forget your dreams and marry me (Page 7)

If she loves the guy, she better marry him, she can always continue her studies after marriage (although it is not an easy task).....now if she refuses to marry him, wont she need the help of another sponsor to finish her education?

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Posted: at 25-01-2011 02:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

both of them have their defferent point of view , then if this guy is afraid of loosing her in future then let them get married,
 in support of her education i quote, she can still continue her education even if married cos doesnt mean that they ill start producing kids now, they leave it to future, the issue here on the guy is that he is afraid of the gul may be there re not enough trust
 

Posted: at 25-01-2011 04:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I agree with u. Let both of them come to a compromise...she gets married to him and he allows child-bearing to be delayed till after her B.Sc. A lot of women are doing it... if she's serious-minded and d guy supports her, marriage shouldn't stop her ambition...my thought.

Posted: at 25-01-2011 04:41 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

let her go to school. if the guy cant wait let him go. There will be others in time. Dictating to the girl like that is similar to black mail. He should also learn to trust the lady. After all if she want to marry him, he wont need to give her such conditions or coerse her. He should be patient. I understand he has needs too- his masters and all, but he should not hold the girl to ransom because of that. Love is about sacrifices, and sacrifices goes both ways. I know this form experience.

Posted: at 25-01-2011 05:20 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

wat do u mean ba dis SIR???

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Posted: at 25-01-2011 08:26 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Their relationship lacks trust

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Posted: at 25-01-2011 09:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

  Yeye Pikin

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Posted: at 25-01-2011 11:54 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

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Posted: at 25-01-2011 11:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

all na comments

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Posted: at 26-01-2011 12:36 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

why do ladies always think u hav to support them financially a woman not married to you is not your responsibility.let her marry him he hav no option than to send her to school cos she will help the family with her education.if she is not ready she should confront her father cos is his responsibility to train or why did he give birth to her.this is one of the reasons why girls go into prostitution if he cant send her to school let her go and learn handwork with which she can eventually traim herself to archieve her dream.her dream might be accomplished in different ways not only by a fiancee training her.tell her to carry her cross.

Posted: at 26-01-2011 12:15 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie