Women's Submission Vs Men's Love (Page 2)

Date: 15-03-2011 12:39 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- blessedme at 15-03-2011 01:33 PM (13 years ago)
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in our today society...there is nothing like unconditional love again....the existing love is now conditional love
for instance ladies submit thier ass for money from the men...the men go extra mile to please a lady inorder to see wat is inbetween thier laps

to answer ya question
Q1...very few men that has the fear of God in them really love thier wives like christ love the church....ma reason is 95% of married men cheat and its not suppose to be so

Q2...let's not decieve ourself...in our society of today no girl is ready to submit to a man whom she has not known her stand with....even if there are such girls the men will take them for granted....example of this is maself....i ve been in a r/s whereby i submitted maslf to the point of becoming his house maid/wifey material all in d name of love buh at d end i found out i was only being used to satisfy his desires

Q3...yes she could actually submit when she get marry cos she will find out that is her home and where she will raise her own family...if she doesnt submit then she has herself to blame

Q4...from ma experience a little submission but to an extent
Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 15-03-2011 01:35 PM (13 years ago)
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@Kinkino.........the scripture passage you quoted specifically said WIVES, not gal friends...........so how do you fit into your boyfriend's plan even though he doesnt do his own part?

Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:35 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 15-03-2011 01:39 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 15-03-2011 01:33 PM
in our today society...there is nothing like unconditional love again....the existing love is now conditional love
for instance ladies submit thier ass for money from the men...the men go extra mile to please a lady inorder to see wat is inbetween thier laps

to answer ya question
Q1...very few men that has the fear of God in them really love thier wives like christ love the church....ma reason is 95% of married men cheat and its not suppose to be so

Q2...let's not decieve ourself...in our society of today no girl is ready to submit to a man whom she has not known her stand with....even if there are such girls the men will take them for granted....example of this is maself....i ve been in a r/s whereby i submitted maslf to the point of becoming his house maid/wifey material all in d name of love buh at d end i found out i was only being used to satisfy his desires

Q3...yes she could actually submit when she get marry cos she will find out that is her home and where she will raise her own family...if she doesnt submit then she has herself to blame

Q4...from ma experience a little submission but to an extent


God bless you jare....no be only you ooooo
Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- trolling at 15-03-2011 01:39 PM (13 years ago)
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See who dey talk,you go dey claim one thing,na another thing you go dey do or say,me i know like hypocrites.
Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kinkino at 15-03-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago)
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unfruitful submission....
Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 15-03-2011 01:41 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 15-03-2011 01:29 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 15-03-2011 12:39 PM
The rate at which marriages crumble these days is alarming.  For the a great number of the men, the excuse for walking out is that their wives are not submissive.  For the women, they claim their hubbies cheat on them (of course if you as a man love your wife truly, you shouldnt cheat on her).  This is not limited to married couples alone, even ordinary friendships or courtships crumble based on these allegations.

Having established that, I would like to say that submissiveness on the part of the woman is linked to unconditional love on the part of the man.  We remember that the holy book(Bible) said that the woman should submit to her husband and the man should love his wife just like Christ loved the Church and died for her........Now my questions:

How many men love their wives like Christ loved and still loves the Church?

Is it necessary for a gal to submit to a man that hasnt paid her bride prize?

Guys, do you think that a gal that refused to submit to a man while they were dating would eventually submit when they marry?

Gals, would you submit to a man you arent married to?...







Sorry for those ( Ladies) who don't understand what that word means to all Men !! Submissive, Submission, Submit, surrender all you got in the exchange of his Love......... is the first Key element a woman should apply to win the man's harden & strictly heart. If you this, You got him at the danger point. No matter how silly you will think a man is, Ladies take Note !! A man never forget a humble lady, even if the relationship didn't workout to the extent that both will be husband and wife... He will always remember you with that, and can testify to many in your absent !

I think both in courtship not just married people, Submission should be first priority !! The Key element that could drive the man to ask your hand in marriage.

If men would understand why we are Men !! they should Love their half ( wife ) just like they Love themselves..
Personally i think my part as a man on earth is to Obey & Love God, Love My wife and to protect my country ! Other things can join the line from there.

Yes if a girl is not submissive, is like a turn off, No man will ever take her serious, even if the man will pretend to be with her in the name of courtship, is just to sleep with her and let her off later.. definitely the man's eye is still outside searching, even when they're both together in such relationship.

Submit today, you will see Love Blossom like never before, even if your man is a truck pusher, relax, You've given him reason to know that you're there all the time & thats what Men always want to feel.. and this submission plays a big role to trust in any relationship, is like oil to the engine.

I gbadun your contribution dorti pikin.....but as you can see that in red, that love is conditional.........and besides it takes a zombie to surrender everything...........am saying this becos it seems that some men even though they cant give unconditional love, yet they dont want a woman that has a mind of her own..........

Dorti pikin, tell me, can you say a woman that has a mind of her own is unsubmissive?

How can a woman who has a mind of her own combine everything and remain totally submissive?......

Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:41 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 15-03-2011 01:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 15-03-2011 01:29 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 15-03-2011 12:39 PM
The rate at which marriages crumble these days is alarming.  For the a great number of the men, the excuse for walking out is that their wives are not submissive.  For the women, they claim their hubbies cheat on them (of course if you as a man love your wife truly, you shouldnt cheat on her).  This is not limited to married couples alone, even ordinary friendships or courtships crumble based on these allegations.

Having established that, I would like to say that submissiveness on the part of the woman is linked to unconditional love on the part of the man.  We remember that the holy book(Bible) said that the woman should submit to her husband and the man should love his wife just like Christ loved the Church and died for her........Now my questions:

How many men love their wives like Christ loved and still loves the Church?

Is it necessary for a gal to submit to a man that hasnt paid her bride prize?

Guys, do you think that a gal that refused to submit to a man while they were dating would eventually submit when they marry?

Gals, would you submit to a man you arent married to?...







Sorry for those ( Ladies) who don't understand what that word means to all Men !! Submissive, Submission, Submit, surrender all you got in the exchange of his Love......... is the first Key element a woman should apply to win the man's harden & strictly heart. If you this, You got him at the danger point. No matter how silly you will think a man is, Ladies take Note !! A man never forget a humble lady, even if the relationship didn't workout to the extent that both will be husband and wife... He will always remember you with that, and can testify to many in your absent !

I think both in courtship not just married people, Submission should be first priority !! The Key element that could drive the man to ask your hand in marriage.

If men would understand why we are Men !! they should Love their half ( wife ) just like they Love themselves..
Personally i think my part as a man on earth is to Obey & Love God, Love My wife and to protect my country ! Other things can join the line from there.

Yes if a girl is not submissive, is like a turn off, No man will ever take her serious, even if the man will pretend to be with her in the name of courtship, is just to sleep with her and let her off later.. definitely the man's eye is still outside searching, even when they're both together in such relationship.

Submit today, you will see Love Blossom like never before, even if your man is a truck pusher, relax, You've given him reason to know that you're there all the time & thats what Men always want to feel.. and this submission plays a big role to trust in any relationship, is like oil to the engine.
talking about submission...the bible says husband love your wife as christ love the church in return for WIFE summit thyself unto thy husband
the bible talks about husband and wife not boy/girl friend.....wat i believe is that u dont assume the wife position wen he has not married you
else you loose woefully

i love ya view about the topic tho
Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- harold634 at 15-03-2011 01:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 15-03-2011 01:29 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 15-03-2011 12:39 PM
The rate at which marriages crumble these days is alarming.  For the a great number of the men, the excuse for walking out is that their wives are not submissive.  For the women, they claim their hubbies cheat on them (of course if you as a man love your wife truly, you shouldnt cheat on her).  This is not limited to married couples alone, even ordinary friendships or courtships crumble based on these allegations.

Having established that, I would like to say that submissiveness on the part of the woman is linked to unconditional love on the part of the man.  We remember that the holy book(Bible) said that the woman should submit to her husband and the man should love his wife just like Christ loved the Church and died for her........Now my questions:

How many men love their wives like Christ loved and still loves the Church?

Is it necessary for a gal to submit to a man that hasnt paid her bride prize?

Guys, do you think that a gal that refused to submit to a man while they were dating would eventually submit when they marry?

Gals, would you submit to a man you arent married to?...







Sorry for those ( Ladies) who don't understand what that word means to all Men !! Submissive, Submission, Submit, surrender all you got in the exchange of his Love......... is the first Key element a woman should apply to win the man's harden & strictly heart. If you this, You got him at the danger point. No matter how silly you will think a man is, Ladies take Note !! A man never forget a humble lady, even if the relationship didn't workout to the extent that both will be husband and wife... He will always remember you with that, and can testify to many in your absent !

I think both in courtship not just married people, Submission should be first priority !! The Key element that could drive the man to ask your hand in marriage.

If men would understand why we are Men !! they should Love their half ( wife ) just like they Love themselves..
Personally i think my part as a man on earth is to Obey & Love God, Love My wife and to protect my country ! Other things can join the line from there.

Yes if a girl is not submissive, is like a turn off, No man will ever take her serious, even if the man will pretend to be with her in the name of courtship, is just to sleep with her and let her off later.. definitely the man's eye is still outside searching, even when they're both together in such relationship.

Submit today, you will see Love Blossom like never before, even if your man is a truck pusher, relax, You've given him reason to know that you're there all the time & thats what Men always want to feel.. and this submission plays a big role to trust in any relationship, is like oil to the engine.

NICE POINTS
Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- trolling at 15-03-2011 01:46 PM (13 years ago)
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IF you claim say you be christaian or you dey read or obey your book why you no hear wetin God tell you,hin tell you say '
"AND YOUR DESIRE SHALL BE UNTO YOUR HUSBAND AND HE SHALL RULE OVER YOU" CUT AND DRY NO IF,AND OR BUT.
PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR "DESIRE", THAT IS IF YOU ARE ATTENTIVE.
Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 15-03-2011 01:47 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 15-03-2011 01:39 PM
See who dey talk,you go dey claim one thing,na another thing you go dey do or say,me i know like hypocrites.
who u dey talk to this man
Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:47 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- pholake at 15-03-2011 01:47 PM (13 years ago)
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It is the obligation of the woman to be submissive be it girlfriend or wife....the Bible says we should respect them (even bfs0
It is the right of the woman to be loved and the responsibility of the husband to show her love-the Bible admonishes men to love their wives.
Now, these two obligations - submission and love - sound so simple, but in reality, they could be otherwise; it takes discipline, patience, sacrifice, endurance  and above all, God's grace to fulfill these obligations especially in these end time
Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kinkino at 15-03-2011 01:47 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 15-03-2011 01:35 PM
@Kinkino.........the scripture passage you quoted specifically said WIVES, not gal friends...........so how do you fit into your boyfriend's plan even though he doesnt do his own part?
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DP...honestly its not easy to cope when he is not doin his part...lov is all abt giv and take...submission is also submit, reciv and appreciat...if he dosent do his own part, i will try to put up and remain submisiv...but to an extent...cos if he insist...den i wil let him go...
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- divineproject at 15-03-2011 01:48 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 15-03-2011 01:09 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 15-03-2011 12:39 PM
The rate at which marriages crumble these days is alarming.  For the a great number of the men, the excuse for walking out is that their wives are not submissive.  For the women, they claim their hubbies cheat on them (of course if you as a man love your wife truly, you shouldnt cheat on her).  This is not limited to married couples alone, even ordinary friendships or courtships crumble based on these allegations.

Having established that, I would like to say that submissiveness on the part of the woman is linked to unconditional love on the part of the man.  We remember that the holy book(Bible) said that the woman should submit to her husband and the man should love his wife just like Christ loved the Church and died for her........Now my questions:

How many men love their wives like Christ loved and still loves the Church?

Is it necessary for a gal to submit to a man that hasnt paid her bride prize?

Guys, do you think that a gal that refused to submit to a man while they were dating would eventually submit when they marry?

Gals, would you submit to a man you arent married to?...





I can not say how many men, but i knw they exist

I think it is in all situations the woman shud b submissiv to her husband and even bf at a limit

I am not married yet but i am submissive to my man, if i am not my relationship wudn work the
way it is suppose to.....



He is your baby papa na...........would you have submitted if he wasnt?

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- blessedme at 15-03-2011 01:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on 15-03-2011 01:39 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 15-03-2011 01:33 PM
in our today society...there is nothing like unconditional love again....the existing love is now conditional love
for instance ladies submit thier ass for money from the men...the men go extra mile to please a lady inorder to see wat is inbetween thier laps

to answer ya question
Q1...very few men that has the fear of God in them really love thier wives like christ love the church....ma reason is 95% of married men cheat and its not suppose to be so

Q2...let's not decieve ourself...in our society of today no girl is ready to submit to a man whom she has not known her stand with....even if there are such girls the men will take them for granted....example of this is maself....i ve been in a r/s whereby i submitted maslf to the point of becoming his house maid/wifey material all in d name of love buh at d end i found out i was only being used to satisfy his desires

Q3...yes she could actually submit when she get marry cos she will find out that is her home and where she will raise her own family...if she doesnt submit then she has herself to blame

Q4...from ma experience a little submission but to an extent


God bless you jare....no be only you ooooo
ma dear ma own submission turn to mumu...make i no talk cos its a public site
i fit inbox u d level of ma own mumu all in d name of love and submission

submmission ma ass
Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 15-03-2011 01:50 PM (13 years ago)
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i can't be bother

Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:50 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 15-03-2011 01:51 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kinkino on 15-03-2011 01:47 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 15-03-2011 01:35 PM
@Kinkino.........the scripture passage you quoted specifically said WIVES, not gal friends...........so how do you fit into your boyfriend's plan even though he doesnt do his own part?
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DP...honestly its not easy to cope when he is not doin his part...lov is all abt giv and take...submission is also submit, reciv and appreciat...if he dosent do his own part, i will try to put up and remain submisiv...but to an extent...cos if he insist...den i wil let him go...

Like Ble was saying, you arent under any obligation to submit to a man u arent married to....ble shebi?

Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- harold634 at 15-03-2011 01:53 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on 15-03-2011 01:47 PM
It is the obligation of the woman to be submissive be it girlfriend or wife....the Bible says we should respect them (even bfs0
It is the right of the woman to be loved and the responsibility of the husband to show her love-the Bible admonishes men to love their wives.
Now, these two obligations - submission and love - sound so simple, but in reality, they could be otherwise; it takes discipline, patience, sacrifice, endurance  and above all, God's grace to fulfill these obligations especially in these end time

I LOVE THIS
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- kinkino at 15-03-2011 01:53 PM (13 years ago)
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may lookin at wht hav been goin on and our experiences in d hands of our man...infact its only dose who ar submisiv to dem dat dey cheat on....dey turns one to another tin in d name of d fact dat u remain submisiv...but all d same...
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- divineproject at 15-03-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on 15-03-2011 01:47 PM
It is the obligation of the woman to be submissive be it girlfriend or wife....the Bible says we should respect them (even bfs0
It is the right of the woman to be loved and the responsibility of the husband to show her love-the Bible admonishes men to love their wives.
Now, these two obligations - submission and love - sound so simple, but in reality, they could be otherwise; it takes discipline, patience, sacrifice, endurance  and above all, God's grace to fulfill these obligations especially in these end time

You are right.......they sound so simple but they are hard to fulfil.......it is hard work for a man to love like Christ and it is also hard for one to give up one's wish/desire for another in the name of submission...........

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- blessedme at 15-03-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 15-03-2011 01:09 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 15-03-2011 12:39 PM
The rate at which marriages crumble these days is alarming.  For the a great number of the men, the excuse for walking out is that their wives are not submissive.  For the women, they claim their hubbies cheat on them (of course if you as a man love your wife truly, you shouldnt cheat on her).  This is not limited to married couples alone, even ordinary friendships or courtships crumble based on these allegations.

Having established that, I would like to say that submissiveness on the part of the woman is linked to unconditional love on the part of the man.  We remember that the holy book(Bible) said that the woman should submit to her husband and the man should love his wife just like Christ loved the Church and died for her........Now my questions:

How many men love their wives like Christ loved and still loves the Church?

Is it necessary for a gal to submit to a man that hasnt paid her bride prize?

Guys, do you think that a gal that refused to submit to a man while they were dating would eventually submit when they marry?

Gals, would you submit to a man you arent married to?...





I can not say how many men, but i knw they exist

I think it is in all situations the woman shud b submissiv to her husband and even bf at a limit

I am not married yet but i am submissive to my man, if i am not my relationship wudn work the
way it is suppose to.....


my dear he is the father of your son...you guys live under d same roof and u have also define your relationship
so its different.....see its a thing for a man to get u pregnant and its another thing for him to stand to his responsiblity and it is another thing for him to stand and care for d child till he/she grows and become something which is the most important aspect in every home

so thank God for ya man
Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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