MY EX IS BETTER THAN YOU... (Page 3)

I couldn't have said it better. She need to ask herself some questions. What are the things his girlfriend does that she's not doing?
Does she nag at him at every sligtess provocation? Does she make an effort to look good for her husband? Live little surprises for him? Does she show some interest in her husband's hobbies and stuf? If she apply these with prayers her husband will change and forget about the other woman.                          

blessedme, I want to know, if you are married or are you a marriage counselor, tanx 

Nice one from a lady. Thumbs up.

I couldn't have said it better. She need to ask herself some questions. What are the things his girlfriend does that she's not doing?
Does she nag at him at every sligtess provocation? Does she make an effort to look good for her husband? Live little surprises for him? Does she show some interest in her husband's hobbies and stuf? If she apply these with prayers her husband will change and forget about the other woman.                          

IN HER WORDS:
                       AFTER OUR MARRIAGE I DISCOVERED THAT MY HUSBAND IS DATING A GIRL.HE MEET ME A VIRGIN,HE HAS BEEN THE ONLY MAN I KNOW AND HE KNOWS THAT.YET HE HURT ME SO MUCH.HE SPEND TIME TALKING TO THE GIRL ON PHONE ,THEY SEND MASSAGES TO EACH OTHER,I READ THESE MESSAGES.I TRIED TO TELL MY HUSBAND IT HURT ME TO KNOW ALL THE HAPPENING.HE TOLD ME HE LL CALL OFF THE AFFAIR.AFTER THE LADY BOLDLY TOLD ME SHE IS MY HUSBANDS GIRL FRIEND,AND I SHOWED MY HUSBAND THE MESSAGE.ONLY TO FIND OUT THEY WERE STILL DATING.AFTER SOME DISPUTE,HE TOLD ME IT'S OVER BTW HIM AND THE GIRL,YET HE SPEND TIME CHATING WITH HER ON NET,QUALITY TIME THAT WE LL SPEND TOGETHER PLANNING OUR FUTURE.MY HUSBAND STAY UP TILL 12-1 MIDNITE,EVEN THOUGH I NEED HIM ON BED TO CUDDLE ME TO SLEEP.MOST TIME I WAIT UP FOR HIM.
                     HE TOLD ME TO TRUST HIM AGAIN AND FORGIVE,I M TRYING TO BUT IT SO DIFFICULT FOR ME,BUT HE WANT IT TO HAPPEN LIKE MAGIC.I ASK MYSLF,IS TRUST EASY TO BE REGAINED ESPECIALLY WHEN THE PERSON TO BE TRUSTED IS NOT CONVINCING WITH HIS ACTS? HE SAID ANYTIME HE IS OUT I THINK HE IS WITH A LADY.I REALLY WISH I CAN CHANGE THIS MIND-SET.BUT IT SO DIFFICULT FOR ME.
                     WHEN EVER I THINK OF HOW UNFAITHFUL HE HAS BEEN,ALL THE PAIN FLASH BACK TO MY FACE IMMEDIATELY.AM TRYN TO GET OVER IT BUT EACH TIME,HE TELLS ME"AM I THE ONLY MAN THAT HAS BEEN UNFAITHFUL TO HIS WIFE,TAKE A LOOK AT THIS AND THAT MY FRIEND HE STARTS COMPARING HIS FRIENDS WITH HIM.
                      JUST RECENTLY WE WERE HAVING AN ARGUMENT ON A DELICATE ISSUE,THE NEXT THING HE SAID"MY GIRL FRIEND IS BETTER THAN YOU"I TRIED BELIEVING HE SAID IT,BUT AM STILL IN A STATE OF A GREAT TURMOIL.I KEPT ASKING GOD WHAT HAVE I DONE WRONG TO DESERVE ALL THIS DISRESPECT FROM A MAN I HAVE TRIED TO BE EVERY THING TO.
                      I LOVE MY HUSBAND BUT THERE IS SOMETHING I CANT UNDERSTAND ABOUT HIM,BUT I CANT PIN POINT IT.
                      IS UNFAITHFULNESS RIGHT IN A MARRIAGE SO I LL GET USED TO IT,AND SAYN MY GIRL FRIEND IS BETTER THAN U,IS IT RIT TOO.
                      LASTLY MY HUSBAND SAYS IT EASY TO LET GO AND TRUST AGAIN,HOW EASY,I NEED CLUE FROM U GUYS ON HOW EASY IT IS.

these are her words,my frnds in NP,ur hlp is needed here,i cant advise her alone cos am short tempered and the way i ll react might be a diff thing.pls throw in ur advise both married and un -married.THANKS

btw who and who

I couldn't have said it better. She need to ask herself some questions. What are the things his girlfriend does that she's not doing?
Does she nag at him at every sligtess provocation? Does she make an effort to look good for her husband? Live little surprises for him? Does she show some interest in her husband's hobbies and stuf? If she apply these with prayers her husband will change and forget about the other woman.