Ok. You wouldn't spend that much on a first child for the first 2 years of birth, so why spend it in one day. UR PAYING 4 A LIFETIME TIL DEATH DO YU PART , YU THING HUMAN HEAD IS CHEAP No you are not paying for a lifetime. You are paying for recognition to the world that you are getting married to that woman. The real paying for a lifetime comes after the wedding. Post-wedding expenses is all that matters dear. ur wrong, coz shes ur missing rib so yu need to pay high to have it back. Hahaha. Missing rib? Says who? Abegooooo! Stop with the whole Cinderella Syndrome. So my brothers rib wasn't complete when he was born eh!
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! Posted: at 15-01-2011 10:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kebella at 15-01-2011 10:36 PM (13 years ago) (f) EVEN THE BIBLE SAY SO ........... VE YU SEEN URS? IF NOT I WIL ADVICE TO START SEARCHING NOW TO BY D TYME UR READY TO SETTLE DOWN YU MIGHT VE PAID HALF OF THE MONI
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 15-01-2011 10:36 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Below is a summary of how much my own brother spent in Nigeria on December 5, 2010 for both traditional and white wedding. 500 guests in attendance. You can spend less if you desire.
chair and canopy___________ 80,000
food______________________ 400,000
drink_____________________ 300,000
musician and mc____________ 160,000
costume__________________ 550,000
hall rent__________________ 95,000
transportation______________ 100,000
thanksgiving_______________ 80,000
gift to share________________130,000
photographer_______________60,000
video coverage_____________25,000
printing invitation card & program_______ 105,000
bride price________________igbo traditional 260,000
contingency________________120,000
Asheby ------------------- 70,000
Rings - 75,000
Travelling back from abroad ---- 240,0000
Honeymoon - 300,000
TOTAL___________________ 3,150,000
500 guests N3.15 million.
Ok let's see. With 250 guests, it'll be 1,575,000 minus traveling back to abroad and Honeymoon, which will come after the wedding, minus renting a place for reception, that right there is less than a million naira. Our own personal expenses for flight to Nigeria and honeymoon is excluded from our budget. Budget is strictly for that day and that day only, not pre or post wedding activities.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! Posted: at 15-01-2011 10:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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EVEN THE BIBLE SAY SO ........... VE YU SEEN URS? IF NOT I WIL ADVICE TO START SEARCHING NOW TO BY D TYME UR READY TO SETTLE DOWN YU MIGHT VE PAID HALF OF THE MONI
Let me make this very clear to you. People spending millions of Naira for wedding does so because they chose to NOT that they have to. You have people who have the money and likes to spend extravagantly... People who have the money and are very conservative and only spend wisely... people who do not have the money and still spend all they have even owe people... and lastly people whom do not have the money and do not spend much. Its up to you to know what category you fall under.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! Posted: at 15-01-2011 10:52 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ajanni at 15-01-2011 10:52 PM (13 years ago) (m) tell him to try makam 1 million for safety reasons
chei, this my pikin sef my pikin you miss me??? you don dey become bad boi so ooo , small small Posted: at 15-01-2011 10:52 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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Elmumeen at 15-01-2011 10:56 PM (13 years ago) (m) no fixed price.A lavish wedding depend on how fat your pocket is.....if not so,just make it simple to minimize cost Posted: at 15-01-2011 10:56 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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dirtykid at 15-01-2011 11:05 PM (13 years ago) (m) hmmmm still reading and gathering informations
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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You mean 'Information'...
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ILOVEIT at 15-01-2011 11:21 PM (13 years ago) (m) u no well michro 20,000 huh?
U no well. Is there any fixed cost of wedding in ur village? U cut ur coat according to ur size. u knw what.just collect the woman free yeye! u can marry am 4 credit......... no be only credit..say no be mama born am!!make una try to be more sincere with reality.
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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ILOVEIT at 15-01-2011 11:23 PM (13 years ago) (m) u no well michro 20,000 huh?
U no well. Is there any fixed cost of wedding in ur village? U cut ur coat according to ur size. u knw what.just collect the woman free yeye! U get sense at all? Shebi u go do ur wedding according to the amount u get. i no get sense..i think i see say u be stingy type & like free things..
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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u no well michro 20,000 huh?
U no well. Is there any fixed cost of wedding in ur village? U cut ur coat according to ur size. u knw what.just collect the woman free yeye! u can marry am 4 credit......... no be only credit..say no be mama born am!!make una try to be more sincere with reality. e go pay later or e fit work put. Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:25 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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kebella at 15-01-2011 11:26 PM (13 years ago) (f) EVEN THE BIBLE SAY SO ........... VE YU SEEN URS? IF NOT I WIL ADVICE TO START SEARCHING NOW TO BY D TYME UR READY TO SETTLE DOWN YU MIGHT VE PAID HALF OF THE MONI
Let me make this very clear to you. People spending millions of Naira for wedding does so because they chose to NOT that they have to. You have people who have the money and likes to spend extravagantly... People who have the money and are very conservative and only spend wisely... people who do not have the money and still spend all they have even owe people... and lastly people whom do not have the money and do not spend much. Its up to you to know what category you fall under. MA DEAR I BELONG IN LAVISHING MOOD, COS ITS ONCE IN A LIFE TYME NOT COMING BACK ............. HMMMMM I SMELL MONI LOL
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:26 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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ILOVEIT at 15-01-2011 11:27 PM (13 years ago) (m) u no well michro 20,000 huh?
U no well. Is there any fixed cost of wedding in ur village? U cut ur coat according to ur size. u knw what.just collect the woman free yeye! u can marry am 4 credit......... no be only credit..say no be mama born am!!make una try to be more sincere with reality. e go pay later or e fit work put. oke now i get u..i think say u join that yeye boy wey call em seff michro..who believe say woman must free.
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:27 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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I am trying to get him to not spend more than #600,000.00 as there would be no need to rent a place for reception since the Trad will be held at the brides compound immediately after the church wedding. Do you think 600,000 will do it?
THATS NOT ENOUGH IF HE LOVES HER. THERE IS NO FIXED AMOUNT ON THIS, BUDGET MORE, IF YOU USE LESS THEN KEEP THE CHANGE. BUT IF YOU BUDGET LESS AND RUN OUT OF THINGS, THE SHAME WILL BE ON YOU AND YOUR BROTHER MOSTLY HIM. What is it with all this whole if you love your wife spend more. When has how much being spent in wedding become a way of showing how much one loves the wife. I tell you what... If a man loves the wife, he should spend reasonably and save the money for the future. She will appreciate it more. And what is this about shame? So long as everyone eats and drinks, what else is there to worry about. YOU ASKED FOR THE ADVICE RIGHT, ANYWAY AM TALKING WITH THE EXPERIENCE. IF YOU'RE NOT READY IN THE TOWN, YOU MIGHT AS WELL DO IT AT YOUR HOME VILLAGE AND SPEND 10,000 TO 20,000 NAIRA AND PEOPLE WOULDNT MIND AT ALL. WE'RE TALKING ONCE IN A LIFE TIME HERE.
P.S DON'T HATE ME BCOZ OF WHAT COMES OUT OF MY MOUTH, I DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT MYSELF, SO phyukOFF.. Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kebella at 15-01-2011 11:34 PM (13 years ago) (f) HMMMMMMMMMMMMM I HOPE IS NOT MA WEDDING ISSUE Y'ALL IS DEBATING HERE
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:34 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Below is a summary of how much my own brother spent in Nigeria on December 5, 2010 for both traditional and white wedding. 500 guests in attendance. You can spend less if you desire.
chair and canopy___________ 80,000
food______________________ 400,000
drink_____________________ 300,000
musician and mc____________ 160,000
costume__________________ 550,000
hall rent__________________ 95,000
transportation______________ 100,000
thanksgiving_______________ 80,000
gift to share________________130,000
photographer_______________60,000
video coverage_____________25,000
printing invitation card & program_______ 105,000
bride price________________igbo traditional 260,000
contingency________________120,000
Asheby ------------------- 70,000
Rings - 75,000
Travelling back from abroad ---- 240,0000
Honeymoon - 300,000
TOTAL___________________ 3,150,000
500 guests N3.15 million.
YOU RIGHT BRO, HE THINKS WEDDING IS CHEEP IF HIS BROTHER IS COMING FROM ABROAD. LIKE I SAID HE MIGHT AS WELL DO IT IN THE VILLAGE.
P.S DON'T HATE ME BCOZ OF WHAT COMES OUT OF MY MOUTH, I DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT MYSELF, SO phyukOFF.. Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:42 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ajanni at 15-01-2011 11:46 PM (13 years ago) (m) - Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:46 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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Michro at 15-01-2011 11:50 PM (13 years ago) (m) u no well michro 20,000 huh?
U no well. Is there any fixed cost of wedding in ur village? U cut ur coat according to ur size. u knw what.just collect the woman free yeye! U get sense at all? Shebi u go do ur wedding according to the amount u get. i no get sense..i think i see say u be stingy type & like free things.. Yeye Boy. Hahahahahaha
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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otagermo at 15-01-2011 11:51 PM (13 years ago) (m) chair and canopy___________ 80,000
food______________________ 120,000
drink_____________________ 100,000
musician and mc____________ 160,000
costume__________________ 200,000
hall rent__________________ 80,000
transportation______________ 100,000
thanksgiving_______________ 50,000
gift to share________________80,000
photographer_______________40,000
video coverage_____________25,000
printing invitation card_______ 15,000
bride price________________benin 24 igbo from 100,000
contingency________________120,000
TOTAL___________________ 1170000
is that what you spend or any of your relatives of recent ? [/quote blablabla.this is christian issue not that of islam Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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onospet at 15-01-2011 11:57 PM (13 years ago) (m) my guy let no man decieve u 9ja marriage is not cheap especially when d guy is coming from abroad, i find myself in same shoe budgeting $10,000 at long run spend more than $20,000 even those that u thought want to help u all they want is to rip u up. Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:57 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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