I don't like dumping dudes, but i enjoyed dumping 'dirty' dudes  
Make dorti pikin catch u
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 26-03-2011 10:08 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 26-03-2011 09:46 PM (14 years ago)  (m) let roll with the dumping
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 26-03-2011 09:46 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 26-03-2011 09:50 PM (14 years ago) (m) I don't like dumping dudes, but i enjoyed dumping 'dirty' dudes You mean, you really want to dump the highlighted word ? oya tell me where will you dump am, I hope is in the midst of young beautiful things  
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 26-03-2011 09:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Zilly") Zilly at 26-03-2011 09:56 PM (14 years ago) (m) I would like to know what was used in the first place before the dumping. Only naija babes use this word "Used" when they screw a guy. Oyibo woman will only use "used" if you took her money and ran in the name of love. | Posted: at 26-03-2011 09:56 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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NO!
In the midst of dirt where it belongs! 
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! | Posted: at 27-03-2011 04:04 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 28-03-2011 11:06 AM (14 years ago) (f) Reading dirts and dumps
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 28-03-2011 11:06 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! | Posted: at 28-03-2011 04:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "mazi") mazi at 28-03-2011 04:53 PM (14 years ago) (m) I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way. Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume. The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions.
I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped? I was actually surprised at the man's answer. he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round. So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego? Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........
Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........
the question is...is it only a man's thing?
d thing is, who want to be "used and dumped". i must say i hate dt phrase.
cos i think its immaturity to think dt anybody is a winner any r/s separation, no matter d pretence.
any party reserves d right to disengage 4rm any r/s he or she is no longer happy wit.
so in a divorced marriage who is d user and who is being dumped? | Posted: at 28-03-2011 04:53 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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There is anoda grp of men that actually want the woman to dump them. They act like this guy di, n get the woman to dump them. As the one tht was dumped, they dont come out it as bad as the lady. Also, it leaves the gal in doubt as to whether they have made a mistake or not in ending so swiftly (have I been irrational, shud I have been more supportive). This gives the guy a chance to slide bk into her life w/o making any committment. | Posted: at 28-03-2011 11:53 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Mazi- i disagree! Sum ppl get into a relationship with a selfish plan n as expected sumone gets hurt. Take a married man that lied to a virgin to get her to sleep with him b4 dumping her afterward. She has been used n dumped! If she knew about his marital status n hr hadnt made her false promises, then the playing field has bern leveled n she cant claim to have been used n dumped | Posted: at 28-03-2011 11:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 29-03-2011 12:02 AM (14 years ago) (m) Chaiii... everyone is using and dumping emmmmm Tissues
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 29-03-2011 12:02 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "ajanni") ajanni at 29-03-2011 08:09 AM (14 years ago) (m) actions speak louder than voice anyway | Posted: at 29-03-2011 08:09 AM (14 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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NO!
In the midst of dirt where it belongs! Where is dat? | Posted: at 29-03-2011 08:53 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "adams933") adams933 at 29-03-2011 08:55 AM (14 years ago) (m) yes its an ego..
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![-]( "ajanni") ajanni at 29-03-2011 09:02 AM (14 years ago) (m) na ragg? na wa ooo | Posted: at 29-03-2011 09:02 AM (14 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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![-]( "oohio2007") oohio2007 at 29-03-2011 09:13 AM (14 years ago) (m) I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way. Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume. The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions.
I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped? I was actually surprised at the man's answer. he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round. So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego? Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........
Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........
The issue of "use and dump" is more psychological than physical.It has its foundation on lies and deception.The prostitute never feel used and dumped by the man she sleeps with because there was no initial promises of committement between both parties.Most men are very good at lying to women just to get under their skirt.They can even go as far as promising marriage when they dont mean it just to have thier way.It is broken promises that generate the feeling of been used and dumped.My point is,if there was no initial promises of committement,the use and dump feelings wont be even if they had sex several times.(TO BE CONTINUED)
''NO MAN KNOWETH THE HOUR'' | Posted: at 29-03-2011 09:13 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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I was discussing with an elderly man about an issue: There is this couple (in courtship), the lady in question has noticed some red signs and had wanted to quit the relationship but the guy has refused, promising to stand by her all the way. Now when the guy came around for them to start preparations, things changed and even though the guy has not formally told the lady it is over, his actions or otherwise speak volume. The lady believes that the guy has taken a walk but cant bring himself to say it, hence his actions.
I now asked this elderly man, why did the man refuse to let the lady go initially, does it mean he didnt want to be the one dumped? I was actually surprised at the man's answer. he said that men dont like to be the one dumped, they rather like it the other way round. So i was wondering, does the fact that a man is the one dat has 'used and dumped' a lady add to his ego? Is the act of using and dumping a woman an ego boasting act for some men?...........
Na question I ask ooo, make una no kill me ooo.........
The issue of "use and dump" is more psychological than physical.It has its foundation on lies and deception.The prostitute never feel used and dumped by the man she sleeps with because there was no initial promises of committement between both parties.Most men are very good at lying to women just to get under their skirt.They can even go as far as promising marriage when they dont mean it just to have thier way.It is broken promises that generate the feeling of been used and dumped.My point is,if there was no initial promises of committement,the use and dump feelings wont be even if they had sex several times.(TO BE CONTINUED) Gbam!.......you have spoken and I quite agree with you..........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 29-03-2011 12:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "oohio2007") oohio2007 at 29-03-2011 04:56 PM (14 years ago) (m) for me i have used men and dumped dem cos i noticed they werent good en4 for me..
and i saw it as an ego cos i wasnt dumped by them..i drop dem b4 dey do..
It seems you are very good in using men and dumping them.WOW! what a quality.Only that, it is a very big SHAME on you because it is not something to be proud of.Since you have used men and dump them without concience,certainly, it will get to your turn.WHAT YOU SOW, YOU REAP.
''NO MAN KNOWETH THE HOUR'' | Posted: at 29-03-2011 04:56 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Men AND women can get a ego boost from 'using and dumping', but
i think all of it has to do with maturity and age. For a 'boy' to date different girls they
dont see it as 'using and dumping' but as fun and being young, the same way with som 'girls'.
Men and women who are ready to settle down r not supposed to have this kain of attitude. | Posted: at 29-03-2011 05:16 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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NO!
In the midst of dirt where it belongs! Where is dat?
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! | Posted: at 29-03-2011 05:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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