Use And Dump..................

Date: 24-03-2011 4:58 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- at 24-03-2011 04:58 PM (14 years ago)
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I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way.  Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume.  The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions. 

I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped?  I was actually surprised at the man's answer.  he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round.  So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego?  Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........

Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........


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- onyin at 24-03-2011 05:00 PM (14 years ago)
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nice post.
Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 24-03-2011 05:01 PM (14 years ago)
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yes its an ego..

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- onyin at 24-03-2011 05:02 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 24-03-2011 05:01 PM
yes its an ego..

true.
Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- trolling at 24-03-2011 05:02 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 04:58 PM
I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way.  Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume.  The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions. 

I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped?  I was actually surprised at the man's answer.  he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round.  So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego?  Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........

Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........
i know say u no be virgin,so what would call the actions of the man wey ...........
Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 24-03-2011 05:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 24-03-2011 05:02 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 04:58 PM
I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way.  Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume.  The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions. 

I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped?  I was actually surprised at the man's answer.  he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round.  So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego?  Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........

Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........
i know say u no be virgin,so what would call the actions of the man wey ...........

bia trolling, what has virginity got to do here?..........tell me what I need to know jor.............

Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 24-03-2011 05:05 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 04:58 PM
I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way.  Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume.  The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions. 

I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped?  I was actually surprised at the man's answer.  he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round.  So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego?  Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........

Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........

For most of them,yes!
But that doesn't apply only to men na!

Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- trolling at 24-03-2011 05:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 05:04 PM
Quote from: trolling on 24-03-2011 05:02 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 04:58 PM
I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way.  Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume.  The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions. 

I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped?  I was actually surprised at the man's answer.  he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round.  So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego?  Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........

Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........
i know say u no be virgin,so what would call the actions of the man wey ...........

bia trolling, what has virginity got to do here?..........tell me what I need to know jor.............
it's a mystery for you to figure out or u can ask the old man. Cool Cool
Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 24-03-2011 05:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 24-03-2011 05:05 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 04:58 PM
I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way.  Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume.  The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions. 

I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped?  I was actually surprised at the man's answer.  he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round.  So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego?  Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........

Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........

For most of them,yes!
But that doesn't apply only to men na!


BS, you  think women also take pressure in being the one dat dumped the other one?

Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 24-03-2011 05:10 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 05:08 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 24-03-2011 05:05 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 04:58 PM
I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way.  Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume.  The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions. 

I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped?  I was actually surprised at the man's answer.  he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round.  So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego?  Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........

Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........

For most of them,yes!
But that doesn't apply only to men na!


BS, you  think women also take pressure in being the one dat dumped the other one?

Oh,yeah!

Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 24-03-2011 05:10 PM (14 years ago)
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for me i have used men and dumped dem cos i noticed they werent good en4 for me..

and i saw it as an ego cos i wasnt dumped by them..i drop dem b4 dey do..

Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:10 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 24-03-2011 05:12 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 24-03-2011 05:08 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 05:04 PM
Quote from: trolling on 24-03-2011 05:02 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 04:58 PM
I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way.  Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume.  The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions. 

I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped?  I was actually surprised at the man's answer.  he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round.  So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego?  Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........

Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........
i know say u no be virgin,so what would call the actions of the man wey ...........

bia trolling, what has virginity got to do here?..........tell me what I need to know jor.............
it's a mystery for you to figure out or u can ask the old man. Cool Cool

bia trolling, if u no wan answer oya waka comot...........i go still get answers...........e be like say i go go find your size of cane sharply......... Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- pholake at 24-03-2011 05:24 PM (14 years ago)
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The act is not a man's exclusive, women do it too.....but for varied reasons.........ego boosting, revenge, safety, indecision....etc
Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:24 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 24-03-2011 05:31 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on 24-03-2011 05:24 PM
The act is not a man's exclusive, women do it too.....but for varied reasons.........ego boosting, revenge, safety, indecision....etc

but in this case illustrated here now, it looks like like ego boosting for the guy

Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:31 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- pholake at 24-03-2011 05:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 05:31 PM
Quote from: pholake on 24-03-2011 05:24 PM
The act is not a man's exclusive, women do it too.....but for varied reasons.........ego boosting, revenge, safety, indecision....etc

but in this case illustrated here now, it looks like like ego boosting for the guy

Sure it does.....and it's quite senseless and pathetic.....this is even better. I know a guy who was dumped by his gf....would u believe he went extra miles to beg the gf to come back to him? The lady did only for the guy to bang her (excuse my language) a few times and threw her away like a trash bin! This is a lesson for women, run as fast as u can once u see the red light and look well b4 taking back an ex!
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- divineproject at 24-03-2011 05:41 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on 24-03-2011 05:35 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 05:31 PM
Quote from: pholake on 24-03-2011 05:24 PM
The act is not a man's exclusive, women do it too.....but for varied reasons.........ego boosting, revenge, safety, indecision....etc

but in this case illustrated here now, it looks like like ego boosting for the guy

Sure it does.....and it's quite senseless and pathetic.....this is even better. I know a guy who was dumped by his gf....would u believe he went extra miles to beg the gf to come back to him? The lady did only for the guy to bang her (excuse my language) a few times and threw her away like a trash bin! This is a lesson for women, run as fast as u can once u see the red light and look well b4 taking back an ex!

That one is revenge.............now I see.........

Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:41 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 24-03-2011 05:42 PM (14 years ago)
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she was blind in love to act first-.........men re too proud .....................son of a bitch

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- kebella at 24-03-2011 05:43 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 24-03-2011 05:01 PM
yes its an ego..


foolish ego n' wickedness  Angry

Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:43 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 24-03-2011 05:50 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 24-03-2011 05:43 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 24-03-2011 05:01 PM
yes its an ego..


foolish ego n' wickedness  Angry

but then one person has to move on na

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- kebella at 24-03-2011 07:12 PM (14 years ago)
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ofcourse ............... one road must close 4 d other 2 open  Cool men re victims Lips Sealed

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