What will you do if your partner can't have a baby? (Page 3)

I will go for adoption

Posted: at 13-01-2011 08:37 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

i must hav children.......no life without

Posted: at 13-01-2011 08:52 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

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Posted: at 13-01-2011 08:55 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

adopt a child

Posted: at 13-01-2011 10:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

What can one do? if both of them had great understanding and good relationship filled with Love, the wife should be the one to advise the man to get someone that can bear him a child. is all about Understanding between the couples. Any reasonable woman that finds herself in such medical problem and still the man stood by her all the time, shouldn't allow the man spend all his lifetime without having a child. encourage him to get another woman that could bear him children, thats the way out.

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Posted: at 13-01-2011 10:49 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

if we are that poor,then we stick to ourselves.but if he brings up the idea of having another woman pregnant,then i will start packing my bags.i'm not needed anymore.

Posted: at 13-01-2011 10:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

i just want u to clarify it & u did..from men(most) point of view, your suggestion is good. but it will be very difficult for most women to agree on that..coz they will feel isolated after the second wife starting having children..

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Posted: at 13-01-2011 11:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

They'll Steal One 

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Posted: at 13-01-2011 11:09 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

nop,a second wife is not an option for me.i dont think marriage is all about making babies.babies are blessings ,if you are blessed to have them then thank God.but if your story is the other way round,still thank your God.aslong as the love and understanding is there between the both of you.there are kids all over the world.its life

Posted: at 13-01-2011 11:16 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Of course most women will always feel like that, But remember like i said, It takes allot of understanding and encouragement from the Lady to suggest that to the man. The man shouldn't be the one pressuring to get another woman to bear him children, despite some Men will be the one to do this if such case be.

But if any Man, that the wife will bring such idea to because of her condition not to bear him child, will ever isolate that woman, is not good, that new lady coming in, should know everything and why she came along, and the man and the new lady should always respect and regard that first lady, no matter how many children the new wife will bear for the man. I know is very difficult task, but this is where Love should be applied and reign !! the question is, how many people will have such understanding and love to live together without having problems.

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Posted: at 13-01-2011 11:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero