Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 07:08 PM Quote from: Beauti4 on 15-01-2011 07:06 PM Typi baby...Happy New Yr to u o... well u sound stingy to me on this one dear, but i think #600,000 not enough, u will ve to find some1 who will manage the servings not some1 who look at face b4 feeding u. but 600,000 will not do. i mean u don't hve to do wedding right away  well, wedding can take place anytime my dear. let him manage wat they have right now.
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Quote from: onyi2010 on 15-01-2011 05:50 PM Quote from: ajanni on 15-01-2011 05:47 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:40 AM Not sure if any of you have actually had a wedding in Nigeria but if you have the experience, what is the cost of an Average Nigerian Church and trad wedding (Both done in one day)? My big bro is wedding in 4 months and I kinda want to prevent him from spending too much money just for a day event. how much has he got at hand for the ocassion ? o yes and you nko ?
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 07:06 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:59 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 06:54 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:42 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 06:30 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:18 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 06:09 PM Quote from: ILOVEIT on 15-01-2011 06:07 PM @poster..it depends,for some the 600,000 u mention maybe too much, while some it will be ok.but, it can also be a "chicken change" to some as well. so watch your pocket while spending aight!! YOU ROCK   HOW? he gave three options and i agree with his comments cos dey r always very reasonable comments your brother just has to b ready in other not to be embarrassed its different from marrying abroad and i didnt insinuate when he needs to buy something for d wedding and he doesnt have money anymore or dey call for the bride and groom to do money donation on d wedding day in front of all d guest and he didnt have money or people came and d food was not enuf for all d guest d list goes on its embarassing , yes nigerian weddings u have to impress d guest and convince d parents dat u r capable of taking care of thier daughter if not dey can have doubts and dats not good and u have to complete all the necessary requirements and traditional process before u r capable of being given thier daughter I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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Quote from: nice9ija on 15-01-2011 07:11 PM tell him to try makam 1 million for safety reasons i talk say e no cheap he thinks i am joking 
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 15-01-2011 07:06 PM Typi baby...Happy New Yr to u o... well u sound stingy to me on this one dear, but i think #600,000 not enough, u will ve to find some1 who will manage the servings not some1 who look at face b4 feeding u. but 600,000 will not do. i mean u don't hve to do wedding right away Nah hun.. it's not about being stingy... it all depends on planning it well. Most weddings cost alot of money because they hire a wedding planner. Wedding planners keep more than half of what you think you're spending for your wedding. Why hire a wedding planner when the family can get together and plan their wedding to be very successful and besides we do not have to impress anyone as our inlaws have already given their daughters hand on the wine carrying which i heard people thought was a trad wedding. I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 07:13 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 07:06 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:59 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 06:54 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:42 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 06:30 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:18 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 06:09 PM Quote from: ILOVEIT on 15-01-2011 06:07 PM @poster..it depends,for some the 600,000 u mention maybe too much, while some it will be ok.but, it can also be a "chicken change" to some as well. so watch your pocket while spending aight!! YOU ROCK HOW? he gave three options and i agree with his comments cos dey r always very reasonable comments your brother just has to b ready in other not to be embarrassed its different from marrying abroad and i didnt insinuate when he needs to buy something for d wedding and he doesnt have money anymore or dey call for the bride and groom to do money donation on d wedding day in front of all d guest and he didnt have money or people came and d food was not enuf for all d guest d list goes on its embarassing , yes nigerian weddings u have to impress d guest and convince d parents dat u r capable of taking care of thier daughter if not dey can have doubts and dats not good and u have to complete all the necessary requirements and traditional process before u r capable of being given thier daughter yeah you r right when u say y spend so much money but its nigeria dats d way it is let him just take enough money just for security reasons and a mistake i made in my wedding i had only 1000 notes so i spend without end let him change his money in twenty naira notes for spraying and other extravagance and maybe also 1 dollar notes for show off but its not cheap
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 05:52 PM Quote from: ajanni on 15-01-2011 05:47 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:40 AM Not sure if any of you have actually had a wedding in Nigeria but if you have the experience, what is the cost of an Average Nigerian Church and trad wedding (Both done in one day)? My big bro is wedding in 4 months and I kinda want to prevent him from spending too much money just for a day event. how much has he got at hand for the ocassion ? its necessary atimes , so that we work it out for him , he need to cut his coat according to his size
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Quote from: nice9ija on 15-01-2011 07:11 PM tell him to try makam 1 million for safety reasons chei, this my pikin sef
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 07:18 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 07:13 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 07:06 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:59 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 06:54 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:42 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 06:30 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:18 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 06:09 PM Quote from: ILOVEIT on 15-01-2011 06:07 PM @poster..it depends,for some the 600,000 u mention maybe too much, while some it will be ok.but, it can also be a "chicken change" to some as well. so watch your pocket while spending aight!! YOU ROCK HOW? he gave three options and i agree with his comments cos dey r always very reasonable comments your brother just has to b ready in other not to be embarrassed its different from marrying abroad and i didnt insinuate when he needs to buy something for d wedding and he doesnt have money anymore or dey call for the bride and groom to do money donation on d wedding day in front of all d guest and he didnt have money or people came and d food was not enuf for all d guest d list goes on its embarassing , yes nigerian weddings u have to impress d guest and convince d parents dat u r capable of taking care of thier daughter if not dey can have doubts and dats not good and u have to complete all the necessary requirements and traditional process before u r capable of being given thier daughter yeah you r right when u say y spend so much money but its nigeria dats d way it is let him just take enough money just for security reasons and a mistake i made in my wedding i had only 1000 notes so i spend without end let him change his money in twenty naira notes for spraying and other extravagance and maybe also 1 dollar notes for show off but its not cheap I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 07:25 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 07:18 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 07:13 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 07:06 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:59 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 06:54 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:42 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 06:30 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:18 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 06:09 PM Quote from: ILOVEIT on 15-01-2011 06:07 PM @poster..it depends,for some the 600,000 u mention maybe too much, while some it will be ok.but, it can also be a "chicken change" to some as well. so watch your pocket while spending aight!! YOU ROCK HOW? he gave three options and i agree with his comments cos dey r always very reasonable comments your brother just has to b ready in other not to be embarrassed its different from marrying abroad and i didnt insinuate when he needs to buy something for d wedding and he doesnt have money anymore or dey call for the bride and groom to do money donation on d wedding day in front of all d guest and he didnt have money or people came and d food was not enuf for all d guest d list goes on its embarassing , yes nigerian weddings u have to impress d guest and convince d parents dat u r capable of taking care of thier daughter if not dey can have doubts and dats not good and u have to complete all the necessary requirements and traditional process before u r capable of being given thier daughter yeah you r right when u say y spend so much money but its nigeria dats d way it is let him just take enough money just for security reasons and a mistake i made in my wedding i had only 1000 notes so i spend without end let him change his money in twenty naira notes for spraying and other extravagance and maybe also 1 dollar notes for show off but its not cheap it depends, its possible its enough but just to be on a safer side let him take enough money with him. i have to go extend my congratulations on thier triplets.
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Quote from: ajanni on 15-01-2011 07:23 PM Quote from: nice9ija on 15-01-2011 07:11 PM tell him to try makam 1 million for safety reasons chei, this my pikin sef my pikin you miss me???
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Quote from: japhethjeff on 15-01-2011 07:11 PM Quote from: joyjumper on 15-01-2011 06:55 PM Below is a summary of how much my own brother spent in Nigeria on December 5, 2010 for both traditional and white wedding. 500 guests in attendance. You can spend less if you desire. chair and canopy___________ 80,000 food______________________ 400,000 drink_____________________ 300,000 musician and mc____________ 160,000 costume__________________ 550,000 hall rent__________________ 95,000 transportation______________ 100,000 thanksgiving_______________ 80,000 gift to share________________130,000 photographer_______________60,000 video coverage_____________25,000 printing invitation card & program_______ 105,000 bride price________________igbo traditional 260,000 contingency________________120,000 Asheby ------------------- 70,000 Rings - 75,000 Travelling back from abroad ---- 240,0000 Honeymoon - 300,000 TOTAL___________________ 3,150,000 500 guests N3.15 million. if na so, who go marry me 4 credit?  ??
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I mean do not borrow to make a wedding. Reply
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 07:31 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 07:25 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 07:18 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 07:13 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 07:06 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:59 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 06:54 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:42 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 06:30 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 06:18 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 15-01-2011 06:09 PM Quote from: ILOVEIT on 15-01-2011 06:07 PM @poster..it depends,for some the 600,000 u mention maybe too much, while some it will be ok.but, it can also be a "chicken change" to some as well. so watch your pocket while spending aight!! YOU ROCK HOW? he gave three options and i agree with his comments cos dey r always very reasonable comments your brother just has to b ready in other not to be embarrassed its different from marrying abroad and i didnt insinuate when he needs to buy something for d wedding and he doesnt have money anymore or dey call for the bride and groom to do money donation on d wedding day in front of all d guest and he didnt have money or people came and d food was not enuf for all d guest d list goes on its embarassing , yes nigerian weddings u have to impress d guest and convince d parents dat u r capable of taking care of thier daughter if not dey can have doubts and dats not good and u have to complete all the necessary requirements and traditional process before u r capable of being given thier daughter yeah you r right when u say y spend so much money but its nigeria dats d way it is let him just take enough money just for security reasons and a mistake i made in my wedding i had only 1000 notes so i spend without end let him change his money in twenty naira notes for spraying and other extravagance and maybe also 1 dollar notes for show off but its not cheap it depends, its possible its enough but just to be on a safer side let him take enough money with him. i have to go extend my congratulations on thier triplets. People steal the one dollar notes that you use in spraying.  I will suggest that you get trustworthy people to pick up your money and they should give it to you before you leave the reception.
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 07:17 PM Quote from: Beauti4 on 15-01-2011 07:06 PM Typi baby...Happy New Yr to u o... well u sound stingy to me on this one dear, but i think #600,000 not enough, u will ve to find some1 who will manage the servings not some1 who look at face b4 feeding u. but 600,000 will not do. i mean u don't hve to do wedding right away Nah hun.. it's not about being stingy... it all depends on planning it well. Most weddings cost alot of money because they hire a wedding planner. Wedding planners keep more than half of what you think you're spending for your wedding. Why hire a wedding planner when the family can get together and plan their wedding to be very successful and besides we do not have to impress anyone as our inlaws have already given their daughters hand on the wine carrying which i heard people thought was a trad wedding.I am of the opinion if there was a wedding planner, I think my brother's wedding may have been cheaper. He actually paid for the girl's grand parents outfits as well, etc.
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 07:17 PM Quote from: Beauti4 on 15-01-2011 07:06 PM Typi baby...Happy New Yr to u o... well u sound stingy to me on this one dear, but i think #600,000 not enough, u will ve to find some1 who will manage the servings not some1 who look at face b4 feeding u. but 600,000 will not do. i mean u don't hve to do wedding right away Nah hun.. it's not about being stingy... it all depends on planning it well. Most weddings cost alot of money because they hire a wedding planner. Wedding planners keep more than half of what you think you're spending for your wedding. Why hire a wedding planner when the family can get together and plan their wedding to be very successful and besides we do not have to impress anyone as our inlaws have already given their daughters hand on the wine carrying which i heard people thought was a trad wedding.Yeah i understand but wat and wat did u need to plan? the church will sponsor the wedding which u can give some small amount, the reception is takin place at the bride's. try to put the thought together and see wat u can do. am not sayin u should impress anyone but manage what u have. and let everybody join hands to together then u can pay the W.Planner and get it out of the way.
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Quote from: joyjumper on 15-01-2011 07:48 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 07:17 PM Quote from: Beauti4 on 15-01-2011 07:06 PM Typi baby...Happy New Yr to u o... well u sound stingy to me on this one dear, but i think #600,000 not enough, u will ve to find some1 who will manage the servings not some1 who look at face b4 feeding u. but 600,000 will not do. i mean u don't hve to do wedding right away Nah hun.. it's not about being stingy... it all depends on planning it well. Most weddings cost alot of money because they hire a wedding planner. Wedding planners keep more than half of what you think you're spending for your wedding. Why hire a wedding planner when the family can get together and plan their wedding to be very successful and besides we do not have to impress anyone as our inlaws have already given their daughters hand on the wine carrying which i heard people thought was a trad wedding.I am of the opinion if there was a wedding planner, I think my brother's wedding may have been cheaper. He actually paid for the girl's grand parents outfits as well, etc. I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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every tings don cost 4 market ... Reply
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 15-01-2011 08:04 AM I am trying to get him to not spend more than #600,000.00 as there would be no need to rent a place for reception since the Trad will be held at the brides compound immediately after the church wedding. Do you think 600,000 will do it? THATS NOT ENOUGH IF HE LOVES HER. THERE IS NO FIXED AMOUNT ON THIS, BUDGET MORE, IF YOU USE LESS THEN KEEP THE CHANGE. BUT IF YOU BUDGET LESS AND RUN OUT OF THINGS, THE SHAME WILL BE ON YOU AND YOUR BROTHER MOSTLY HIM. P.S DON'T HATE ME BCOZ OF WHAT COMES OUT OF MY MOUTH, I DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT MYSELF, SO phyukOFF..
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