Will you Quit or Hang on (Page 2)

Date: 11-03-2011 11:47 am (13 years ago) | Author: Blessing Edet
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- bittersweet at 11-03-2011 12:34 PM (13 years ago)
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Posted: at 11-03-2011 12:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 11-03-2011 12:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 11-03-2011 11:47 AM
your bf/fiance insult your parent in your presence
what will you do as a lady
What will bring my Bf/Fiance so close to my parent that will lead to insult?  No time for ill mannered Bf/fiance much more to lead him to insult my parent.  That will be the end of the story.
Posted: at 11-03-2011 12:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Peter_Ade at 11-03-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago)
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abi na
Posted: at 11-03-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 11-03-2011 12:59 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Sheree on 11-03-2011 12:04 PM
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Quote from: Sheree on 11-03-2011 11:56 AM
hmmmmmm!! I pray make e no happen Smiley
shit happens u know
so lets assume it happens
wat will u do

True shit happens! I pray it doesn't happen to me otherwise, I'll piss in his face Grin Grin

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy l just dey Imagine how yu go take do am

Posted: at 11-03-2011 12:59 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- samboko at 11-03-2011 01:08 PM (13 years ago)
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She dares not! If shit happened, im 100% sure we are done! She is allowed to do whatever she likes to my parent if i had done yanga to hers.....
Posted: at 11-03-2011 01:08 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dirtykid at 11-03-2011 01:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 11-03-2011 11:47 AM
your bf/fiance insult your parent in your presence
what will you do as a lady


Depends on what ground he/she insult the parents... what if the parents are the irritating type, that one even know what they could do at a particular time, huh? We all knew some parents can be so irritating no matter how much you respect them or do anything to please them.... Maybe my partner has been enduring and hold on for long, but this time she can't hold back than to show some human behavior in her.

If such thing happen, and is my parents fault, I will apologize to her even because of my parents attitude, she is human and deserve her own respect, because she got parents as well, so mine shouldn't disrespect her when they knew i am there. Then for my parents i will caution them quietly not to allow such thing happen again, I might still send my girl to go apologize to them for been harsh no matter what.

However, if is my girl that just insulted my parents when is not worth it... i will take harsh decision from that point. I don't need someone who can stand on my front and insult my parents, I wonder what she will do to me in future... You all know where it will end from that moment !! MEETING Over !!  Wink 

Posted: at 11-03-2011 01:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Pepesy at 11-03-2011 01:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 11-03-2011 01:16 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 11-03-2011 11:47 AM
your bf/fiance insult your parent in your presence
what will you do as a lady


Depends on what ground he/she insult the parents... what if the parents are the irritating type, that one even know what they could do at a particular time, huh? We all knew some parents can be so irritating no matter how much you respect them or do anything to please them.... Maybe my partner has been enduring and hold on for long, but this time she can't hold back than to show some human behavior in her.

If such thing happen, and is my parents fault, I will apologize to her even because of my parents attitude, she is human and deserve her own respect, because she got parents as well, so mine shouldn't disrespect her when they knew i am there. Then for my parents i will caution them quietly not to allow such thing happen again, I might still send my girl to go apologize to them for been harsh no matter what.

However, if is my girl that just insulted my parents when is not worth it... i will take harsh decision from that point. I don't need someone who can stand on my front and insult my parents, I wonder what she will do to me in future... You all know where it will end from that moment !! MEETING Over !!  Wink 

U maybe right...
Posted: at 11-03-2011 01:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 11-03-2011 01:33 PM (13 years ago)
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If na my bf i go brake up if na my husband e depend on why he insult dem
Posted: at 11-03-2011 01:33 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 11-03-2011 01:44 PM (13 years ago)
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No different between BF/Hubby on this issue.

The best way to tackle this issue is knowing the parents capability and behaviors, not because they are our parents, and we will keep their mistakes in a good files.. No Way !! They can use their own to spoil the good thing coming into your future....

Have you thought about that one,, That insulting, nagging, bad behavior parents could affect their daughters future, if any man will discover such act from a particular parents, there are chances that the man will start thinking, the daughter might have inherit some of their attitude.

I will never rush into conclusion if such thing occur, I will have to hear from both side and then move to make my decisions.

Posted: at 11-03-2011 01:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sobeit at 11-03-2011 01:46 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 11-03-2011 12:32 PM

love in the air  Cheesy
Posted: at 11-03-2011 01:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 11-03-2011 01:47 PM (13 years ago)
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Posted: at 11-03-2011 01:47 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 11-03-2011 01:48 PM (13 years ago)
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na craseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee?

Posted: at 11-03-2011 01:48 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 11-03-2011 01:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 11-03-2011 01:44 PM
No different between BF/Hubby on this issue.

The best way to tackle this issue is knowing the parents capability and behaviors, not because they are our parents, and we will keep their mistakes in a good files.. No Way !! They can use their own to spoil the good thing coming into your future....

Have you thought about that one,, That insulting, nagging, bad behavior parents could affect their daughters future, if any man will discover such act from a particular parents, there are chances that the man will start thinking, the daughter might have inherit some of their attitude.

I will never rush into conclusion if such thing occur, I will have to hear from both side and then move to make my decisions.
For me dia is a difference between bf/husband bcos even if my parents r at fault my bf

no get d rite to shout or insult dem, period.

Posted: at 11-03-2011 01:50 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 11-03-2011 01:52 PM (13 years ago)
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gbam

Posted: at 11-03-2011 01:52 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- SNYPER at 11-03-2011 01:58 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin
Posted: at 11-03-2011 01:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 11-03-2011 02:03 PM (13 years ago)
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na so
Posted: at 11-03-2011 02:03 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Treasure2 at 11-03-2011 02:04 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 11-03-2011 02:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 11-03-2011 02:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Treat my parents the way you treat yours...........kpom!

Posted: at 11-03-2011 02:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 11-03-2011 02:22 PM (13 years ago)
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Alright !!


Just like Gaddaffi's son will want others to treat his father in a right way, but his father forgot that other people he's killing out there got fathers. The problem in our world today is, we don't stand our ground to call bad thing bad thing.... if my parents will ever misbehave and i know that, they're going the wrong way, I will be the first to throw in caution warnings on the air for them. I will not want them to embarrass me outside. Charity they say begins at home... and whatever we do in secret is waiting somewhere for us in the broad day light. 

Posted: at 11-03-2011 02:22 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 11-03-2011 02:32 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 11-03-2011 02:22 PM
Alright !!


Just like Gaddaffi's son will want others to treat his father in a right way, but his father forgot that other people he's killing out there got fathers. The problem in our world today is, we don't stand our ground to call bad thing bad thing.... if my parents will ever misbehave and i know that, they're going the wrong way, I will be the first to throw in caution warnings on the air for them. I will not want them to embarrass me outside. Charity they say begins at home... and whatever we do in secret is waiting somewhere for us in the broad day light. 

I quite see your point.............but there is always a way to correct an elder without insulting the person...........

Posted: at 11-03-2011 02:32 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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