ILOVEIT at 16-01-2011 12:02 AM (13 years ago) (m) u no well michro 20,000 huh?
U no well. Is there any fixed cost of wedding in ur village? U cut ur coat according to ur size. u knw what.just collect the woman free yeye! U get sense at all? Shebi u go do ur wedding according to the amount u get. i no get sense..i think i see say u be stingy type & like free things.. Yeye Boy. Hahahahahaha nah! na free
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. Posted: at 16-01-2011 12:02 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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OSIMHIAF at 16-01-2011 12:21 AM (13 years ago) (m) Wedding is not met for only rich ones. there is no specific amount for wedding in any part of Nigeria. It all depend on your status. If you have a manageable job, go ahead and wed who so ever fit into your shoe. Posted: at 16-01-2011 12:21 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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OSIMHIAF at 16-01-2011 12:24 AM (13 years ago) (m) Wedding is not met for only rich ones. there is no specific amount for wedding in any part of Nigeria. It all depend on your status. If you have a manageable job, go ahead and wed who so ever fit into your shoe. Posted: at 16-01-2011 12:24 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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johnnjasi at 16-01-2011 12:29 AM (13 years ago) (m) chair and canopy___________ 80,000
food______________________ 120,000
drink_____________________ 100,000
musician and mc____________ 160,000
costume__________________ 200,000
hall rent__________________ 80,000
transportation______________ 100,000
thanksgiving_______________ 50,000
gift to share________________80,000
photographer_______________40,000
video coverage_____________25,000
printing invitation card_______ 15,000
bride price________________benin 24 igbo from 100,000
contingency________________120,000
TOTAL___________________ 1170000
... ...I wan marry queen Elizabeth...? According to U.N.O statistics...is 11 women to one man... Thank you very much my brother. you are very correct 1 for you and the rest of the 10 is your contrubution to help them answer MRS. Posted: at 16-01-2011 12:29 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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johnnjasi at 16-01-2011 12:34 AM (13 years ago) (m) Onyi2010, wetin be your own?? now you mean sey na igbo man go dey do eco abi? abeg ask the poster welle cuz igbos dey spend welle for wedding... Posted: at 16-01-2011 12:34 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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ceejay58 at 16-01-2011 12:40 AM (13 years ago) (m) hhmmmm this is serious... anyways, reading and learning.... brb Posted: at 16-01-2011 12:40 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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joyjumper at 16-01-2011 12:52 AM (13 years ago) (m) Not sure if any of you have actually had a wedding in Nigeria but if you have the experience, what is the cost of an Average Nigerian Church and trad wedding (Both done in one day)? My big bro is wedding in 4 months and I kinda want to prevent him from spending too much money just for a day event.
Get quotations for hall, decorations, canopy, printing, book the church reception, etc. Do not let your future mother in law do the costing either nor the planning of the wedding. She will spend you to the poor house. You need to budget if your brother is coming from abroad, etc. Do not let your future inlaws be responsible for dishing the food, they tend to hoarde the food and will not share the food to guests properly. Posted: at 16-01-2011 12:52 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ceejay58 at 16-01-2011 12:53 AM (13 years ago) (m) Below is a summary of how much my own brother spent in Nigeria on December 5, 2010 for both traditional and white wedding. 500 guests in attendance. You can spend less if you desire.
chair and canopy___________ 80,000
food______________________ 400,000
drink_____________________ 300,000
musician and mc____________ 160,000
costume__________________ 550,000
hall rent__________________ 95,000
transportation______________ 100,000
thanksgiving_______________ 80,000
gift to share________________130,000
photographer_______________60,000
video coverage_____________25,000
printing invitation card & program_______ 105,000
bride price________________igbo traditional 260,000
contingency________________120,000
Asheby ------------------- 70,000
Rings - 75,000
Travelling back from abroad ---- 240,0000
Honeymoon - 300,000
TOTAL___________________ 3,150,000
500 guests N3.15 million.
............lol. na holy mary i wan marry with dis kind list......lol Posted: at 16-01-2011 12:53 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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kenny136 at 16-01-2011 12:57 AM (13 years ago) (m) Reply |
With the ease of getting loans in Nigeria these days...I heard... it is easy for you all to come in here and talk about spending millions in wedding. I tell you say my brother na son of dangote? Like I said if a man works very hard for his money, he won't spend it lavishly.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! Posted: at 16-01-2011 01:23 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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aliaaz at 16-01-2011 01:24 AM (13 years ago) (m) Lol
They closed the door but that ain't stop me from coming in ;) Posted: at 16-01-2011 01:24 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ILOVEIT at 16-01-2011 01:45 AM (13 years ago) (m) @poster.. do you really want to know or you just want to argue this issue with people huh?
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. Posted: at 16-01-2011 01:45 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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I am trying to get him to not spend more than #600,000.00 as there would be no need to rent a place for reception since the Trad will be held at the brides compound immediately after the church wedding. Do you think 600,000 will do it?
THATS NOT ENOUGH IF HE LOVES HER. THERE IS NO FIXED AMOUNT ON THIS, BUDGET MORE, IF YOU USE LESS THEN KEEP THE CHANGE. BUT IF YOU BUDGET LESS AND RUN OUT OF THINGS, THE SHAME WILL BE ON YOU AND YOUR BROTHER MOSTLY HIM. What is it with all this whole if you love your wife spend more. When has how much being spent in wedding become a way of showing how much one loves the wife. I tell you what... If a man loves the wife, he should spend reasonably and save the money for the future. She will appreciate it more. And what is this about shame? So long as everyone eats and drinks, what else is there to worry about. YOU ASKED FOR THE ADVICE RIGHT, ANYWAY AM TALKING WITH THE EXPERIENCE. IF YOU'RE NOT READY IN THE TOWN, YOU MIGHT AS WELL DO IT AT YOUR HOME VILLAGE AND SPEND 10,000 TO 20,000 NAIRA AND PEOPLE WOULDNT MIND AT ALL. WE'RE TALKING ONCE IN A LIFE TIME HERE. Dude... that a wedding is a once in a lifetime thing doesn't mean you have to get loans to sponsor your wedding. I be think say igbo people get sense...besides i am igbo... How much did you pay your girl friend to disvirgin her since it is a once in a lifetime thing... OR how much did you pay your first girl to have sex with her since it was your first time. Wedding is for everyone and I think people should not spend so much just to impress people... Whether coming from abroad OR not. That's why soo many brothers here in the states are slowly accumulating unnecessary debts that will take them a lifetime to repay. My thoughts.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! Posted: at 16-01-2011 01:57 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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nneoma at 16-01-2011 03:08 AM (13 years ago) (f) My brother sincerely we spent 1million in church wedding Cow not included because my sis-inlaw took care of that. and tradition was closs to that amount i wouldn't lie to you some spend up tp 3 million. wedding is expenses. maybe cause my hubby and inlaws came from the state. i was suprise to. but cos my hubby is the only son the family wanted it big. he brough soveniers from the state which wasn't included in the money i mention early on. I am from Imo State Obowu so i dont know of others. Posted: at 16-01-2011 03:08 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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joyjumper at 16-01-2011 03:41 AM (13 years ago) (m) My brother sincerely we spent 1million in church wedding Cow not included because my sis-inlaw took care of that. and tradition was closs to that amount i wouldn't lie to you some spend up tp 3 million. wedding is expenses. maybe cause my hubby and inlaws came from the state. i was suprise to. but cos my hubby is the only son the family wanted it big. he brough soveniers from the state which wasn't included in the money i mention early on. I am from Imo State Obowu so i dont know of others.
Igbo marriage is costly, but it is worth it. Igbo women are Princesses. Posted: at 16-01-2011 03:41 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Pointzero at 16-01-2011 03:55 AM (13 years ago) (m) Below is a summary of how much my own brother spent in Nigeria on December 5, 2010 for both traditional and white wedding. 500 guests in attendance. You can spend less if you desire.
chair and canopy___________ 80,000
food______________________ 400,000
drink_____________________ 300,000
musician and mc____________ 160,000
costume__________________ 550,000
hall rent__________________ 95,000
transportation______________ 100,000
thanksgiving_______________ 80,000
gift to share________________130,000
photographer_______________60,000
video coverage_____________25,000
printing invitation card & program_______ 105,000
bride price________________igbo traditional 260,000
contingency________________120,000
Asheby ------------------- 70,000
Rings - 75,000
Travelling back from abroad ---- 240,0000
Honeymoon - 300,000
TOTAL___________________ 3,150,000
500 guests N3.15 million.
If na dis national budget i go take marry then i go marry hausa woman........................atleast na flog dem go flog me n dem go even give me chance 2 stand debt free
NEMO DAT QUOD NON HABET Posted: at 16-01-2011 03:55 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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joyjumper at 16-01-2011 04:17 AM (13 years ago) (m) @pointzero - to each his own. Posted: at 16-01-2011 04:17 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Pointzero at 16-01-2011 04:19 AM (13 years ago) (m) u dey put this payrole here u think say every wedding na d same?
NEMO DAT QUOD NON HABET Posted: at 16-01-2011 04:19 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Paschaldon at 16-01-2011 05:08 AM (13 years ago) (m) Can we pls cut our coats according 2 our sizes? Oyibo taught us this things but English weddings re very cheap, simple and sweet. They can even use cake and wine. Some nigerians are having a serious set back today because of their wedding expenses which is senseless act. Girls are normally the cause of this coz they will like to be praised by their friends thereby pushing the man to go against his will. Posted: at 16-01-2011 05:08 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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u dey put this payrole here u think say every wedding na d same?
Abeg bros tell them oooo. Because Mr A spent 3 million to have a great wedding doesn't mean that Mr. B have to spend upto 3 million to have a great wedding.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! Posted: at 16-01-2011 05:09 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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