I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way. Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume. The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions.
I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped? I was actually surprised at the man's answer. he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round. So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego? Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........
Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........
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Posted: at 24-03-2011 04:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
trolling at 24-03-2011 05:02 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 04:58 PM
I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way. Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume. The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions.
I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped? I was actually surprised at the man's answer. he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round. So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego? Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........
Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........
i know say u no be virgin,so what would call the actions of the man wey ...........
Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 24-03-2011 05:04 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: trolling on 24-03-2011 05:02 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 04:58 PM
I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way. Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume. The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions.
I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped? I was actually surprised at the man's answer. he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round. So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego? Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........
Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........
i know say u no be virgin,so what would call the actions of the man wey ...........
bia trolling, what has virginity got to do here?..........tell me what I need to know jor.............
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 24-03-2011 05:05 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 04:58 PM
I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way. Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume. The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions.
I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped? I was actually surprised at the man's answer. he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round. So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego? Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........
Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........
For most of them,yes! But that doesn't apply only to men na!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
trolling at 24-03-2011 05:08 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 05:04 PM
Quote from: trolling on 24-03-2011 05:02 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 04:58 PM
I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way. Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume. The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions.
I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped? I was actually surprised at the man's answer. he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round. So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego? Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........
Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........
i know say u no be virgin,so what would call the actions of the man wey ...........
bia trolling, what has virginity got to do here?..........tell me what I need to know jor.............
it's a mystery for you to figure out or u can ask the old man.
Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 24-03-2011 05:08 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 24-03-2011 05:05 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 04:58 PM
I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way. Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume. The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions.
I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped? I was actually surprised at the man's answer. he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round. So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego? Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........
Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........
For most of them,yes! But that doesn't apply only to men na!
BS, you think women also take pressure in being the one dat dumped the other one?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 24-03-2011 05:10 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 05:08 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 24-03-2011 05:05 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 04:58 PM
I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way. Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume. The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions.
I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped? I was actually surprised at the man's answer. he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round. So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego? Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........
Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........
For most of them,yes! But that doesn't apply only to men na!
BS, you think women also take pressure in being the one dat dumped the other one?
Oh,yeah!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 24-03-2011 05:12 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: trolling on 24-03-2011 05:08 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 05:04 PM
Quote from: trolling on 24-03-2011 05:02 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 04:58 PM
I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way. Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume. The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions.
I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped? I was actually surprised at the man's answer. he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round. So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego? Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........
Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........
i know say u no be virgin,so what would call the actions of the man wey ...........
bia trolling, what has virginity got to do here?..........tell me what I need to know jor.............
it's a mystery for you to figure out or u can ask the old man.
bia trolling, if u no wan answer oya waka comot...........i go still get answers...........e be like say i go go find your size of cane sharply.........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
The act is not a man's exclusive, women do it too.....but for varied reasons.........ego boosting, revenge, safety, indecision....etc
but in this case illustrated here now, it looks like like ego boosting for the guy
Sure it does.....and it's quite senseless and pathetic.....this is even better. I know a guy who was dumped by his gf....would u believe he went extra miles to beg the gf to come back to him? The lady did only for the guy to bang her (excuse my language) a few times and threw her away like a trash bin! This is a lesson for women, run as fast as u can once u see the red light and look well b4 taking back an ex!
Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 24-03-2011 05:41 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: pholake on 24-03-2011 05:35 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2011 05:31 PM
Quote from: pholake on 24-03-2011 05:24 PM
The act is not a man's exclusive, women do it too.....but for varied reasons.........ego boosting, revenge, safety, indecision....etc
but in this case illustrated here now, it looks like like ego boosting for the guy
Sure it does.....and it's quite senseless and pathetic.....this is even better. I know a guy who was dumped by his gf....would u believe he went extra miles to beg the gf to come back to him? The lady did only for the guy to bang her (excuse my language) a few times and threw her away like a trash bin! This is a lesson for women, run as fast as u can once u see the red light and look well b4 taking back an ex!
That one is revenge.............now I see.........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 24-03-2011 05:41 PM (14 years ago) | Hero