Why do ladies always blame failed relationships on men? (Page 7)

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Posted: at 13-03-2011 09:30 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master

women are even worse than men but yet they complain and would tell who ever that cares that their men have done this and that even when they are the one at fault. they always like telling their own part of the story, i have seen and counsel so many men who are going through hell in the hand of their wife and fiancees but women complain every time just because they are always the one to be pitied. when ever a woman tells one or 2 stories of how they were heart broken by their men just try and get to hear from the man or call the two of them to explain face to face and you would be surprised that  u have been feed with all sorts of lies by the lady. they can only deceive those who do not know them very well with their corroccodile tears and not those who have felt their dirty blows. i am not trying to say that some men are not guilty of what they were accused of by some women but not in every case. i am not also trying to say that all women are bad as well but women are not saint either. when i am chanced i am going to post a topic about how several guys have suffered from girls and the lies they tell just to be seen as a saint when they were not. have you ever heard of any woman that admitted being in a date with another guy while still on a very serious relationship even when caught red handed but men will admit. go to some countries and see what some nigerian woman whom their bride price and all marriage rites was duly paid for by their husbands are doing with another men in abroad even with their husbands best friends in some cases and u will pity for men. some times when you marry and bring your nigerian wife abroad u will end up marrying and bringing her abroad for another man more especially when things get bad for you financially or when she sees some one that is more comfortable than you are. some men are bad like wise many women too and no woman should say that it is only the men or all the man, they are even worse from my own experiences and statistics. no man will ever go to a woman s parents and pay her bride price and bring her abroad and abandon her but women are doing it every now and then here and other places in abroad, so who is are the worst?.   there are good men,there are good women too and all men can not be bad like wise all women too but they should stop accusing men for every thing more especially when they are wrong just because people will believe them. i rest my case.   

Posted: at 13-03-2011 09:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do? Everything else suffer when the haed is out of place or malfunctioning. Any family where the man's leadership is not strong and effective is a sick famliy or relationship.A sick family will naturally produce "sick people!, Friend if yu dont work at yur marriage / Relationships , yu' re not going to have a good one
lucke 11:21 when a strong man armed keepeth his palace, his good are in peace, Genesis 2 15 And the lord god took the man, and  put  him into the garden of eden to dress it and to keep it THE MAN IS THE FAMILY, FAMILY IS THE MAN, IN ISAIAH 51 2. Every family is named after the father of the house. both the childern and wife bear the man name. GOD LOOK  AT THE EVERY MEMBER OF THE FAMILY THROUGH THE MAN, GOD said I CALLED( HIM )ALONE AND BLESSED HIM AND INCREASED HIM"AND AUTOMATICALLY BOTH WIFE AND CHILDREN RE BENEFICIERS

Posted: at 13-03-2011 10:33 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

when yu're ignorant of God word, yu will behave foolishly, and leadership is not for fools.what vision have yu see concerning yurseif yur wife, family?What yu see is what yu pursu.What yu see is what God will fufill .Readership in the house which is man's responsibity demands increasing maturity in character, responsiblity and wisdom; not increasing money and possessions Wake up and take yur place in spiritual leadership of yur home, and then watch all the that have been going wrong start going right ANY HUSBAND WHO DOES NOT KNOW THE MIND OF GOD OR THE WAYS OF GOD, CANNOT EXERCISE EFFECTIVE AUTHORITY OVER HIS WIFE  (JEREMIAH 5:5.

Posted: at 13-03-2011 11:01 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Una dey break ur relationship when me dey sing I wanna love yo like Bob Marley

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Posted: at 13-03-2011 11:09 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I Corinthian 11:9 Neither was the man created for the woman, but the woman for man.if yu put yur wife where she belong in yur life, not just in yur house.  I PETER 3:7 A man who is at peace with is wife, because he ha place her wher she belongs, will never lack divine ideas that will keep moving him forward in all his endeavours

Posted: at 13-03-2011 11:29 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

including your dad?

Posted: at 13-03-2011 11:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Posted: at 13-03-2011 11:52 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

In all of Bible records, men were presented as visionaries, as the ones that have a relationship with, GOd, through which God give them an assignment that brings so much blessing and prosperity to their whole family. It was like god wan't interested in  woman or did not trust womem for leardership positions. it not so. TO GOD, WHEN HE FINDS A MAN, HE HAS FOUND A WOMAN AND A WHOLE LINE OF FUTURE LEADERS IN MAN CHILDDERN. Vision is delivered to leader, and god has set every man as learder in his home GENESIS 2:24 AS FAR AS GOD IS CONCERND, when he calls the man, the woman is supposed to locate her place besides the man, and togerther they fulfll God's purpose.The man is the leader, the woman is this God _ given helper in pursuit of the vision.Many men are pursuing some very seifish vision /ambition that has no room at all in it for their wives, Consequently, they have lost their wives somewhere along the line of coures Adam  missed it, sure enough, his wife and childerm missed

Posted: at 14-03-2011 12:47 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

...lmao

Posted: at 14-03-2011 12:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac