![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 27-01-2011 02:09 PM (14 years ago)  (m) but bein submissive get level now....u can listen to ur husband and obey him but apart from
bein a wife/mother u r also still a woman, so u must also hav ur own mind/opinion and b able to let ppl hear it!
It is not a bad tin to follow ur husbands word, as long as he respects ur own too!
submissive got nothing to do with your personal opinion mamacita.you have the full right to utter your own opinion,but don't try to be stubborn to him..
she is bein stubborn! I even notice tht in my personal life! If a woman gets out of her shell and speaks she is bein stubborn....
There is no difference is talking when nobody is listening to u and u also get som credit for it once in a while and som men
just cant do tht. Even if they knw dat d woman her solution/opinion/word is gonna benefit u more, som men will still go do
their own bcos of pride! Shoot me if am wrong nope!i'm not going to shoot you cuz you made some great points..if a man isn't ready to listen to his partner opinion provided it can be the solution the matter at hand then, he's not a real man and needs to grow up.i agree with you some men are like that. note! being self centered as a man got nothing to do with "PRIDE".REAL MEN do listen to dear wives thought & opinion.
Hmmmm but d line between self centered and pride is so thin!  if you view it that way then, SO BE IT !.but for me the deference is clear and large.    . you too for your understanding  | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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A real woman is submissive as missybarbie said the bible says wife submit to your husband for he is your head and GOD said for he shall rule over you and your desire shall be unto thy husband so when you r a girl or a lady u can afford not to be submissive but a real woman must be submissive only then r u a woman and a real woman But BS believe me its the sad truth and the word of GOD cannot be changed, thats just how it is i cant lie to YOU NEVER our love is strong and we have the same opinion most times but dis truth we cannot run away from it its a fact
I can never agree with that!
If he reasons well, no problem, but there must be a common sense limit! hahaha, so how zombies woman de act,re they going to be wowo or what? really i need ma woman up to date, if a lawyer fine,i dont like sitting down woman 
Good!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "simplycj") simplycj at 27-01-2011 02:14 PM (14 years ago) (m) She should not get jealous when she sees her husband admiring other women. | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:14 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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She should not get jealous when she sees her husband admiring other women.
Depends on d level | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:15 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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She should not get jealous when she sees her husband admiring other women.
Hmmmmmmm!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:15 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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alrite sweet pals i go zoom off now, talk to u guys lata | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:16 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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alrite sweet pals i go zoom off now, talk to u guys lata
Live and let live! | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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flymama take care | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 27-01-2011 02:26 PM (14 years ago) (f) but bein submissive get level now....u can listen to ur husband and obey him but apart from
bein a wife/mother u r also still a woman, so u must also hav ur own mind/opinion and b able to let ppl hear it!
It is not a bad tin to follow ur husbands word, as long as he respects ur own too!
yes you r right u must have your own opinion only the ones in accordance with your husbands opinion when u have opinions and he says no to it then its better to talk to him so he can see reasons and when he still says no sorry you can talk to GOD about AND IF IT STILL DOESNT CHANGE THEN THATS THE WILL OF GOD men r d representatives of GOD on earth, GOD placed them over us for GOOD REASON like he placed the GOVERNMENT OVER THE PEOPLE; on you knees prayig TO god IS THE RIGHTFUL WAY OF A WOMAN SUBMISSION thats how you have control
dat my husband go like?? And yeah i agree if he dusn agree with my own there is not much i can do abt it, but lets just
b reasonable here som men r not afta d rite solution, som men just fight their pride....and no one will stop them!
if i explain this one it might be confusing so let explain something less confusing u can fight his pride by not fighting atall talking when its necessary acting when its necessary but only in a calm and lovely manner nobody will be aggressive to someone that doesnt fight back honestly being proud go even tire the guy it will just become boring silence is wisdom
I am not sayin we shud fight our men so dat he will listen to us and do as we said, but he must respect me too wen i give
him my share of d story...and somtimes pust his pride away to handle in d benefit of d family, dat is a REAL MAN!
Like i said we women have our ways of handling men, and i understand what u mean
[/b]EXACTLY!!! but know d way you want him to put his pride away ie being submissive sometimes thats how he wants you to also be submissive who does it doesnt really matter its that it is done that matters and the bible already made it easier and said we should dlo the submission so if i say i want a change in the world then i have to be that change then others will follow if u r d submissive wife your husband will imitate you sooner or later action speaks louder than words | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:26 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 27-01-2011 02:26 PM (14 years ago) (m) A real man is a man who back his word with action. A real man should be ready to listen and compromise in some cases A real man is a man that knows what he want and shouldn't be move with what he hear but what he see. A real man is patience and swiftly in action. let me stop here cuz if i continue i wont have time for fun on here. | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:26 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 27-01-2011 02:27 PM (14 years ago) (f) i am a real woman oooo | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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A real man is a man who back his word with action.
A real man should be ready to listen and compromise in some cases
A real man is a man that knows what he want and shouldn't be move with what he hear but what he see.
A real man is patience and swiftly in action. let me stop here cuz if i continue i wont have time for fun on here.
Why u posted those here? 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 27-01-2011 02:28 PM (14 years ago) (m) Oops!! sorry oh for my mistake..wrong place | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:28 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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i am a real woman oooo
Okay i hie | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 27-01-2011 02:29 PM (14 years ago) (m) | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Oops!! sorry oh for my mistake..wrong place
Live and let live! | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 27-01-2011 02:30 PM (14 years ago) (f) A real woman is submissive as missybarbie said the bible says wife submit to your husband for he is your head and GOD said for he shall rule over you and your desire shall be unto thy husband so when you r a girl or a lady u can afford not to be submissive but a real woman must be submissive only then r u a woman and a real woman But BS believe me its the sad truth and the word of GOD cannot be changed, thats just how it is i cant lie to YOU NEVER our love is strong and we have the same opinion most times but dis truth we cannot run away from it its a fact
I can never agree with that!
If he reasons well, no problem, but there must be a common sense limit! yes there must be a limit this limit means both of you can communicate and come to a conclusion not quarrel communicate nobody has the right to dehumanize you but being submissive is overlooking most things letting your hubby have his way most time unless its a serious matter then both of you need to talk about it , cos when u complain or talk all the time then u could misunderstood or taken for a talkative but when you talk once in a while and in a calm manner believe me its works like magic he has to respect it
Then, what's there?I see marriage as a partnership, not a slavery!
Come on!
Sorry, I can't agree with that! its partnership of course thats why you have to consider his opinion and he has the higher say in this partnership do not forget he is the head no be hin put himself der GOD placed him there life itself is not 50 50
It must be 50-50,otherwise it's no marriage!
Just my point of view! life is not on a stable state its full of ups and downs so is marriage it cannot be balance maybe once in a while but not always marriage is no fantasy like wedding is real life  | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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i am a real woman oooo
i never confirm u.... | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 27-01-2011 02:32 PM (14 years ago) (m) i'm so  right now.. | Posted: at 27-01-2011 02:32 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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sobeit
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