. The white will articulate the blackness and then his wife would never have stand out. If my husband to be is this black when I eventually meet him face to face,  he will be wearing Traditional Colour that will enhance him at our wedding. This show that she is all about herself. There is no way a woman who loves a man will not help him to make himself look better.

Everytime I go to my fiancee pictures and look at them. There is a vast difference before he met me and during  our friendship. I don't know him Face to Face but yet my encouragement, prayers and the way I display my love for him makes him start to change. Love is more about living with someone or even being married. It is the impact that the Almighty God allow you to make an individual life. Hugs and blessings
Why cant i wear orange and red together? Bcos am white, and it wud be too bright? If it fits me, i will go for it  Cheesy But i understand ur point, i do.... But even putting him in a white suit, isn dat gonna make it worse, like it will reflect more on d white??

Anyway, u can also look at it from a different view, maybe she is proud of him being black like dis, and she dont want
him to look different or lighter....  Kiss



lol lol I never know that you were white lol lol. That is the problem she is too Proud and because of this she only sees herself. Proud is Pride and it is the lifting up of one's heart. God doesn't like it. This is the reason why Satan thrown out of Heaven. Eze 28 The white will complement the blackness. He can tone down his color. Anyway I wish them all best and I hope that the Lord's Will may be done in their lives. Hugs and blessings

Posted: at 22-12-2010 07:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 22-12-2010 07:13 PM (13 years ago)
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hehehehe  Cheesy Cheesy whiter then white dear  Grin
Posted: at 22-12-2010 07:13 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- laydeelaracraft at 22-12-2010 07:58 PM (13 years ago)
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Or maybe she is happy with him as he is n doesn't see any reason 4 him to tone it down. Perhaps it is her way of saying. This is the man I fell in luv with n am now going to marry
Posted: at 22-12-2010 07:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 22-12-2010 08:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 22-12-2010 07:58 PM
Or maybe she is happy with him as he is n doesn't see any reason 4 him to tone it down. Perhaps it is her way of saying. This is the man I fell in luv with n am now going to marry
Gbam!
Posted: at 22-12-2010 08:02 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- laydeelaracraft at 22-12-2010 08:22 PM (13 years ago)
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Cheesy
Lol! Do I win a price 4 for landing a gbam?
Posted: at 22-12-2010 08:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 22-12-2010 08:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 22-12-2010 08:22 PM
Cheesy
Lol! Do I win a price 4 for landing a gbam?
lol i fit bite ur arm too  Grin Grin
Posted: at 22-12-2010 08:23 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- vkt3344 at 22-12-2010 08:24 PM (13 years ago)
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 i go marry any other tribe except benin lady
Posted: at 22-12-2010 08:24 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- laydeelaracraft at 22-12-2010 08:53 PM (13 years ago)
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@ flymama- u wicked no b small
@ vtr3344- gudluk
Posted: at 22-12-2010 08:53 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ksurrina at 22-12-2010 08:58 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: vkt3344 on 22-12-2010 08:24 PM
i go marry any other tribe except benin lady

What is the matter with a Benin lady? The most hated always turn out to be the corner stone. Don't worry there is going to be a time when all of you going to come down to Benin City and want our daughters but we will only accept upon the counsel of the Almighty God.

Posted: at 22-12-2010 08:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 22-12-2010 09:11 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 22-12-2010 08:53 PM
@ flymama- u wicked no b small
@ vtr3344- gudluk
lol wetin naaa?? u no wan make i bite ur arm??  Grin
Posted: at 22-12-2010 09:11 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- laydeelaracraft at 22-12-2010 09:19 PM (13 years ago)
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I no want oh!
Posted: at 22-12-2010 09:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 22-12-2010 09:47 PM (13 years ago)
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alrite, then no gift for u ooo  Shocked  Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 22-12-2010 09:47 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- laydeelaracraft at 22-12-2010 11:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Lolx
Posted: at 22-12-2010 11:38 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blings_is_back at 22-12-2010 11:53 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 22-12-2010 08:22 PM
Cheesy
Lol! Do I win a price 4 for landing a gbam?

yes u just won a bottle of happiness
Posted: at 22-12-2010 11:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- laydeelaracraft at 23-12-2010 12:00 AM (13 years ago)
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I get plenty happiness now!
Posted: at 23-12-2010 12:00 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blings_is_back at 23-12-2010 12:05 AM (13 years ago)
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lets pop the bottle make i follow u happy na
Posted: at 23-12-2010 12:05 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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