...pls u people shuld leave the she-goat.......why the arguement uhhhh? | Posted: at 14-03-2011 01:20 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kenolis") kenolis at 14-03-2011 01:23 AM (13 years ago)  (m) Reply |
pls pls pls....spread dose teeths carefuly b4 u turn someone to a she-goat here again oo!!....the she-goats av disappeared..we dnt need anymore goats!! | Posted: at 14-03-2011 01:26 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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For this cause men should bow their knees unto the father of our lord jesus christ, of whom the whole family in heaven earth is named to help them and save their marriage and give knowledge and power to deal marriage problems may i say once again, THE MAN IS THE FAMILY, THE FAMILY IS THE MAN. THE Bible tells us, is the GOD OF Abraham, Isaac and jacob, NOT God of sarah, rebecca, RACHE!, IF YUR MARRIAGE FAILED MEN, GOd will ask yu about her  GET THE UNDERSTANDING OF WHAT YOU WRITING( NO OF FENCE PLS, I AM SRY IF THE ANNOYS U) "encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored." Titus 2:4-5 "get married, bear children, keep house" 1 Timothy 5:14 "But women will be preserved through the bearing of children if they continue in faith and love and sanctity with self-restraint." 1 Timothy 2:15 | Posted: at 14-03-2011 01:44 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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For this cause men should bow their knees unto the father of our lord jesus christ, of whom the whole family in heaven earth is named to help them and save their marriage and give knowledge and power to deal marriage problems may i say once again, THE MAN IS THE FAMILY, THE FAMILY IS THE MAN. THE Bible tells us, is the GOD OF Abraham, Isaac and jacob, NOT God of sarah, rebecca, RACHE!, IF YUR MARRIAGE FAILED MEN, GOd will ask yu about her :D :D :D :D
Get the understanding of wat U WRITING( NO OF FENCE PLS, I AM SRY IF THE ANNOYS U) "encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored." Titus 2:4-5 "get married, bear children, keep house" 1 Timothy 5:14 "But women will be preserved through the bearing of children if they continue in faith and love and sanctity with self-restraint." 1 Timothy 2:15 Talking abt being the 'HEAD" means that the man is the manager of the WIFE while the wife is the manager of the HOME under her husband supervision.In the other hand, the man is said to be the HEAD in terms of responsibilities taking care of his family...( that is talking abt jobs...for men is mandatory, for women is optional that is where the HEAD of the family comes in..If any marriage fails, the woman failed....And if any home lacks provision the man failed....these are 2 different responsibilities. The purpose why a woman is created is to help the man, the bible reveals this in : Genesis 2:18 .In conclusion, the wife Must not neglect her primary responsibility, the home, Tit.2:5. | Posted: at 14-03-2011 02:00 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "rational") rational at 14-03-2011 08:08 AM (13 years ago) (m) YEAH MALLAM... HOPE SAY U DEY KAMKPE?
sometimes is bcos of their naging attitude that pises men off | Posted: at 14-03-2011 08:08 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "rayfc51") rayfc51 at 14-03-2011 08:49 AM (13 years ago) (f) surprised! | Posted: at 14-03-2011 08:49 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 14-03-2011 09:22 AM (13 years ago) (f) @mary123 yu too much jare......................keep it rolling..............................i came, i saw n' i read
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 14-03-2011 09:22 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Owhologbo") Owhologbo at 14-03-2011 09:55 AM (13 years ago) (m) This goes to all Naijapaals out there... it is the responsible of one person to make a relationship or marriage to be successful ok. There is no perfect match out there the more you keep on looking for perfect match the more you become a prey or predictor to the other sex. Learn to make your relationship work out,learn to sacrifices ur time, effort, and money to build one successful marriage. The more we try to emulate the western world the more we have separation and divorce... why not we look back to those day of our parents and grandparents..where they have nothing but they love each other... I know many of you will call it primitive era but it was so good where young men marries ladies they hardly know like the case of Isaac and Rebeca.. Let us think.. | Posted: at 14-03-2011 09:55 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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A MAN INITIATED A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE WITH A WOMAN AND ITS UP TO THE WOMAN TO KEEP AND MAINTAIN THE RELATIONSHIP/MARRRIAGE USING ALL HER FEMININITY.PROVERB 31 VS 10-31 SAYS IT ALL.BUT THEN AGAIN THE MEN SHOULD ALSO TRY TO HAVE FORESIGHT TO KNOW WHEN A WOMAN IS MAKING ENOUGH EFFORT FOR THEM TO SUCCEED AND NOT RIDE ON THEM USING HEADSHIP VIOLATION.OTHERWISE,IF MAN CANT SANCTION YOU THEN GOD IN MOUNT ZION WILL.WHATEVER YOU GIVE OUT FIRST TO YOUR SPOUSE ALWAYS BOUNCE BACK TO YOU IN BUCKET.ITS THERE IN NATURE YOU CANT ESCAPE FROM IT.FOR BOTH MEN AND WOMEN ALWAYS GIVE OUT YOUR BEST SHOT IN ANY RELATIONSHIP.FOR THE MEN.....JUST BECAUSE RITA BROKE YOUR HEART OR WHATEVER DOESNT MEAN YOU HAVE TO BE PIGHEADED,HARDHEARTED AND A MYSOGYNIST TOWARDS WOMEN OR USE BRUTAL UNACCREDITED BEHAVIOURAL PATTERN TO FOLLOW UP EMILY AND GLADYS.RITA IS RITA AND NEVER WILL BE EMILY OR THE OTHER.FOR THE WOMEN......DONT BE WAY IN OVER YOUR HEAD TO BE A MISANDRIST TOWARDS MEN AND START GENERALISING JUST BECAUSE PAUL WAS A BAD ASS IT THUS MEANS THAT PETER AND GABRIEL ARE ALSO BAD.ALWAYS GIVE OUT YOUR WHOLE FEELINGS IN ANY RELATIONSHIP YOU FIND YOURSELF IN SO THAT THERE WILL NOT BE ANY ALTERATED INTERFERENCE IN YOUR PRAYERS AND WISHES YOU DO SEEK FROM GOD.BELIEVE YOU ME,TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT WHEN YOU SHIELD 1PERCENT OF YOUR FEELINGS FORM YOUR RELATIONSHIP TOWARDS YOUR SPOUSE THERE ALWAYS WILL BE AN INTERFERENCE.GOD HAS SAID IT AND WE CANT MOCK HIM.INSTEAD WE HUMANS KEEP FOOLING OURSELVES.ITS A PITY THOUGH ONLY A HANDFUL CAN CONCEDE TO WHOLE HEARTEDNESS.RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE IS NOT 50/50 BUT 100/100.IF YOU WANT IT TO WORK OUT GIVE OUT YOUR 100 AND DEMAND 100 FROM YOUR SPOUSE AND BEFORE YOU KNOW IT,IT WILL BE HARDENED LIKE DIAMOND.
NICE ONE HERE WILLY, N SO TRUE thanks | Posted: at 14-03-2011 11:25 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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women are even worse than men but yet they complain and would tell who ever that cares that their men have done this and that even when they are the one at fault. they always like telling their own part of the story, i have seen and counsel so many men who are going through hell in the hand of their wife and fiancees but women complain every time just because they are always the one to be pitied. when ever a woman tells one or 2 stories of how they were heart broken by their men just try and get to hear from the man or call the two of them to explain face to face and you would be surprised that u have been feed with all sorts of lies by the lady. they can only deceive those who do not know them very well with their corroccodile tears and not those who have felt their dirty blows. i am not trying to say that some men are not guilty of what they were accused of by some women but not in every case. i am not also trying to say that all women are bad as well but women are not saint either. when i am chanced i am going to post a topic about how several guys have suffered from girls and the lies they tell just to be seen as a saint when they were not. have you ever heard of any woman that admitted being in a date with another guy while still on a very serious relationship even when caught red handed but men will admit. go to some countries and see what some nigerian woman whom their bride price and all marriage rites was duly paid for by their husbands are doing with another men in abroad even with their husbands best friends in some cases and u will pity for men. some times when you marry and bring your nigerian wife abroad u will end up marrying and bringing her abroad for another man more especially when things get bad for you financially or when she sees some one that is more comfortable than you are. some men are bad like wise many women too and no woman should say that it is only the men or all the man, they are even worse from my own experiences and statistics. no man will ever go to a woman s parents and pay her bride price and bring her abroad and abandon her but women are doing it every now and then here and other places in abroad, so who is are the worst?. there are good men,there are good women too and all men can not be bad like wise all women too but they should stop accusing men for every thing more especially when they are wrong just because people will believe them. i rest my case.
an element of truth man.you are absolutely right. | Posted: at 14-03-2011 11:26 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "vantheo") vantheo at 14-03-2011 11:51 AM (13 years ago) (m) Passing quietly
I'm vantheo! And i'm...........AWESOME!!!!! | Posted: at 14-03-2011 11:51 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "djosh4cesc") djosh4cesc at 14-03-2011 12:18 PM (13 years ago) (m) they are goats, liars, decievers, whatever
I thought you actually had some brains inside that head of yours.How wrong was l! | Posted: at 14-03-2011 12:18 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Adikpe") Adikpe at 14-03-2011 02:22 PM (13 years ago) (m) they are goats, liars, decievers, whatever, even my dad and my husby too.
....including your dad and your husby! | Posted: at 14-03-2011 02:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 14-03-2011 03:00 PM (13 years ago) (f) @ruthazunda: how many experienced married women have u spoken to as regards their experiences in their husband's houses? Have u forgotten that it takes 2 to tango? On a more serious note, failure in marriages can be either the fault of the wife or the husband...there's no hard and fast rule! I've been in it for years and have moved with a lot of married men and women to know that what works for one couple may be the bane of another...saying marriages fail because women fail to be helpmates to their women's being utterly unfair to women! There's a woman in my area who bore 7 boys to her husband the man was a muslim who felt he had d right to have strings of wives...he abandoned d woman and went to live with a nurse...the wife and the 7 boys stayed in one room apartment till date...some years later, he got stroke and his nurse came to dump him for his wife. To cut short the story, @ d point of death, he asked people to apologize to his wife cos he sinned against her...my take is I can only be a help to him if he allows me to...if he leaves room for that
I AM NOT BEING UNFAIR MA'AM( SO SRY IF THE NAME IS NT OK BY U) COS I AM A WOMAN........THERE'S ONE THING THAT IS CLEAR WEN ONE AGREES TO BE MARRIED, THAT IS DEVOTION AND COMMITMENT. YES; IT TAKES 2 TO TANGO, IT TAKES 2 BE WRONG, BUT IT CAN ONLY TAKE ONE TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT...AND 88% OF THAT POWER OF MAKING RIT LIES IN THE HANDS OF THE WOMEN.....IS ONLY A WOMAN THAT BUILDS A HOME....SO IF ANY MARRIAGE/ RELATIONSHIP MUST SURVIVE, IT TAKES A WOMAN TO DO SO..MOST OF OUR RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGES COLLAPSE BCOZ WE TEND TO RETALIATE WEN THE MAN DOES WRONG.....MEN WILL ALWAYS BE MEN, THEY HATE IT WEN A WOMAN TRIES TO COMPETE WITH THEM. IF UR HUSBAND/BF IS WRONG IT TAKES U TO MAKE IT RIT.........N WEN U FAIL........UR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE FAILS...AND NO MAN IGNORES AN OBEDIENT, CARING, SUPPORTING AND SUBMISSIVE WIFE... Yes, women are supposed to be help-mates to their husbands but are they supposed to suffer and die in silence? I still maintain, blaming women solely for broken relationships isn't fair.......both husband and wife are supposed to be a help to each other...and don't u think there's a limit to human endurance? And I repeat, u need to ask married women for their experiences....i have a knowledge of a woman who despite her husband having a child from someone else (he kept it from her until she found out herself), she still decided to go on cos she did not want a broken home for her children......later on after heavy conspiracy from the husband's family, the 2 women started living together...this woman still continued to be patient but u know what? The woman had to leave eventually and u know why? The husband and the woman turned uncontrollably fetish....the woman was having nightmares and told the husband, the husband brought in an Islamic cleric who wanted to give the woman an incision which would be rubbed with the blood of a cork! Meanwhile, a Pastor had warned the woman previously to beware of her husband cos he had horrible intentions.Now tell me, which woman would remain in such a home? Women have their faults and so do men....... | Posted: at 14-03-2011 03:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 14-03-2011 03:02 PM (13 years ago) (f) A MAN INITIATED A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE WITH A WOMAN AND ITS UP TO THE WOMAN TO KEEP AND MAINTAIN THE RELATIONSHIP/MARRRIAGE USING ALL HER FEMININITY.PROVERB 31 VS 10-31 SAYS IT ALL.BUT THEN AGAIN THE MEN SHOULD ALSO TRY TO HAVE FORESIGHT TO KNOW WHEN A WOMAN IS MAKING ENOUGH EFFORT FOR THEM TO SUCCEED AND NOT RIDE ON THEM USING HEADSHIP VIOLATION.OTHERWISE,IF MAN CANT SANCTION YOU THEN GOD IN MOUNT ZION WILL.WHATEVER YOU GIVE OUT FIRST TO YOUR SPOUSE ALWAYS BOUNCE BACK TO YOU IN BUCKET.ITS THERE IN NATURE YOU CANT ESCAPE FROM IT.FOR BOTH MEN AND WOMEN ALWAYS GIVE OUT YOUR BEST SHOT IN ANY RELATIONSHIP.FOR THE MEN.....JUST BECAUSE RITA BROKE YOUR HEART OR WHATEVER DOESNT MEAN YOU HAVE TO BE PIGHEADED,HARDHEARTED AND A MYSOGYNIST TOWARDS WOMEN OR USE BRUTAL UNACCREDITED BEHAVIOURAL PATTERN TO FOLLOW UP EMILY AND GLADYS.RITA IS RITA AND NEVER WILL BE EMILY OR THE OTHER.FOR THE WOMEN......DONT BE WAY IN OVER YOUR HEAD TO BE A MISANDRIST TOWARDS MEN AND START GENERALISING JUST BECAUSE PAUL WAS A BAD ASS IT THUS MEANS THAT PETER AND GABRIEL ARE ALSO BAD.ALWAYS GIVE OUT YOUR WHOLE FEELINGS IN ANY RELATIONSHIP YOU FIND YOURSELF IN SO THAT THERE WILL NOT BE ANY ALTERATED INTERFERENCE IN YOUR PRAYERS AND WISHES YOU DO SEEK FROM GOD.BELIEVE YOU ME,TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT WHEN YOU SHIELD 1PERCENT OF YOUR FEELINGS FORM YOUR RELATIONSHIP TOWARDS YOUR SPOUSE THERE ALWAYS WILL BE AN INTERFERENCE.GOD HAS SAID IT AND WE CANT MOCK HIM.INSTEAD WE HUMANS KEEP FOOLING OURSELVES.ITS A PITY THOUGH ONLY A HANDFUL CAN CONCEDE TO WHOLE HEARTEDNESS.RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE IS NOT 50/50 BUT 100/100.IF YOU WANT IT TO WORK OUT GIVE OUT YOUR 100 AND DEMAND 100 FROM YOUR SPOUSE AND BEFORE YOU KNOW IT,IT WILL BE HARDENED LIKE DIAMOND.
NICE ONE HERE WILLY, N SO TRUE thanks I love that statement in red..... | Posted: at 14-03-2011 03:02 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 14-03-2011 03:05 PM (13 years ago) (f) Well... Men call us the weaker sex, the weaker vessel which means they believe they are the stronger gender... Now tell me, why would anyone blame a weaker sex for the breaking of relationships?
WE AS LADIES BEING WEAKER SEX AND VESSELS IS NOT IN REGARDS TO RELATIONSHIPS......THAT'S AS REGARDS PROVISION A MAN IS STRONGER.....WE R MADE WEAKER VESSELS IN TERMS OF STRENGTH, WE VE GOT LIMIT....A MAN IS ALWAYS STRONGER..... A WOMAN IS MEANT TO HELP THE MAN, NOW IF A RELATIONSHIP FAILS, THEN THE WOMAN NEVER HELPED HIM. WE HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE STRENGTH A MAN HAS, IS YOU THE LADY....WEN THE BIBLE SAYS "HE DATS FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GUD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOR FROM THE LORD"..THAT'S TO SAY THAT, YOU R SUPPOSE TO BE A GIFT TO THAT MAN AND GIFTS ARE CHERISHED AND HELD IN HIGH ESTEEM.....WEN U ACT LIKE A WOMAN THAT U R SUPPOSE TO BE, A MAN IS NOT BLIND TO DAT..THE POWER TO BUILD, TO SUPPORT AND TO KEEP LIES IN THE HANDS OF WOMEN....WATCH CAREFULLY, IN ANY SUCCESSFUL FAMILY THERE IS A SUPPORTING, UNDERSTANDING, OBEDIENT, SUBMISSIVE, AND 1DAFUL WOMAN Ruth Babe, Your contribution is correct, accurate and reasonble !!! TNX...................... All men would see this as a great contribution which is very accurate....but the reality is that it takes a woman to build a home but with adequate support from the man......this is the truth. I cannot readily blame the man or the woman when relationships break until I've listened to both sides of the story.....I've seen men dealt with mercilessly by women and I've seen women treated like an animal by men.......it takes both to achieve success...... | Posted: at 14-03-2011 03:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 14-03-2011 03:08 PM (13 years ago) (f) If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do? Everything else suffer when the haed is out of place or malfunctioning. Any family where the man's leadership is not strong and effective is a sick famliy or relationship.A sick family will naturally produce "sick people!, Friend if yu dont work at yur marriage / Relationships , yu' re not going to have a good one
lucke 11:21 when a strong man armed keepeth his palace, his good are in peace, Genesis 2 15 And the lord god took the man, and put him into the garden of eden to dress it and to keep it THE MAN IS THE FAMILY, FAMILY IS THE MAN, IN ISAIAH 51 2. Every family is named after the father of the house. both the childern and wife bear the man name. GOD LOOK AT THE EVERY MEMBER OF THE FAMILY THROUGH THE MAN, GOD said I CALLED( HIM )ALONE AND BLESSED HIM AND INCREASED HIM"AND AUTOMATICALLY BOTH WIFE AND CHILDREN RE BENEFICIERS
God bless u for this mary...... | Posted: at 14-03-2011 03:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "emeryboyo") emeryboyo at 14-03-2011 03:15 PM (13 years ago) (m) Reply |
![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 14-03-2011 03:21 PM (13 years ago) (m) Well... Men call us the weaker sex, the weaker vessel which means they believe they are the stronger gender... Now tell me, why would anyone blame a weaker sex for the breaking of relationships?
WE AS LADIES BEING WEAKER SEX AND VESSELS IS NOT IN REGARDS TO RELATIONSHIPS......THAT'S AS REGARDS PROVISION A MAN IS STRONGER.....WE R MADE WEAKER VESSELS IN TERMS OF STRENGTH, WE VE GOT LIMIT....A MAN IS ALWAYS STRONGER..... A WOMAN IS MEANT TO HELP THE MAN, NOW IF A RELATIONSHIP FAILS, THEN THE WOMAN NEVER HELPED HIM. WE HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE STRENGTH A MAN HAS, IS YOU THE LADY....WEN THE BIBLE SAYS "HE DATS FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GUD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOR FROM THE LORD"..THAT'S TO SAY THAT, YOU R SUPPOSE TO BE A GIFT TO THAT MAN AND GIFTS ARE CHERISHED AND HELD IN HIGH ESTEEM.....WEN U ACT LIKE A WOMAN THAT U R SUPPOSE TO BE, A MAN IS NOT BLIND TO DAT..THE POWER TO BUILD, TO SUPPORT AND TO KEEP LIES IN THE HANDS OF WOMEN....WATCH CAREFULLY, IN ANY SUCCESSFUL FAMILY THERE IS A SUPPORTING, UNDERSTANDING, OBEDIENT, SUBMISSIVE, AND 1DAFUL WOMAN Ruth Babe, Your contribution is correct, accurate and reasonble !!! TNX...................... All men would see this as a great contribution which is very accurate.... but the reality is that it takes a woman to but a home but with adequate support from the man......this is the truth. I cannot readily blame the man or the woman when relationships break until I've listened to both sides of the story.....I've seen men dealt with mercilessly by women and I've seen women treated like an animal by men.......it takes both to achieve success...... it good as you understand the fact in red,some women don't get it.the cause of broken relationship/marriage could from either side,but the reality today is that majority of women do blame their man for the break up which is absolutely unacceptable. | Posted: at 14-03-2011 03:21 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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