![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 14-03-2011 03:24 PM (14 years ago)  (m)
Well... Men call us the weaker sex, the weaker vessel which means they believe they are the stronger gender... Now tell me, why would anyone blame a weaker sex for the breaking of relationships?
WE AS LADIES BEING WEAKER SEX AND VESSELS IS NOT IN REGARDS TO RELATIONSHIPS......THAT'S AS REGARDS PROVISION A MAN IS STRONGER.....WE R MADE WEAKER VESSELS IN TERMS OF STRENGTH, WE VE GOT LIMIT....A MAN IS ALWAYS STRONGER..... A WOMAN IS MEANT TO HELP THE MAN, NOW IF A RELATIONSHIP FAILS, THEN THE WOMAN NEVER HELPED HIM. WE HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE STRENGTH A MAN HAS, IS YOU THE LADY....WEN THE BIBLE SAYS "HE DATS FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GUD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOR FROM THE LORD"..THAT'S TO SAY THAT, YOU R SUPPOSE TO BE A GIFT TO THAT MAN AND GIFTS ARE CHERISHED AND HELD IN HIGH ESTEEM.....WEN U ACT LIKE A WOMAN THAT U R SUPPOSE TO BE, A MAN IS NOT BLIND TO DAT..THE POWER TO BUILD, TO SUPPORT AND TO KEEP LIES IN THE HANDS OF WOMEN....WATCH CAREFULLY, IN ANY SUCCESSFUL FAMILY THERE IS A SUPPORTING, UNDERSTANDING, OBEDIENT, SUBMISSIVE, AND 1DAFUL WOMAN Ruth Babe, Your contribution is correct, accurate and reasonble !!! TNX...................... All men would see this as a great contribution which is very accurate.... but the reality is that it takes a woman to but a home but with adequate support from the man......this is the truth. I cannot readily blame the man or the woman when relationships break until I've listened to both sides of the story.....I've seen men dealt with mercilessly by women and I've seen women treated like an animal by men.......it takes both to achieve success...... | Posted: at 14-03-2011 03:24 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 14-03-2011 03:46 PM (14 years ago) (f) Well... Men call us the weaker sex, the weaker vessel which means they believe they are the stronger gender... Now tell me, why would anyone blame a weaker sex for the breaking of relationships?
WE AS LADIES BEING WEAKER SEX AND VESSELS IS NOT IN REGARDS TO RELATIONSHIPS......THAT'S AS REGARDS PROVISION A MAN IS STRONGER.....WE R MADE WEAKER VESSELS IN TERMS OF STRENGTH, WE VE GOT LIMIT....A MAN IS ALWAYS STRONGER..... A WOMAN IS MEANT TO HELP THE MAN, NOW IF A RELATIONSHIP FAILS, THEN THE WOMAN NEVER HELPED HIM. WE HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE STRENGTH A MAN HAS, IS YOU THE LADY....WEN THE BIBLE SAYS "HE DATS FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GUD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOR FROM THE LORD"..THAT'S TO SAY THAT, YOU R SUPPOSE TO BE A GIFT TO THAT MAN AND GIFTS ARE CHERISHED AND HELD IN HIGH ESTEEM.....WEN U ACT LIKE A WOMAN THAT U R SUPPOSE TO BE, A MAN IS NOT BLIND TO DAT..THE POWER TO BUILD, TO SUPPORT AND TO KEEP LIES IN THE HANDS OF WOMEN....WATCH CAREFULLY, IN ANY SUCCESSFUL FAMILY THERE IS A SUPPORTING, UNDERSTANDING, OBEDIENT, SUBMISSIVE, AND 1DAFUL WOMAN Ruth Babe, Your contribution is correct, accurate and reasonble !!! TNX...................... All men would see this as a great contribution which is very accurate.... but the reality is that it takes a woman to but a home but with adequate support from the man......this is the truth. I cannot readily blame the man or the woman when relationships break until I've listened to both sides of the story.....I've seen men dealt with mercilessly by women and I've seen women treated like an animal by men.......it takes both to achieve success...... it good as you understand the fact in red,some women don't get it.the cause of broken relationship/marriage could from either side,but the reality today is that majority of women do blame their man for the break up which is absolutely unacceptable. Both men and women should check themselves when they've a break-up........women should not blame men unnecessarily and vice versa..............It's not only the women who should exercise patient and it's not only the men who requires respect; in the same vein, men should be supported and given a conducive atmosphere to make them be the pillar they're supposed to be... | Posted: at 14-03-2011 03:46 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@ruthazunda: how many experienced married women have u spoken to as regards their experiences in their husband's houses? Have u forgotten that it takes 2 to tango? On a more serious note, failure in marriages can be either the fault of the wife or the husband...there's no hard and fast rule! I've been in it for years and have moved with a lot of married men and women to know that what works for one couple may be the bane of another...saying marriages fail because women fail to be helpmates to their women's being utterly unfair to women! There's a woman in my area who bore 7 boys to her husband the man was a muslim who felt he had d right to have strings of wives...he abandoned d woman and went to live with a nurse...the wife and the 7 boys stayed in one room apartment till date...some years later, he got stroke and his nurse came to dump him for his wife. To cut short the story, @ d point of death, he asked people to apologize to his wife cos he sinned against her...my take is I can only be a help to him if he allows me to...if he leaves room for that
I AM NOT BEING UNFAIR MA'AM( SO SRY IF THE NAME IS NT OK BY U) COS I AM A WOMAN........THERE'S ONE THING THAT IS CLEAR WEN ONE AGREES TO BE MARRIED, THAT IS DEVOTION AND COMMITMENT. YES; IT TAKES 2 TO TANGO, IT TAKES 2 BE WRONG, BUT IT CAN ONLY TAKE ONE TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT...AND 88% OF THAT POWER OF MAKING RIT LIES IN THE HANDS OF THE WOMEN.....IS ONLY A WOMAN THAT BUILDS A HOME....SO IF ANY MARRIAGE/ RELATIONSHIP MUST SURVIVE, IT TAKES A WOMAN TO DO SO..MOST OF OUR RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGES COLLAPSE BCOZ WE TEND TO RETALIATE WEN THE MAN DOES WRONG.....MEN WILL ALWAYS BE MEN, THEY HATE IT WEN A WOMAN TRIES TO COMPETE WITH THEM. IF UR HUSBAND/BF IS WRONG IT TAKES U TO MAKE IT RIT.........N WEN U FAIL........UR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE FAILS...AND NO MAN IGNORES AN OBEDIENT, CARING, SUPPORTING AND SUBMISSIVE WIFE... Yes, women are supposed to be help-mates to their husbands but are they supposed to suffer and die in silence? I still maintain, blaming women solely for broken relationships isn't fair.......both husband and wife are supposed to be a help to each other...and don't u think there's a limit to human endurance? And I repeat, u need to ask married women for their experiences....i have a knowledge of a woman who despite her husband having a child from someone else (he kept it from her until she found out herself), she still decided to go on cos she did not want a broken home for her children......later on after heavy conspiracy from the husband's family, the 2 women started living together...this woman still continued to be patient but u know what? The woman had to leave eventually and u know why? The husband and the woman turned uncontrollably fetish....the woman was having nightmares and told the husband, the husband brought in an Islamic cleric who wanted to give the woman an incision which would be rubbed with the blood of a cork! Meanwhile, a Pastor had warned the woman previously to beware of her husband cos he had horrible intentions.Now tell me, which woman would remain in such a home? Women have their faults and so do men....... TOT I WILL NOT COME BACK TO THIS TOPIC AGAIN BUT HERE I AM. A WOMAN IS BOUND TO SUFFER LIKE U SAID WEN SHE RAISES SHOULDERS WITH HER HUSBAND....WEN HE SHOUTS, SHE SHOUTS....HMMMMM.... IF U KNOW MEN, THAT'S THE ASPECT THEY HATE. TALKING ABT ASKING MARRIED PPLE, I VE LIVED WITH LOTS OF THEM, I VE STAYED WITH LOTS OF THEM BOTH BLACK AND WHITE AND I LEARN FROM MY PARENTS AS WELL (25 YRS OF SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE MY PARENTS) MY UNCLE 42YRS OF SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE ETC.IS NOT HOW MANY YRS SPENT, BUT HOW WELL?......IF ANY MAN MALTREATS A WOMAN, THEN THE WOMAN HAS A QUESTIONABLE CHARACTER, OR SHE IS LACKING IN SOME AREAS OF HER RESPONSIBILITIES.. SOME TYMS WE CHASE DEM AWAY...WEN U DRESS LIKE A 60 YR OLD LADY WEN U R JUST 40 SIMPLY BCOS U R MARRIED Y WOULDN'T UR MAN LOOK OUT SIDE,.WEN ADA IS NOW THE ONE MAKING HER FATHER'S MEAL, WASHING HIS CLOTHS ETC...WEN ALL U DO IS TO NAG WEN EVER HE COMES BACK LATE.HMMM...THE MOST POWERFUL WEAPON TO HOLD A MAN FIRM IS A GENTLE AND QUIET SPIRIT, YOU WILL ALWAYS GET UR MAN AT WILL WEN U USE THE SOFTEST TONE IN TALKING TO HIM .THAT MAN GOES OUT THERE NOT TO GET A FELLOW MAN BUT A WOMAN....HEY! AT THIS POINT, THERE IS ONLY ONE QUESTION TO ASK, WHICH IS: WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?.... FOR ANY REASONABLE MAN TO BRING IN ANOTHER WOMAN, THERE IS ONLY ONE TRUTH...THE LADY IS LACKING .....THINK ABOUT IT | Posted: at 14-03-2011 04:21 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 14-03-2011 04:55 PM (14 years ago) (f) I still maintain and after this time, I'm not saying anything on this again........men are not entirely blameless in relationships....when something goes wrong, try and ask questions........faults may come either from him or from her. Even the Bible admonishes both men and women....why didn't the Bible admonish only the men? ......Are you saying the Bible is wrong to do this? even the Bible says a man who cannot provide for his family is an infidel! Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh (what do u say about men who marry countless women?) Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband; and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.--I Corinthians 7:2-4- Note this verse refers to both of them
Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word. That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let everyone of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.--Ephesians 5:21-33Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.--I Corinthians 7:3Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.--Colossians 3:18 The main lesson here is that both the man and wife must contribute to make their marriage work. Need I say more? | Posted: at 14-03-2011 04:55 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 14-03-2011 04:57 PM (14 years ago) (f) I still maintain and after this time, I'm not saying anything on this again........WOMEN are not entirely blameless in relationships....when something goes wrong, try and ask questions........faults may come either from him or from her. Even the Bible admonishes both men and women....why didn't the Bible admonish only the men? ......Are you saying the Bible is wrong to do this? even the Bible says a man who cannot provide for his family is an infidel!
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh (what do u say about men who marry countless women?)
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband; and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.--I Corinthians 7:2-4-Note this verse refers to both of them
Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word. That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let everyone of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.--Ephesians 5:21-33
Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.--I Corinthians 7:3
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.--Colossians 3:18
The main lesson here is that both the man and wife must contribute to make their marriage work. Need I say more?
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![-]( "esonu") esonu at 14-03-2011 05:08 PM (14 years ago) (m) THERE IS THIS TENDENCY FOR LADIES TO CONCLUDE AND BLAME ALL MEN OUT THERE WHENEVER THERE IS A DISAPPOINTMENT IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP, THEY SAY ALL MEN ARE THE SAME AND ARE FOOLS, IDIOTS, WICKED ETC, WHY IS IT SO? WHY DO THEY TEND TO GENERALIZE FOR A WRONG DONE BY JUST A SINGLE PERSON? LADIES I NEED ANSWER PLZZ
cos they think its the sole responsibility of a guy to keep a relationship going
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS | Posted: at 14-03-2011 05:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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I still maintain and after this time, I'm not saying anything on this again........men are not entirely blameless in relationships....when something goes wrong, try and ask questions........faults may come either from him or from her. Even the Bible admonishes both men and women....why didn't the Bible admonish only the men? ......Are you saying the Bible is wrong to do this? even the Bible says a man who cannot provide for his family is an infidel!
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh (what do u say about men who marry countless women?)
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband; and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.--I Corinthians 7:2-4-Note this verse refers to both of them
Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word. That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let everyone of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.--Ephesians 5:21-33
Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.--I Corinthians 7:3
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.--Colossians 3:18
The main lesson here is that both the man and wife must contribute to make their marriage work. Need I say more?
IF U READ MY POST VERY WELL, U WILL NOTICE THAT I DID NOT BLAME ANY ONE FROM BOTH PARTIES...( WHAT I DID WAS STATING OUT WHO FAILED IN ITS RESPONSIBILITY )..... LIKE U SAID "PROVISION IN THE FAMILY" THAT'S THE MAN'S DUTY (WOULD U BLAME A WOMAN IF THE FAMILY LACKS?NO ....THAT' BCOS THAT'S NOT HER RESPONSIBILITY) THESE TWO PPLE VE DIFFERENT RESPONSIBILITIES ONE PURPOSE IN MARRIAGE.......JUST UNDERSTAND THAT IF ANY FAMILY LACKS, THE MAN FAILED AND IF ANY HOME REEKS THE WOMAN FAILED..........BOTH VE "DIFFERENT DUTIES SAME PURPOSE"............HMMM I TINK I VE WRITTEN SO MUCH..... A MAN CAN NEVA TAKE THE PLACE THE WOMAN LIKE WISE THE WOMAN TO THE MAN....DON'T DIFFERENT RESPONSIBILITIES SAME PURPOSE THAT'S | Posted: at 14-03-2011 05:22 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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I still maintain and after this time, I'm not saying anything on this again........men are not entirely blameless in relationships....when something goes wrong, try and ask questions........faults may come either from him or from her. Even the Bible admonishes both men and women....why didn't the Bible admonish only the men? ......Are you saying the Bible is wrong to do this? even the Bible says a man who cannot provide for his family is an infidel!
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh (what do u say about men who marry countless women?)
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband; and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.--I Corinthians 7:2-4-Note this verse refers to both of them
Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word. That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let everyone of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.--Ephesians 5:21-33
Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.--I Corinthians 7:3
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.--Colossians 3:18
The main lesson here is that both the man and wife must contribute to make their marriage work. Need I say more?
IF U READ MY POST VERY WELL, U WILL NOTICE THAT I DID NOT BLAME ANY ONE FROM BOTH PARTIES...( WHAT I DID WAS STATING OUT WHO FAILED IN ITS RESPONSIBILITY )..... LIKE U SAID "PROVISION IN THE FAMILY" THAT'S THE MAN'S DUTY (WOULD U BLAME A WOMAN IF THE FAMILY LACKS?NO ....THAT' BCOS THAT'S NOT HER RESPONSIBILITY) THESE TWO PPLE VE DIFFERENT RESPONSIBILITIES ONE PURPOSE IN MARRIAGE.......JUST UNDERSTAND THAT IF ANY FAMILY LACKS, THE MAN FAILED ,AND IF ANY HOME REEKS THE WOMAN FAILED..........BOTH VE "DIFFERENT DUTIES SAME PURPOSE"............HMMM I TINK I VE WRITTEN SO MUCH..... A MAN CAN NEVA TAKE THE PLACE OF A WOMAN LIKE WISE THE WOMAN, CAN NEVA TAKE THE PLACE OF A MAN....THEY VE DIFFERENT RESPONSIBILITIES SAME PURPOSE THAT'S MARRIAGE | Posted: at 14-03-2011 05:29 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 14-03-2011 05:39 PM (14 years ago) (m) Well... Men call us the weaker sex, the weaker vessel which means they believe they are the stronger gender... Now tell me, why would anyone blame a weaker sex for the breaking of relationships?
WE AS LADIES BEING WEAKER SEX AND VESSELS IS NOT IN REGARDS TO RELATIONSHIPS......THAT'S AS REGARDS PROVISION A MAN IS STRONGER.....WE R MADE WEAKER VESSELS IN TERMS OF STRENGTH, WE VE GOT LIMIT....A MAN IS ALWAYS STRONGER..... A WOMAN IS MEANT TO HELP THE MAN, NOW IF A RELATIONSHIP FAILS, THEN THE WOMAN NEVER HELPED HIM. WE HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE STRENGTH A MAN HAS, IS YOU THE LADY....WEN THE BIBLE SAYS "HE DATS FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GUD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOR FROM THE LORD"..THAT'S TO SAY THAT, YOU R SUPPOSE TO BE A GIFT TO THAT MAN AND GIFTS ARE CHERISHED AND HELD IN HIGH ESTEEM.....WEN U ACT LIKE A WOMAN THAT U R SUPPOSE TO BE, A MAN IS NOT BLIND TO DAT..THE POWER TO BUILD, TO SUPPORT AND TO KEEP LIES IN THE HANDS OF WOMEN....WATCH CAREFULLY, IN ANY SUCCESSFUL FAMILY THERE IS A SUPPORTING, UNDERSTANDING, OBEDIENT, SUBMISSIVE, AND 1DAFUL WOMAN Ruth Babe, Your contribution is correct, accurate and reasonble !!! TNX...................... All men would see this as a great contribution which is very accurate.... but the reality is that it takes a woman to but a home but with adequate support from the man......this is the truth. I cannot readily blame the man or the woman when relationships break until I've listened to both sides of the story.....I've seen men dealt with mercilessly by women and I've seen women treated like an animal by men.......it takes both to achieve success...... it good as you understand the fact in red,some women don't get it.the cause of broken relationship/marriage could from either side,but the reality today is that majority of women do blame their man for the break up which is absolutely unacceptable. Both men and women should check themselves when they've a break-up........women should not blame men unnecessarily and vice versa..............It's not only the women who should exercise patient and it's not only the men who requires respect; in the same vein, men should be supported and given a conducive atmosphere to make them be the pillar they're supposed to be... not supposed to be,Men are and still going to be the pillar of the house..the simple truth is that Woman is the KEY for a lasting marriage..if she can study his man attitude,she would able to figure out her husband weak points and transform it to her own advantage and that of the family...i over heard you mention about Men that married more than one wife,remember the Bible never condemned such practice,in fact some great Men in the Bible did married more than one wife...But as long as this 21st century is concern i'm totally against it...the bottom line here women should be humble and concentrate more on their responsibilities as wives,in so doing even a stubborn and irresponsible Man will one day realize the important of his wife and change...patients and prayer are the key to achieve it. | Posted: at 14-03-2011 05:39 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Well... Men call us the weaker sex, the weaker vessel which means they believe they are the stronger gender... Now tell me, why would anyone blame a weaker sex for the breaking of relationships?
WE AS LADIES BEING WEAKER SEX AND VESSELS IS NOT IN REGARDS TO RELATIONSHIPS......THAT'S AS REGARDS PROVISION A MAN IS STRONGER.....WE R MADE WEAKER VESSELS IN TERMS OF STRENGTH, WE VE GOT LIMIT....A MAN IS ALWAYS STRONGER..... A WOMAN IS MEANT TO HELP THE MAN, NOW IF A RELATIONSHIP FAILS, THEN THE WOMAN NEVER HELPED HIM. WE HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE STRENGTH A MAN HAS, IS YOU THE LADY....WEN THE BIBLE SAYS "HE DATS FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GUD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOR FROM THE LORD"..THAT'S TO SAY THAT, YOU R SUPPOSE TO BE A GIFT TO THAT MAN AND GIFTS ARE CHERISHED AND HELD IN HIGH ESTEEM.....WEN U ACT LIKE A WOMAN THAT U R SUPPOSE TO BE, A MAN IS NOT BLIND TO DAT..THE POWER TO BUILD, TO SUPPORT AND TO KEEP LIES IN THE HANDS OF WOMEN....WATCH CAREFULLY, IN ANY SUCCESSFUL FAMILY THERE IS A SUPPORTING, UNDERSTANDING, OBEDIENT, SUBMISSIVE, AND 1DAFUL WOMAN Ruth Babe, Your contribution is correct, accurate and reasonble !!! TNX...................... All men would see this as a great contribution which is very accurate.... but the reality is that it takes a woman to but a home but with adequate support from the man......this is the truth. I cannot readily blame the man or the woman when relationships break until I've listened to both sides of the story.....I've seen men dealt with mercilessly by women and I've seen women treated like an animal by men.......it takes both to achieve success...... it good as you understand the fact in red,some women don't get it.the cause of broken relationship/marriage could from either side,but the reality today is that majority of women do blame their man for the break up which is absolutely unacceptable. Both men and women should check themselves when they've a break-up........women should not blame men unnecessarily and vice versa..............It's not only the women who should exercise patient and it's not only the men who requires respect; in the same vein, men should be supported and given a conducive atmosphere to make them be the pillar they're supposed to be... not supposed to be,Men are and still going to be the pillar of the house..the simple truth is that Woman is the KEY for a lasting marriage..if she can study his man attitude,she would able to figure out her husband weak points and transform it to her own advantage and that of the family...i over heard you mention about Men that married more than one wife,remember the Bible never condemned such practice,in fact some great Men in the Bible did married more than one wife...But as long as this 21st century is concern i'm totally against it...the bottom line here women should be humble and concentrate more on their responsibilities as wives,in so doing even a stubborn and irresponsible Man will one day realize the important of his wife and change...patients and prayer are the key to achieve it. BRILLIANTLY WRITTEN N APPROPRIATE CHOICE OF WORDS THERE | Posted: at 14-03-2011 05:49 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 14-03-2011 05:58 PM (14 years ago) (m) Well... Men call us the weaker sex, the weaker vessel which means they believe they are the stronger gender... Now tell me, why would anyone blame a weaker sex for the breaking of relationships?
WE AS LADIES BEING WEAKER SEX AND VESSELS IS NOT IN REGARDS TO RELATIONSHIPS......THAT'S AS REGARDS PROVISION A MAN IS STRONGER.....WE R MADE WEAKER VESSELS IN TERMS OF STRENGTH, WE VE GOT LIMIT....A MAN IS ALWAYS STRONGER..... A WOMAN IS MEANT TO HELP THE MAN, NOW IF A RELATIONSHIP FAILS, THEN THE WOMAN NEVER HELPED HIM. WE HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE STRENGTH A MAN HAS, IS YOU THE LADY....WEN THE BIBLE SAYS "HE DATS FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GUD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOR FROM THE LORD"..THAT'S TO SAY THAT, YOU R SUPPOSE TO BE A GIFT TO THAT MAN AND GIFTS ARE CHERISHED AND HELD IN HIGH ESTEEM.....WEN U ACT LIKE A WOMAN THAT U R SUPPOSE TO BE, A MAN IS NOT BLIND TO DAT..THE POWER TO BUILD, TO SUPPORT AND TO KEEP LIES IN THE HANDS OF WOMEN....WATCH CAREFULLY, IN ANY SUCCESSFUL FAMILY THERE IS A SUPPORTING, UNDERSTANDING, OBEDIENT, SUBMISSIVE, AND 1DAFUL WOMAN Ruth Babe, Your contribution is correct, accurate and reasonble !!! TNX...................... All men would see this as a great contribution which is very accurate.... but the reality is that it takes a woman to but a home but with adequate support from the man......this is the truth. I cannot readily blame the man or the woman when relationships break until I've listened to both sides of the story.....I've seen men dealt with mercilessly by women and I've seen women treated like an animal by men.......it takes both to achieve success...... it good as you understand the fact in red,some women don't get it.the cause of broken relationship/marriage could from either side,but the reality today is that majority of women do blame their man for the break up which is absolutely unacceptable. Both men and women should check themselves when they've a break-up........women should not blame men unnecessarily and vice versa..............It's not only the women who should exercise patient and it's not only the men who requires respect; in the same vein, men should be supported and given a conducive atmosphere to make them be the pillar they're supposed to be... not supposed to be,Men are and still going to be the pillar of the house..the simple truth is that Woman is the KEY for a lasting marriage..if she can study his man attitude,she would able to figure out her husband weak points and transform it to her own advantage and that of the family...i over heard you mention about Men that married more than one wife,remember the Bible never condemned such practice,in fact some great Men in the Bible did married more than one wife...But as long as this 21st century is concern i'm totally against it...the bottom line here women should be humble and concentrate more on their responsibilities as wives,in so doing even a stubborn and irresponsible Man will one day realize the important of his wife and change...patients and prayer are the key to achieve it. BRILLIANTLY WRITTEN N APPROPRIATE CHOICE OF WORDS THERE thanks!!  | Posted: at 14-03-2011 05:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "nnennababe") nnennababe at 14-03-2011 07:31 PM (14 years ago) (f) reading n learning.......  | Posted: at 14-03-2011 07:31 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "mary123") mary123 at 14-03-2011 09:53 PM (14 years ago) (f) For this cause men should bow their knees unto the father of our lord jesus christ, of whom the whole family in heaven earth is named to help them and save their marriage and give knowledge and power to deal marriage problems may i say once again, THE MAN IS THE FAMILY, THE FAMILY IS THE MAN. THE Bible tells us, is the GOD OF Abraham, Isaac and jacob, NOT God of sarah, rebecca, RACHE!, IF YUR MARRIAGE FAILED MEN, GOd will ask yu about her  Get the understanding of wat U WRITING( NO OF FENCE PLS, I AM SRY IF THE ANNOYS U) "encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored." Titus 2:4-5 "get married, bear children, keep house" 1 Timothy 5:14 "But women will be preserved through the bearing of children if they continue in faith and love and sanctity with self-restraint." 1 Timothy 2:15 Talking abt being the 'HEAD" means that the man is the manager of the WIFE while the wife is the manager of the HOME under her husband supervision.In the other hand, the man is said to be the HEAD in terms of responsibilities taking care of his family...( that is talking abt jobs...for men is mandatory, for women is optional that is where the HEAD of the family comes in..If any marriage fails, the woman failed....And if any home lacks provision the man failed....these are 2 different responsibilities. The purpose why a woman is created is to help the man, the bible reveals this in : Genesis 2:18 .In conclusion, the wife Must not neglect her primary responsibility, the home, Tit.2:5. Look my dear, when yu a man recongnise his wife, and give her the honour thet is due unto her, then she will be come a wife indeed, Every family reflects the stuff the man is made of, every other things like : love , respert etc will come up | Posted: at 14-03-2011 09:53 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 14-03-2011 10:00 PM (14 years ago) (f) una get time
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 14-03-2011 10:00 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 14-03-2011 10:02 PM (14 years ago) (f) I still maintain and after this time, I'm not saying anything on this again........men are not entirely blameless in relationships....when something goes wrong, try and ask questions........faults may come either from him or from her. Even the Bible admonishes both men and women....why didn't the Bible admonish only the men? ......Are you saying the Bible is wrong to do this? even the Bible says a man who cannot provide for his family is an infidel!
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh (what do u say about men who marry countless women?)
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband; and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.--I Corinthians 7:2-4-Note this verse refers to both of them
Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word. That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let everyone of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.--Ephesians 5:21-33
Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.--I Corinthians 7:3
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.--Colossians 3:18
The main lesson here is that both the man and wife must contribute to make their marriage work. Need I say more?
u have spoken well it takes two to make a home work u cant give the work of two people to only one person he or she will break down we r all humans with feelings | Posted: at 14-03-2011 10:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "mary123") mary123 at 14-03-2011 10:11 PM (14 years ago) (f) @ ruthazundah Womanhood adds colour, tenderness, beauth and freshness to the home, all this will come up when, yur position as the husband of yur wife is been well takeing care of.... it damands that yu keep pouring into her life, yu keep watering her life(with what yu are giving)to make it release to yu what is required make yur life complete. Ephesian 5:27 | Posted: at 14-03-2011 10:11 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 14-03-2011 10:13 PM (14 years ago) (f) pastor inda forum
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 14-03-2011 10:13 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "mary123") mary123 at 14-03-2011 10:31 PM (14 years ago) (f) @ ruthazudah can i shock yu and tell yu that submition will come naturaly.... ask the men? What are yu giving to yur wife? What are yu planting in her life? Is it love or hatred? Peace or trouble? Pain or comfort? Joy or Sorrow? Strength or Weakness? Health or Sickness? Plus or Minus? faith or doubt? Trust or disappointment NOW, try to bring yu wife under a microscope this movement_ inside out. What do yu see? I boldly say whatevery yu are seeing in yur wife today is the fruit of what yu put or neglected to put into her life | Posted: at 14-03-2011 10:31 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 14-03-2011 10:34 PM (14 years ago) (m) hmm interesting argument going on here..
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 14-03-2011 10:34 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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