A Real Woman! (Page 11)

Date: 27-01-2011 9:59 am (14 years ago) | Author: Bittersweet
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- MissyBarbie at 27-01-2011 01:48 PM (14 years ago)
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Ehen I don show, I don re-hibernate wetin de?

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- kebella at 27-01-2011 01:49 PM (14 years ago)
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I ASK AGAIN  WHO NO ADMIN CONTACT COZ HE MUST TELL ME WHY HE DELECTED MA POST TWICE

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- interpo77 at 27-01-2011 01:50 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on 27-01-2011 01:47 PM
Quote from: interpo77 on 27-01-2011 01:44 PM
hmmmmmmmmmmm, am just think
   hi miss barbie ,can u read me?

Interpol i dey read you wella...wats up wif you?
am cool just trying to got up ur intention  nd u how doing?
Posted: at 27-01-2011 01:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sobeit at 27-01-2011 01:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 27-01-2011 01:43 PM
Quote from: solojaro on 27-01-2011 01:42 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-01-2011 09:59 AM
This is a reply to Blessedme's topic,ppl asked for it,so let's see!
Real woman!
She exists? DEFINITELY!
So, which are her characteristics?

I'll start!
A real woman is one who does not follow the crowd. She chooses her own destiny. She fights her own battles.A real woman has a strong character. She has respect for herself and others. She is compassionate and caring. She is loyal and faithful. She knows how to forgive. She knows how to comport herself in a descent manner. A real woman does not get drunk and make a fool of herself in public.
A real woman is someone who is comfortable enough to act in her own skin.

Cheesy And also knows how to satisfy her husband in bed.

Yep Smiley
and u agree on this  Undecided
Posted: at 27-01-2011 01:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 27-01-2011 01:52 PM (14 years ago)
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but bein submissive get level now....u can listen to ur husband and obey him but apart from
bein a wife/mother u r also still a woman, so u must also hav ur own mind/opinion and b able to let ppl hear it!
It is not a bad tin to follow ur husbands word, as long as he respects ur own too!


yes you r right u must have your own opinion only the ones in accordance with your husbands opinion when u have opinions and he says no to it then its better to talk to him so he can see reasons and when he still says no sorry you can talk to GOD about AND IF IT STILL DOESNT CHANGE THEN THATS THE WILL OF GOD men r d representatives of GOD on earth, GOD placed them over us for  GOOD REASON like he placed the GOVERNMENT OVER THE PEOPLE; on you knees prayig TO god IS THE RIGHTFUL WAY OF A WOMAN SUBMISSION thats how you have control
Only in accordance with your husbands opinion? then why have one of myself?? if i can only speak d one
dat my husband go like?? And yeah i agree if he dusn agree with my own there is not much i can do abt it, but lets just
b reasonable here som men r not afta d rite solution, som men just fight their pride....and no one will stop them!



if i explain this one it might be confusing so let explain something less confusing u can fight his pride by not fighting atall talking when its necessary acting when its necessary but only in a calm and lovely manner nobody will be aggressive to someone that doesnt fight back honestly being proud go even tire the guy it will just become boring silence is wisdom
It is not confusing at all....basically we women have our own way of saying things and knowing we will b heard!
I am not sayin we shud fight our men so dat he will listen to us and do as we said, but he must respect me too wen i give
him my share of d story...and somtimes pust his pride away to handle in d benefit of d family, dat is a REAL MAN!
Like i said we women have our ways of handling men, and i understand what u mean  Wink

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- interpo77 at 27-01-2011 01:52 PM (14 years ago)
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HI, HOW CAN I PLACE MA PICS HERE PLSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
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- bittersweet at 27-01-2011 01:54 PM (14 years ago)
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A real woman is submissive as missybarbie said the bible says wife submit to your husband for he is your head and GOD said for he shall rule over you and your desire shall be unto thy husband so when you r a girl or a lady u can afford not to be submissive but a real woman must be submissive only then r u a woman and a real woman Cool

Everybody knows I can't agree with that, but it's your opinion and I respect it!

But BS believe me its the sad truth and the word of GOD cannot be changed, thats just how it is i cant lie to YOU  NEVER our love is strong and we have the same opinion most times but dis truth we cannot run away from it its a fact Cool

As Flymama said,there must be a limit,because some guys want their wives to act like some zombies manipulated by them!
I can never agree with that!
If he reasons well, no problem, but there must be a common sense limit!


yes there must be a limit this limit means both of you can communicate and come to a conclusion not quarrel communicate nobody has the right to dehumanize you but being submissive is overlooking most things letting your hubby have his way most time unless its a serious matter then both of you need to talk about it , cos when u complain or talk all the time then u could misunderstood or taken for a talkative but when you talk once in a while and in a calm manner believe me its works like magic he has to respect it Cool


Letting your hubby have his way most of the times,even if I'm not agree with that?  Huh?
Then, what's there?I see marriage as a partnership, not a slavery!
Come on!
Sorry, I can't agree with that!


its partnership of course thats why you have to consider his opinion and he has the higher say in this partnership do not forget he is the head no be hin put himself der GOD placed him there life itself is not 50 50

No,no,no!
It must be 50-50,otherwise it's no marriage!
Just my point of view!

Posted: at 27-01-2011 01:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 27-01-2011 01:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: interpo77 on 27-01-2011 01:48 PM
a real woman must know how to cook up nd tidy up,
 and after all these characters, she is almost  equal with her men counterpart

ok

Posted: at 27-01-2011 01:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 27-01-2011 01:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 27-01-2011 01:49 PM
I ASK AGAIN  WHO NO ADMIN CONTACT COZ HE MUST TELL ME WHY HE DELECTED MA POST TWICE

Really? Undecided

Posted: at 27-01-2011 01:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 27-01-2011 01:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on 27-01-2011 01:52 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-01-2011 01:43 PM
Quote from: solojaro on 27-01-2011 01:42 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-01-2011 09:59 AM
This is a reply to Blessedme's topic,ppl asked for it,so let's see!
Real woman!
She exists? DEFINITELY!
So, which are her characteristics?

I'll start!
A real woman is one who does not follow the crowd. She chooses her own destiny. She fights her own battles.A real woman has a strong character. She has respect for herself and others. She is compassionate and caring. She is loyal and faithful. She knows how to forgive. She knows how to comport herself in a descent manner. A real woman does not get drunk and make a fool of herself in public.
A real woman is someone who is comfortable enough to act in her own skin.

Cheesy And also knows how to satisfy her husband in bed.

Yep Smiley
and u agree on this  Undecided

 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

Posted: at 27-01-2011 01:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 27-01-2011 01:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on 27-01-2011 01:46 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 27-01-2011 01:27 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 27-01-2011 01:22 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 27-01-2011 01:17 PM
but bein submissive get level now....u can listen to ur husband and obey him but apart from
bein a wife/mother u r also still a woman, so u must also hav ur own mind/opinion and b able to let ppl hear it!
It is not a bad tin to follow ur husbands word, as long as he respects ur own too!

submissive got nothing to do with your personal opinion mamacita.you have the full right to utter your own opinion,but don't try to be  stubborn to him..
My dear there will b d problem, bcos a lot of men think when a woman drops her opinion ontop of his own
she is bein stubborn! I even notice tht in my personal life! If a woman gets out of her shell and speaks she is bein stubborn....
There is no difference is talking when nobody is listening to u and u also get som credit for it once in a while and som men
just cant do tht. Even if they knw dat d woman her solution/opinion/word is gonna benefit u more, som men will still go do
their own bcos of pride! Shoot me if am wrong


nope!i'm not going to shoot you cuz you made some great points..if a man isn't ready to listen to his partner opinion provided it can be the solution the matter at hand then, he's not a real man and needs to grow up.i agree with you some men are like that. note! being self centered as a man got nothing to do with "PRIDE".REAL MEN do listen to dear wives thought & opinion.
Ehen there u say somtin abt bein a real man! dat is true it takes a real man to understand all of these....
Hmmmm but d line between self centered and pride is so thin!  Undecided

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- sobeit at 27-01-2011 01:59 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: interpo77 on 27-01-2011 01:52 PM
HI, HOW CAN I PLACE MA PICS HERE PLSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
go to the pic.click on it,then you will see upload your picture.click on it and add a picture.VIOLA!!
Posted: at 27-01-2011 01:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MissyBarbie at 27-01-2011 02:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: interpo77 on 27-01-2011 01:50 PM
Quote from: MissyBarbie on 27-01-2011 01:47 PM
Quote from: interpo77 on 27-01-2011 01:44 PM
hmmmmmmmmmmm, am just think
   hi miss barbie ,can u read me?

Interpol i dey read you wella...wats up wif you?
am cool just trying to got up ur intention  nd u how doing?

am  Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool
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- sobeit at 27-01-2011 02:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 27-01-2011 01:56 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 27-01-2011 01:46 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 27-01-2011 01:27 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 27-01-2011 01:22 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 27-01-2011 01:17 PM
but bein submissive get level now....u can listen to ur husband and obey him but apart from
bein a wife/mother u r also still a woman, so u must also hav ur own mind/opinion and b able to let ppl hear it!
It is not a bad tin to follow ur husbands word, as long as he respects ur own too!

submissive got nothing to do with your personal opinion mamacita.you have the full right to utter your own opinion,but don't try to be  stubborn to him..
My dear there will b d problem, bcos a lot of men think when a woman drops her opinion ontop of his own
she is bein stubborn! I even notice tht in my personal life! If a woman gets out of her shell and speaks she is bein stubborn....
There is no difference is talking when nobody is listening to u and u also get som credit for it once in a while and som men
just cant do tht. Even if they knw dat d woman her solution/opinion/word is gonna benefit u more, som men will still go do
their own bcos of pride! Shoot me if am wrong


nope!i'm not going to shoot you cuz you made some great points..if a man isn't ready to listen to his partner opinion provided it can be the solution the matter at hand then, he's not a real man and needs to grow up.i agree with you some men are like that. note! being self centered as a man got nothing to do with "PRIDE".REAL MEN do listen to dear wives thought & opinion.
Ehen there u say somtin abt bein a real man! dat is true it takes a real man to understand all of these....
Hmmmm but d line between self centered and pride is so thin!  Undecided


if you view it that way then,  SO BE IT !.but for me the deference is clear and large.
Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 27-01-2011 02:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 27-01-2011 01:56 PM
Quote from: kebella on 27-01-2011 01:49 PM
I ASK AGAIN  WHO NO ADMIN CONTACT COZ HE MUST TELL ME WHY HE DELECTED MA POST TWICE

Really? Undecided

YEAH. I MEAN IS NOT FAIR NOW

Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:04 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 27-01-2011 02:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Hmmmmmmmm
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- FlyMamacita at 27-01-2011 02:05 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on 27-01-2011 02:01 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 27-01-2011 01:56 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 27-01-2011 01:46 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 27-01-2011 01:27 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 27-01-2011 01:22 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 27-01-2011 01:17 PM
but bein submissive get level now....u can listen to ur husband and obey him but apart from
bein a wife/mother u r also still a woman, so u must also hav ur own mind/opinion and b able to let ppl hear it!
It is not a bad tin to follow ur husbands word, as long as he respects ur own too!

submissive got nothing to do with your personal opinion mamacita.you have the full right to utter your own opinion,but don't try to be  stubborn to him..
My dear there will b d problem, bcos a lot of men think when a woman drops her opinion ontop of his own
she is bein stubborn! I even notice tht in my personal life! If a woman gets out of her shell and speaks she is bein stubborn....
There is no difference is talking when nobody is listening to u and u also get som credit for it once in a while and som men
just cant do tht. Even if they knw dat d woman her solution/opinion/word is gonna benefit u more, som men will still go do
their own bcos of pride! Shoot me if am wrong


nope!i'm not going to shoot you cuz you made some great points..if a man isn't ready to listen to his partner opinion provided it can be the solution the matter at hand then, he's not a real man and needs to grow up.i agree with you some men are like that. note! being self centered as a man got nothing to do with "PRIDE".REAL MEN do listen to dear wives thought & opinion.
Ehen there u say somtin abt bein a real man! dat is true it takes a real man to understand all of these....
Hmmmm but d line between self centered and pride is so thin!  Undecided


if you view it that way then,  SO BE IT !.but for me the deference is clear and large.
Am happy for u my dear  Smiley Kiss
Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:05 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 27-01-2011 02:06 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 27-01-2011 02:04 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-01-2011 01:56 PM
Quote from: kebella on 27-01-2011 01:49 PM
I ASK AGAIN  WHO NO ADMIN CONTACT COZ HE MUST TELL ME WHY HE DELECTED MA POST TWICE

Really? Undecided

YEAH. I MEAN IS NOT FAIR NOW

 Undecided Undecided Undecided

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- sobeit at 27-01-2011 02:06 PM (14 years ago)
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@kebella,i hope you didn't want to upload something naughty on here huh Huh? if so,then i agree with their decision.
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- interpo77 at 27-01-2011 02:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 27-01-2011 01:20 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 27-01-2011 01:17 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-01-2011 01:12 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 27-01-2011 01:10 PM
A real woman is submissive as missybarbie said the bible says wife submit to your husband for he is your head and GOD said for he shall rule over you and your desire shall be unto thy husband so when you r a girl or a lady u can afford not to be submissive but a real woman must be submissive only then r u a woman and a real woman Cool

Everybody knows I can't agree with that, but it's your opinion and I respect it!

But BS believe me its the sad truth and the word of GOD cannot be changed, thats just how it is i cant lie to YOU  NEVER our love is strong and we have the same opinion most times but dis truth we cannot run away from it its a fact Cool

As Flymama said,there must be a limit,because some guys want their wives to act like some zombies manipulated by them!
I can never agree with that!
If he reasons well, no problem, but there must be a common sense limit!

hahaha, so how zombies woman de act,re they going to be wowo or what? really i need ma woman up to date, if a lawyer fine,i dont like sitting down woman
Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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