What will you do if your partner can't have a baby? (Page 5)

Date: 13-01-2011 9:50 am (14 years ago) | Author: Groove Rocker
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- diplomatik at 14-01-2011 12:05 AM (14 years ago)
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u guys
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- dirtykid at 14-01-2011 12:09 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 10:52 PM
another woman to bear children as what? @dk


As second wife.
Or Will a healthy man stay all his life time without having someone to replace him or call his child because of some medical problem from the wife ? Personally I don't think is normal that way.
i just want u to clarify it & u did..from men(most) point of view, your suggestion is good. but it will be very difficult for most women to agree on that..coz they will feel isolated after the second wife starting having children..


Of course most women will always feel like that, But remember like i said, It takes allot of understanding and encouragement from the Lady to suggest that to the man. The man shouldn't be the one pressuring to get another woman to bear him children, despite some Men will be the one to do this if such case be.

But if any Man, that the wife will bring such idea to because of her condition not to bear him child, will ever isolate that woman, is not good, that new lady coming in, should know everything and why she came along, and the man and the new lady should always respect and regard that first lady, no matter how many children the new wife will bear for the man. I know is very difficult task, but this is where Love should be applied and reign !! the question is, how many people will have such understanding and love to live together without having problems.


And what if you would be the one where the problem is,huh?
You'll send her to sleep with another guy or what?


This is a matter of understanding and so on, Listen what do you peeps call Love or think Love is ?? Do to others what you wish/want them to do to you !! thats my simple way of understanding what Love is all about.

If i happen to be the one with such medical problem and is well known to be and her, I will not want to waste her single year sticking by me without given her a child to call her own son/daughter, I will suggest to her to re-marry and let me be. no two ways about that. Like i said, is all about great understanding between the couples.

Why dragging water kept for the swines , will you drink from it ?? thats the question someone in this position should first ask him/herself.


Hmmmm!
And what if she doesn't care if she has kids or not?



In such case, is not the man's fault, if she refuse to look for another man. But i suggest the man should say it out and do what he has to do regarding his situation, if she insist to stick with the man, so be it....... It shows also real Love from her side, You can never chase her away from her home. But the question is, How many women out there are ready to stay like that, with impotent man without trying to cheat on him secretly or making problems with him because he can't pregnant them. Some women will use that as a gateway to cheat on the man often or abuse him most times if they will have some misunderstanding in the house, which happens in any relationship no matter how much honey and milk they claim to be in love together. that situation will always occur.


Sterility and impotence are 2 different things, so no reasons for her to go outside!
And there are women who don't make a big deal from having kids!They are or they are not(the kids)!



Yes !! You're right, is two different things, Just that the Poster didn't specify on anyone, I just use the word "impotence" to make my point. Yes some ladies don't really care to have children, like they will claim to, but deep inside them, They really want to be called Mum. for those who can't make big deal out of it, is all cool as long as they will not use it against the man.. You know what i mean.

But for those who really wants to be called Mum and really need a child, I still think, they should be set free by the man. You can't deny others their Joy because of your own problems. setting someone you care for free to be happy is one of the greatest Love one can give to another. if that's what the person deserves.
Posted: at 14-01-2011 12:09 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- trolling at 14-01-2011 12:11 AM (14 years ago)
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Get children from another concubine then wait until my conceives.I'm not limited to one woman.
Posted: at 14-01-2011 12:11 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 14-01-2011 12:11 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 14-01-2011 12:04 AM
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.and suggest adoption
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:21 PM
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if those couple get no money for adoption nko@onyin
if we are that poor,then we stick to ourselves.but if he brings up the idea of having another woman pregnant,then i will start packing my bags.i'm not needed anymore.
oh jeh!so u can't suggest for second wife?(as an example..not ur potion ok!)
nop,a second wife is not an option for me.i dont think marriage is all about making babies.babies are blessings ,if you are blessed to have them then thank God.but if your story is the other way round,still thank your God.aslong as the love and understanding is there between the both of you.there are kids all over the world.its life
hmmm onyin it's easy..i mean very easy to say..trust me! in reality, things will go wrong for sure..why? the pressure from the parents & family members can cause great havoc.only few percentage of couples can stand such psychological,mental & emotional pressure..
i'm no fan to polygamous family.i will rather divorce him and let him have his way.and i trust my family.no matter how crazy in love i am with him,they will definitely go fetch me out from that marriage.
ok,nice to get your view..now if the reverse is the case,what will you do?
keep praying to God for strength,wisdom and for a child.  stand by him and suggest adoption.i know its no easy thing to do.
no money for adoption remember! Cheesy Cheesy
lol.we will stick to our selves.
Posted: at 14-01-2011 12:11 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 14-01-2011 12:13 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 14-01-2011 12:09 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-01-2011 11:57 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 13-01-2011 11:52 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-01-2011 11:30 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 13-01-2011 11:27 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-01-2011 11:23 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 13-01-2011 11:18 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:03 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 13-01-2011 10:57 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 10:52 PM
another woman to bear children as what? @dk


As second wife.
Or Will a healthy man stay all his life time without having someone to replace him or call his child because of some medical problem from the wife ? Personally I don't think is normal that way.
i just want u to clarify it & u did..from men(most) point of view, your suggestion is good. but it will be very difficult for most women to agree on that..coz they will feel isolated after the second wife starting having children..


Of course most women will always feel like that, But remember like i said, It takes allot of understanding and encouragement from the Lady to suggest that to the man. The man shouldn't be the one pressuring to get another woman to bear him children, despite some Men will be the one to do this if such case be.

But if any Man, that the wife will bring such idea to because of her condition not to bear him child, will ever isolate that woman, is not good, that new lady coming in, should know everything and why she came along, and the man and the new lady should always respect and regard that first lady, no matter how many children the new wife will bear for the man. I know is very difficult task, but this is where Love should be applied and reign !! the question is, how many people will have such understanding and love to live together without having problems.


And what if you would be the one where the problem is,huh?
You'll send her to sleep with another guy or what?


This is a matter of understanding and so on, Listen what do you peeps call Love or think Love is ?? Do to others what you wish/want them to do to you !! thats my simple way of understanding what Love is all about.

If i happen to be the one with such medical problem and is well known to be and her, I will not want to waste her single year sticking by me without given her a child to call her own son/daughter, I will suggest to her to re-marry and let me be. no two ways about that. Like i said, is all about great understanding between the couples.

Why dragging water kept for the swines , will you drink from it ?? thats the question someone in this position should first ask him/herself.


Hmmmm!
And what if she doesn't care if she has kids or not?



In such case, is not the man's fault, if she refuse to look for another man. But i suggest the man should say it out and do what he has to do regarding his situation, if she insist to stick with the man, so be it....... It shows also real Love from her side, You can never chase her away from her home. But the question is, How many women out there are ready to stay like that, with impotent man without trying to cheat on him secretly or making problems with him because he can't pregnant them. Some women will use that as a gateway to cheat on the man often or abuse him most times if they will have some misunderstanding in the house, which happens in any relationship no matter how much honey and milk they claim to be in love together. that situation will always occur.


Sterility and impotence are 2 different things, so no reasons for her to go outside!
And there are women who don't make a big deal from having kids!They are or they are not(the kids)!



Yes !! You're right, is two different things, Just that the Poster didn't specify on anyone, I just use the word "impotence" to make my point. Yes some ladies don't really care to have children, like they will claim to, but deep inside them, They really want to be called Mum. for those who can't make big deal out of it, is all cool as long as they will not use it against the man.. You know what i mean.

But for those who really wants to be called Mum and really need a child, I still think, they should be set free by the man. You can't deny others their Joy because of your own problems. setting someone you care for free to be happy is one of the greatest Love one can give to another. if that's what the person deserves.


I got your point, but sticking with each other through difficult times also proves a great Love!
And I don't see it as a sacrifice!
I said "YES,I DO"  ,and I'll do it!
Posted: at 14-01-2011 12:13 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 14-01-2011 12:33 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 14-01-2011 12:13 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on 14-01-2011 12:09 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-01-2011 11:57 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 13-01-2011 11:52 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-01-2011 11:30 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 13-01-2011 11:27 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-01-2011 11:23 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 13-01-2011 11:18 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:03 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 13-01-2011 10:57 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 10:52 PM
another woman to bear children as what? @dk


As second wife.
Or Will a healthy man stay all his life time without having someone to replace him or call his child because of some medical problem from the wife ? Personally I don't think is normal that way.
i just want u to clarify it & u did..from men(most) point of view, your suggestion is good. but it will be very difficult for most women to agree on that..coz they will feel isolated after the second wife starting having children..


Of course most women will always feel like that, But remember like i said, It takes allot of understanding and encouragement from the Lady to suggest that to the man. The man shouldn't be the one pressuring to get another woman to bear him children, despite some Men will be the one to do this if such case be.

But if any Man, that the wife will bring such idea to because of her condition not to bear him child, will ever isolate that woman, is not good, that new lady coming in, should know everything and why she came along, and the man and the new lady should always respect and regard that first lady, no matter how many children the new wife will bear for the man. I know is very difficult task, but this is where Love should be applied and reign !! the question is, how many people will have such understanding and love to live together without having problems.


And what if you would be the one where the problem is,huh?
You'll send her to sleep with another guy or what?


This is a matter of understanding and so on, Listen what do you peeps call Love or think Love is ?? Do to others what you wish/want them to do to you !! thats my simple way of understanding what Love is all about.

If i happen to be the one with such medical problem and is well known to be and her, I will not want to waste her single year sticking by me without given her a child to call her own son/daughter, I will suggest to her to re-marry and let me be. no two ways about that. Like i said, is all about great understanding between the couples.

Why dragging water kept for the swines , will you drink from it ?? thats the question someone in this position should first ask him/herself.


Hmmmm!
And what if she doesn't care if she has kids or not?



In such case, is not the man's fault, if she refuse to look for another man. But i suggest the man should say it out and do what he has to do regarding his situation, if she insist to stick with the man, so be it....... It shows also real Love from her side, You can never chase her away from her home. But the question is, How many women out there are ready to stay like that, with impotent man without trying to cheat on him secretly or making problems with him because he can't pregnant them. Some women will use that as a gateway to cheat on the man often or abuse him most times if they will have some misunderstanding in the house, which happens in any relationship no matter how much honey and milk they claim to be in love together. that situation will always occur.


Sterility and impotence are 2 different things, so no reasons for her to go outside!
And there are women who don't make a big deal from having kids!They are or they are not(the kids)!



Yes !! You're right, is two different things, Just that the Poster didn't specify on anyone, I just use the word "impotence" to make my point. Yes some ladies don't really care to have children, like they will claim to, but deep inside them, They really want to be called Mum. for those who can't make big deal out of it, is all cool as long as they will not use it against the man.. You know what i mean.

But for those who really wants to be called Mum and really need a child, I still think, they should be set free by the man. You can't deny others their Joy because of your own problems. setting someone you care for free to be happy is one of the greatest Love one can give to another. if that's what the person deserves.


I got your point, but sticking with each other through difficult times also proves a great Love!
And I don't see it as a sacrifice!
I said "YES,I DO"  ,and I'll do it!



is a matter of choices, You can !! what about some others out there.

Of course is Love... as long as that Love will remain like that and keep burning high, instead of allowing people, closer families to bring negative ideas that will divide the thoughts, is all cool, the man don't have to worry. we should look at the other angle when families will came in this, like the wife parents and so on. friends , there will be division among labor, likewise the man's side. Like i mentioned earlier it takes great understanding and Giant Love to overcome this.
Posted: at 14-01-2011 12:33 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 14-01-2011 12:36 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 14-01-2011 12:11 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 14-01-2011 12:04 AM
Quote from: onyin on 14-01-2011 12:01 AM
.and suggest adoption
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:53 PM
Quote from: onyin on 13-01-2011 11:50 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:21 PM
Quote from: onyin on 13-01-2011 11:16 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:05 PM
Quote from: onyin on 13-01-2011 10:54 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 10:40 PM
if those couple get no money for adoption nko@onyin
if we are that poor,then we stick to ourselves.but if he brings up the idea of having another woman pregnant,then i will start packing my bags.i'm not needed anymore.
oh jeh!so u can't suggest for second wife?(as an example..not ur potion ok!)
nop,a second wife is not an option for me.i dont think marriage is all about making babies.babies are blessings ,if you are blessed to have them then thank God.but if your story is the other way round,still thank your God.aslong as the love and understanding is there between the both of you.there are kids all over the world.its life
hmmm onyin it's easy..i mean very easy to say..trust me! in reality, things will go wrong for sure..why? the pressure from the parents & family members can cause great havoc.only few percentage of couples can stand such psychological,mental & emotional pressure..
i'm no fan to polygamous family.i will rather divorce him and let him have his way.and i trust my family.no matter how crazy in love i am with him,they will definitely go fetch me out from that marriage.
ok,nice to get your view..now if the reverse is the case,what will you do?
keep praying to God for strength,wisdom and for a child.  stand by him and suggest adoption.i know its no easy thing to do.
no money for adoption remember! Cheesy Cheesy
lol.we will stick to our selves.
hmm but you love kids..right?can you sincerely stick to that..huh?
Posted: at 14-01-2011 12:36 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 14-01-2011 12:42 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 14-01-2011 12:36 AM
Quote from: onyin on 14-01-2011 12:11 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 14-01-2011 12:04 AM
Quote from: onyin on 14-01-2011 12:01 AM
.and suggest adoption
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:53 PM
Quote from: onyin on 13-01-2011 11:50 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:21 PM
Quote from: onyin on 13-01-2011 11:16 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:05 PM
Quote from: onyin on 13-01-2011 10:54 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 10:40 PM
if those couple get no money for adoption nko@onyin
if we are that poor,then we stick to ourselves.but if he brings up the idea of having another woman pregnant,then i will start packing my bags.i'm not needed anymore.
oh jeh!so u can't suggest for second wife?(as an example..not ur potion ok!)
nop,a second wife is not an option for me.i dont think marriage is all about making babies.babies are blessings ,if you are blessed to have them then thank God.but if your story is the other way round,still thank your God.aslong as the love and understanding is there between the both of you.there are kids all over the world.its life
hmmm onyin it's easy..i mean very easy to say..trust me! in reality, things will go wrong for sure..why? the pressure from the parents & family members can cause great havoc.only few percentage of couples can stand such psychological,mental & emotional pressure..
i'm no fan to polygamous family.i will rather divorce him and let him have his way.and i trust my family.no matter how crazy in love i am with him,they will definitely go fetch me out from that marriage.
ok,nice to get your view..now if the reverse is the case,what will you do?
keep praying to God for strength,wisdom and for a child.  stand by him and suggest adoption.i know its no easy thing to do.
no money for adoption remember! Cheesy Cheesy
lol.we will stick to our selves.
hmm but you love kids..right?can you sincerely stick to that..huh?
yes i love kids. my siblings will have kids,so i can love them.love those kids i see on the street or any kids who are missing out on love
Posted: at 14-01-2011 12:42 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 14-01-2011 12:44 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 14-01-2011 12:42 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 14-01-2011 12:36 AM
Quote from: onyin on 14-01-2011 12:11 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 14-01-2011 12:04 AM
Quote from: onyin on 14-01-2011 12:01 AM
.and suggest adoption
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:53 PM
Quote from: onyin on 13-01-2011 11:50 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:21 PM
Quote from: onyin on 13-01-2011 11:16 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:05 PM
Quote from: onyin on 13-01-2011 10:54 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 10:40 PM
if those couple get no money for adoption nko@onyin
if we are that poor,then we stick to ourselves.but if he brings up the idea of having another woman pregnant,then i will start packing my bags.i'm not needed anymore.
oh jeh!so u can't suggest for second wife?(as an example..not ur potion ok!)
nop,a second wife is not an option for me.i dont think marriage is all about making babies.babies are blessings ,if you are blessed to have them then thank God.but if your story is the other way round,still thank your God.aslong as the love and understanding is there between the both of you.there are kids all over the world.its life
hmmm onyin it's easy..i mean very easy to say..trust me! in reality, things will go wrong for sure..why? the pressure from the parents & family members can cause great havoc.only few percentage of couples can stand such psychological,mental & emotional pressure..
i'm no fan to polygamous family.i will rather divorce him and let him have his way.and i trust my family.no matter how crazy in love i am with him,they will definitely go fetch me out from that marriage.
ok,nice to get your view..now if the reverse is the case,what will you do?
keep praying to God for strength,wisdom and for a child.  stand by him and suggest adoption.i know its no easy thing to do.
no money for adoption remember! Cheesy Cheesy
lol.we will stick to our selves.
hmm but you love kids..right?can you sincerely stick to that..huh?
yes i love kids. my siblings will have kids,so i can love them.love those kids i see on the street or any kids who are missing out on love
aww nice one  Wink you win!!  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy and i rest my case lol
Posted: at 14-01-2011 12:44 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 14-01-2011 12:47 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 14-01-2011 12:44 AM
Quote from: onyin on 14-01-2011 12:42 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 14-01-2011 12:36 AM
Quote from: onyin on 14-01-2011 12:11 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 14-01-2011 12:04 AM
Quote from: onyin on 14-01-2011 12:01 AM
.and suggest adoption
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:53 PM
Quote from: onyin on 13-01-2011 11:50 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:21 PM
Quote from: onyin on 13-01-2011 11:16 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:05 PM
Quote from: onyin on 13-01-2011 10:54 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 10:40 PM
if those couple get no money for adoption nko@onyin
if we are that poor,then we stick to ourselves.but if he brings up the idea of having another woman pregnant,then i will start packing my bags.i'm not needed anymore.
oh jeh!so u can't suggest for second wife?(as an example..not ur potion ok!)
nop,a second wife is not an option for me.i dont think marriage is all about making babies.babies are blessings ,if you are blessed to have them then thank God.but if your story is the other way round,still thank your God.aslong as the love and understanding is there between the both of you.there are kids all over the world.its life
hmmm onyin it's easy..i mean very easy to say..trust me! in reality, things will go wrong for sure..why? the pressure from the parents & family members can cause great havoc.only few percentage of couples can stand such psychological,mental & emotional pressure..
i'm no fan to polygamous family.i will rather divorce him and let him have his way.and i trust my family.no matter how crazy in love i am with him,they will definitely go fetch me out from that marriage.
ok,nice to get your view..now if the reverse is the case,what will you do?
keep praying to God for strength,wisdom and for a child.  stand by him and suggest adoption.i know its no easy thing to do.
no money for adoption remember! Cheesy Cheesy
lol.we will stick to our selves.
hmm but you love kids..right?can you sincerely stick to that..huh?
yes i love kids. my siblings will have kids,so i can love them.love those kids i see on the street or any kids who are missing out on love
aww nice one  Wink you win!!  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy and i rest my case lol
Kiss
Posted: at 14-01-2011 12:47 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 14-01-2011 12:55 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 14-01-2011 12:47 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 14-01-2011 12:44 AM
Quote from: onyin on 14-01-2011 12:42 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 14-01-2011 12:36 AM
Quote from: onyin on 14-01-2011 12:11 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 14-01-2011 12:04 AM
Quote from: onyin on 14-01-2011 12:01 AM
.and suggest adoption
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:53 PM
Quote from: onyin on 13-01-2011 11:50 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:21 PM
Quote from: onyin on 13-01-2011 11:16 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:05 PM
Quote from: onyin on 13-01-2011 10:54 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 10:40 PM
if those couple get no money for adoption nko@onyin
if we are that poor,then we stick to ourselves.but if he brings up the idea of having another woman pregnant,then i will start packing my bags.i'm not needed anymore.
oh jeh!so u can't suggest for second wife?(as an example..not ur potion ok!)
nop,a second wife is not an option for me.i dont think marriage is all about making babies.babies are blessings ,if you are blessed to have them then thank God.but if your story is the other way round,still thank your God.aslong as the love and understanding is there between the both of you.there are kids all over the world.its life
hmmm onyin it's easy..i mean very easy to say..trust me! in reality, things will go wrong for sure..why? the pressure from the parents & family members can cause great havoc.only few percentage of couples can stand such psychological,mental & emotional pressure..
i'm no fan to polygamous family.i will rather divorce him and let him have his way.and i trust my family.no matter how crazy in love i am with him,they will definitely go fetch me out from that marriage.
ok,nice to get your view..now if the reverse is the case,what will you do?
keep praying to God for strength,wisdom and for a child.  stand by him and suggest adoption.i know its no easy thing to do.
no money for adoption remember! Cheesy Cheesy
lol.we will stick to our selves.
hmm but you love kids..right?can you sincerely stick to that..huh?
yes i love kids. my siblings will have kids,so i can love them.love those kids i see on the street or any kids who are missing out on love
aww nice one  Wink you win!!  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy and i rest my case lol
Kiss
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Posted: at 14-01-2011 12:55 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 14-01-2011 08:49 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 13-01-2011 10:57 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 10:52 PM
another woman to bear children as what? @dk


As second wife.
Or Will a healthy man stay all his life time without having someone to replace him or call his child because of some medical problem from the wife ? Personally I don't think is normal that way.
i just want u to clarify it & u did..from men(most) point of view, your suggestion is good. but it will be very difficult for most women to agree on that..coz they will feel isolated after the second wife starting having children..


Of course most women will always feel like that, But remember like i said, It takes allot of understanding and encouragement from the Lady to suggest that to the man. The man shouldn't be the one pressuring to get another woman to bear him children, despite some Men will be the one to do this if such case be.

But if any Man, that the wife will bring such idea to because of her condition not to bear him child, will ever isolate that woman, is not good, that new lady coming in, should know everything and why she came along, and the man and the new lady should always respect and regard that first lady, no matter how many children the new wife will bear for the man. I know is very difficult task, but this is where Love should be applied and reign !! the question is, how many people will have such understanding and love to live together without having problems.


And what if you would be the one where the problem is,huh?
You'll send her to sleep with another guy or what?


This is a matter of understanding and so on, Listen what do you peeps call Love or think Love is ?? Do to others what you wish/want them to do to you !! thats my simple way of understanding what Love is all about.

If i happen to be the one with such medical problem and is well known to be and her, I will not want to waste her single year sticking by me without given her a child to call her own son/daughter, I will suggest to her to re-marry and let me be. no two ways about that. Like i said, is all about great understanding between the couples.

Why dragging water kept for the swines , will you drink from it ?? thats the question someone in this position should first ask him/herself.


Hmmmm!
And what if she doesn't care if she has kids or not?



In such case, is not the man's fault, if she refuse to look for another man. But i suggest the man should say it out and do what he has to do regarding his situation, if she insist to stick with the man, so be it....... It shows also real Love from her side, You can never chase her away from her home. But the question is, How many women out there are ready to stay like that, with impotent man without trying to cheat on him secretly or making problems with him because he can't pregnant them. Some women will use that as a gateway to cheat on the man often or abuse him most times if they will have some misunderstanding in the house, which happens in any relationship no matter how much honey and milk they claim to be in love together. that situation will always occur.


Sterility and impotence are 2 different things, so no reasons for her to go outside!
And there are women who don't make a big deal from having kids!They are or they are not(the kids)!



Yes !! You're right, is two different things, Just that the Poster didn't specify on anyone, I just use the word "impotence" to make my point. Yes some ladies don't really care to have children, like they will claim to, but deep inside them, They really want to be called Mum. for those who can't make big deal out of it, is all cool as long as they will not use it against the man.. You know what i mean.

But for those who really wants to be called Mum and really need a child, I still think, they should be set free by the man. You can't deny others their Joy because of your own problems. setting someone you care for free to be happy is one of the greatest Love one can give to another. if that's what the person deserves.


I got your point, but sticking with each other through difficult times also proves a great Love!
And I don't see it as a sacrifice!
I said "YES,I DO"  ,and I'll do it!



is a matter of choices, You can !! what about some others out there.

Of course is Love... as long as that Love will remain like that and keep burning high, instead of allowing people, closer families to bring negative ideas that will divide the thoughts, is all cool, the man don't have to worry. we should look at the other angle when families will came in this, like the wife parents and so on. friends , there will be division among labor, likewise the man's side. Like i mentioned earlier it takes great understanding and Giant Love to overcome this.


Families and other ppl should stay away of that!
But...you're right, not everybody can handle such a situation, unfortunately!

Anyway, have a great weekend, and plz,buy some pants for that bat ASAP!
Posted: at 14-01-2011 08:49 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Pepesy at 14-01-2011 09:07 AM (14 years ago)
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Marriage is 4 better 4 worse so, they should bear it
Posted: at 14-01-2011 09:07 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 14-01-2011 09:51 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Pepesy on 14-01-2011 09:07 AM
Marriage is 4 better 4 worse so, they should bear it

Exactly! Wink
Posted: at 14-01-2011 09:51 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- olumbareal at 14-01-2011 09:54 AM (14 years ago)
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Its no big deal, I go  Adopt children.
Posted: at 14-01-2011 09:54 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- olumbareal at 14-01-2011 09:57 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: olumbareal on 14-01-2011 09:54 AM
Its no big deal, I go  Adopt children.

I mean we!
Posted: at 14-01-2011 09:57 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 14-01-2011 01:18 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: olumbareal on 14-01-2011 09:57 AM
Quote from: olumbareal on 14-01-2011 09:54 AM
Its no big deal, I go  Adopt children.

I mean we!

Sure
Posted: at 14-01-2011 01:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 14-01-2011 06:27 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:37 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 13-01-2011 11:31 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:25 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 13-01-2011 11:21 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 11:16 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 13-01-2011 11:09 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 13-01-2011 10:40 PM
if those couple get no money for adoption nko@onyin

They'll Steal One  Cool
Grin Grin Grin na thief be that na!

Ok, what if Dem See one Pick?  Smiley
pick where?pikin dey for garbage?

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy It's Funny Sha, but dis Happens a lot... In my Street, we Found One Baby in the Bushes last year or 2
wow!! Shocked  really?hmm but you should know that,not every person will be that lucky to pick one as u said.

Orphanages have these Tiny Babies too, so they should go there
Posted: at 14-01-2011 06:27 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Treasure2 at 14-01-2011 06:38 PM (14 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmm
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- kebella at 14-01-2011 06:42 PM (14 years ago)
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EHHHHHHHHHH
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