It is Urgent, Pls Advise Him.......... (Page 18)

ok...........e don do.........the guy don already take decision on the matter..make una no tear una clothe again.........

A friend of mine is in agony. He needs your advise on what he should do.

His wife has just made a confession, a blood-chilling confession - She cheated on him.  He has been away from home on an assignment.  He has been a good father and husband.  He has been faced with temptation from women but has never cheated on his wife.  He has trusted her, now that trust has been dealt a shattering blow.  This has just happened - only yesterday.  He is devastated.  He needs advice as to how to get over this trying moment.  He still loves his wife but how can he trust her again?  He is not considering divorce but He wants to know how to get over this.

Please your kind advice would help.  Please this is a true life story and you could be touching a life with your response(s).  Thanks a zillion!

very sad, honestly your wife really Love you for coming out to tell you. secondly i know it is easy to forgive but hard to forget, we are mortals and not immortal, pls never u force yourself to forget, bcos if u do u are only making God a fool for giving u a brain. my pastor once told me if you marry ur wife by mistake Love her by Mistake . I know one day u will forget all that. come to tink of it have you ever have a quite time for ur self. tink about how many couples are honest to each other. i tell u dear they are few among many, and u are one of the lucky one's. God bless U

am afraid, one more marriage has hit the rocks............. :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

Marriage crashed PI, but thanks to everyone that contributed, he could have listened to majority of the advice here but there were more revelations and his hands were tied, I couldnt even tell him not to do otherwise.  Something else happened, which he didnt give me permission to mention here.  Thanks to everyone, God bless you all..........