Would u marry ur late father's wife because u want to inherit his wealth? (Page 3)

Date: 25-02-2011 12:44 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Pholake
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- pholake at 25-02-2011 02:50 PM (14 years ago)
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Of course!
Posted: at 25-02-2011 02:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- shaoyang at 25-02-2011 03:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Not all about money oooo the girl still young and beautiful even if you didn't marry her she'll still find hubby elsewhere so why let her leave with the wealth even break ur father's rule....i tire ooo
Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 25-02-2011 03:10 PM (14 years ago)
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The dead should not have power over the living.........which kain rule be dat one?..........

Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- pholake at 25-02-2011 03:17 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 25-02-2011 03:10 PM
The dead should not have power over the living.........which kain rule be dat one?..........

DP, the relatives are involved and they're d custodian of the wealth. If he doesn't marry her, they don't allow him touch anything.......I think if he's not ready to marry her, he should just 4get about her and the wealth. Let him work hard too and pray that he surpasses his dad in riches.....
Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- goingwithyou at 25-02-2011 03:19 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: adams933 on 25-02-2011 01:09 PM
Is it a must to inherit some one else's wealth? For me I better leave both ma dad's wife and wealth since she's once married to my da, she's as well as my mum.

Adams .. I think u r not in dis country .. dat is why u r talkin lik dis i wish u know wht it takes to get wealth u r going to understand dat as a guy u r going to think and sick help b4 u walk away  ... Do u know wht it means to get gud moni .. Tell me wht Job can u do in here make u RICH d way u want am nt talking abt illegal work .. Work with out magomago inside .. U go waka tire ni na ... U r nt in d guy shoe so u can not know wht it means to let go of kul cash just lik dat ... I c ready made moni u want to tell me am going to stay in d bank when am given 70k per month when am going to pay lot of Bills b4 d end of d month ...U go understand na ...
Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:19 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- goingwithyou at 25-02-2011 03:29 PM (14 years ago)
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Yes ur dad start from some where .. bt did u know how he started ... Yes am going to be richer dan my dad do u av wht it takes? .. I stay lil while with my Gran Pa he got so many house in Lagos n in my Village .. Am still in JSS 1 dan he said to me never look on to al dis bcos i can sale it al and use d moni to eat ... Trying to tell me i shd work for myself ... Which i started when i was JSS3 I Sale POOR WATER nt PURE WATER .. lol ....Lot of lil Bizness to pay me Skul Fees .. Etc ... Bt to think abt it Moni is crazy somtym and u dot know wht my brother passing through right now with dis bt am sure he got to decide which way forward ... For me ... I think am going with ......Brb Let me think am well ....   Shocked
Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- pholake at 25-02-2011 03:33 PM (14 years ago)
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.......waiting for your final answer..... Smiley
Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 25-02-2011 03:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: adams933 on 25-02-2011 02:05 PM
Abomination, so long my dad once slept with her even if they divorce before his death, let the wealth go to who ever it belongs to.

buh there is love in sharing

Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:35 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kennee at 25-02-2011 03:36 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on 25-02-2011 12:44 PM
A guy stands to be disinherited if he does not do the bidding of his late father. The father was wealthy but a polygamist. His last wife is beautiful and young-still in her late twenties. Our guy happened to be the first child and was chosen to take the choicest of the properties and the largest chunk of wealth. But there is a clause-HE MUST TAKE PROPER CARE OF HIS FATHER'S YOUNGEST WIFE!. Our guy is in his mid 30s. Now, the father's wish was for the family to do justice to the sharing of his wealth according to his final wishes and the family has interpreted this to include marrying the young wife who's willing.

Guys, what would u do?
Ladies, if your guy was in this situation, what would be your advice and reaction?

Dat'll mean me having to be Polygamous Myself, cos l know l'll wanno marry a Woman of my Own Choice and she happens not be that

Dis will take a Lot of Deep Thinking... In the End l'll Conclude (even after thinking Deep) that all she needs is assurance that she will not be left out of the family and left to Suffer

l won't marry her, but find ways to make her gain... Cos that's all she wants

Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:36 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 25-02-2011 03:40 PM (14 years ago)
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Kennee, thumbs up............... Kiss

Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:40 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 25-02-2011 03:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 25-02-2011 01:46 PM
The clause was for the man to take care of the youngest wife............and I can as well interprete it to mean financially.........the guy doesnt have to marry her to fulfil his father's desire.........was it Ruben or who in the bible slept with his father's wife and he got punished for it.........the guy shouldnt take over his father's widow..........

In this Case, the most assuring way of her getting part of the proceeds is the marriage, dat's why

Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:42 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kennee at 25-02-2011 03:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 25-02-2011 03:40 PM
Kennee, thumbs up............... Kiss

My Dear Divine P, it's just cos l don't want anything dat will put a Dent to my Marriage Life. Others will have their Reasons for their Actions too

Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:45 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- hotguy77 at 25-02-2011 03:49 PM (14 years ago)
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Damn the wealth and the woman
Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:49 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- pholake at 25-02-2011 03:50 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 25-02-2011 03:35 PM
Quote from: adams933 on 25-02-2011 02:05 PM
Abomination, so long my dad once slept with her even if they divorce before his death, let the wealth go to who ever it belongs to.

buh there is love in sharing
Some sharing is very risky o.........
Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 25-02-2011 03:50 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 25-02-2011 03:42 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 25-02-2011 01:46 PM
The clause was for the man to take care of the youngest wife............and I can as well interprete it to mean financially.........the guy doesnt have to marry her to fulfil his father's desire.........was it Ruben or who in the bible slept with his father's wife and he got punished for it.........the guy shouldnt take over his father's widow..........

In this Case, the most assuring way of her getting part of the proceeds is the marriage, dat's why

Yea I understand..........marriage will give her all the security...........

Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 25-02-2011 03:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 25-02-2011 03:45 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 25-02-2011 03:40 PM
Kennee, thumbs up............... Kiss

My Dear Divine P, it's just cos l don't want anything dat will put a Dent to my Marriage Life. Others will have their Reasons for their Actions too

hmmm so ur already warming up to hook wit Sheree with my consent Huh?

Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:52 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- adams933 at 25-02-2011 03:53 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 25-02-2011 03:35 PM
Quote from: adams933 on 25-02-2011 02:05 PM
Abomination, so long my dad once slept with her even if they divorce before his death, let the wealth go to who ever it belongs to.

buh there is love in sharing

I know but will not share the same nyash with ma father.
Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:53 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 25-02-2011 03:57 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 25-02-2011 03:36 PM
Quote from: pholake on 25-02-2011 12:44 PM
A guy stands to be disinherited if he does not do the bidding of his late father. The father was wealthy but a polygamist. His last wife is beautiful and young-still in her late twenties. Our guy happened to be the first child and was chosen to take the choicest of the properties and the largest chunk of wealth. But there is a clause-HE MUST TAKE PROPER CARE OF HIS FATHER'S YOUNGEST WIFE!. Our guy is in his mid 30s. Now, the father's wish was for the family to do justice to the sharing of his wealth according to his final wishes and the family has interpreted this to include marrying the young wife who's willing.

Guys, what would u do?
Ladies, if your guy was in this situation, what would be your advice and reaction?

Dat'll mean me having to be Polygamous Myself, cos l know l'll wanno marry a Woman of my Own Choice and she happens not be that

Dis will take a Lot of Deep Thinking... In the End l'll Conclude (even after thinking Deep) that all she needs is assurance that she will not be left out of the family and left to Suffer

l won't marry her, but find ways to make her gain... Cos that's all she wants


You said it all bro !!  Cool

But what if she will not accept that or the family oppose that, the will/wish of the father must be as he said, and you on the other side needed those wealth so badly, that you know what it will be for you and your future, what will you do ?

Posted: at 25-02-2011 03:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mazi at 25-02-2011 04:14 PM (14 years ago)
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in as much as its wrong interpretation, i will assume there's a conspiracy somewhr to use dat to disinherit me if i dnt marry her.
i will go ahead nd marry her, nd dat will be it. wont sleep wit her bt make sure she is cared for.
at least i must hv disappointed some ppl wit hidden agenda, nd stil live ma life. after all, all dey want is for me to marry her. must i live wit her?
Posted: at 25-02-2011 04:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- pholake at 25-02-2011 04:20 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 25-02-2011 04:14 PM
in as much as its wrong interpretation, i will assume there's a conspiracy somewhr to use dat to disinherit me if i dnt marry her.
i will go ahead nd marry her, nd dat will be it. wont sleep wit her bt make sure she is cared for.
at least i must hv disappointed some ppl wit hidden agenda, nd stil live ma life. after all, all dey want is for me to marry her. must i live wit her?


Hmmmmm............
Posted: at 25-02-2011 04:20 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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