Love doesn't exist (Page 14)

It actually exist before the 'I do's' but after that it is "to your tents oh Israel". I'd advice you better grab all the love you can get now to last as long as possible. Cheers.

Posted: at 10-01-2011 04:20 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

dearie, i kw dat sumfin mite av cause u  conclude...... but hey, luv stil exist nd i pray u find 1 soon.

Posted: at 10-01-2011 04:32 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

why are u taking it personal..na wah ooo.u sound like those girls who is in love with a man who doesnt love her back and is wairing for a miracle to happen.keep on believing girl..abeg shift make i pass jorrrrrrrrr

Posted: at 10-01-2011 05:56 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

hahahahahhahahaha..Kenee,anyway my papa dey fine now.......love doesnt exist oooooooo

Posted: at 10-01-2011 06:00 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Technically, most people here r right? We all agree that to have a matured n sustained relationship (b it marital/ not), yu need mutual undastanding, patience n that it is hard work. Some people here call it true love, odas call it likeness etc? What's all these drama about self? This is the same reason why the 3 main religions don't agree, despite the fact that Judaism, Xtianity + Islam can all trace their roots to Adam, Abraham down to Moses, they refuse to embrace their similarities n focus on their differences!

Perhaps the title here is a lil confusing given that the poster does acknowledge that love does exist with her dad + with God!

Posted: at 10-01-2011 06:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

U r nt getting it ...

Posted: at 10-01-2011 07:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

waoh!  U must have been hurt by some one u luvd and trusted so much. Take heart, dont mind the dudes. Demya phyukup.( Jamaican excerpt)

Posted: at 10-01-2011 09:32 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

@poster thanks anyway. l am not waiting to be loved back.l have already been loved for going to thirteen yrs no regret altall happily married.no regret and there will never be.so long as christ is still in existance.l hope love grab u someday so that ur language will change.one love girl.

Posted: at 10-01-2011 09:53 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Anybody who support dat love doesn't exist dnt knw d meaning of luv...cos i dnt fink if u re honest to ur man/woman at last he/she gonna hate u 4 knw reason,spare me out jor...

If u dnt blive in it then live ur life as u want it an dnt advise others to do so.am vry sorry 4 any lady who wil blive dis an start living rough life to her man at last she gonna regret it cos woman dnt ve tym 4 mokey game if she want her family to achieve her.

Posted: at 10-01-2011 11:26 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

I agree expect I do not believe that love does not exist. If there is hate there is love. I think it has more to do with peoples perception of love. 'Falling in love' is not the end of it, there are other things that are important like trust, compatibility, personality, compromise and so on. For  example, some  people may claim to be in love or even be really good friend but the moment they decide they want to live together is when things falls apart because they find out that they can not share personal space, one is too overbearing, one does not want to compromise,  their jobs conflict or their ideas of family roles conflict... some find out quickly that love is not enough  or that love is what you make of it (which is why people say I could  have loved him/her better), others find out after years. I don't believe in 'falling in love' or I don't believe in it as this uncontrollable desire, I think people chose who they love or who they want to love, there is some sort of decision and effort that goes into it and people need to keep those decisions and effort up to keep the love going.

When one says love is not enough, people think it is crazy or if its a woman shes a gold digger, but I think it is true. If you are going to marry someone or going to commit to some one for the rest of your life its not enough to just be in love. Love is what you make of it, its not a state that you are in forever you have to sort of work at it. Trust, caring, mutual understanding, financial stability, commitment,appreciation, compromise and so on have to be up to par, because I think they make love instead of being the outcome love and so they should be important. People put too much emphasis on love alone instead of looking at the whole picture and the things that keeps love going because if those thing are shaky it will affect the quality of love

You told you dad    I don't  believe in marriage, I can't tell my mom she might have a heart attack and blame me for it.

Posted: at 11-01-2011 12:57 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming