Why do 80% of men change after marriage. (Page 3)

please this question goes to both guys and babes married or not, why is is that majority of men tend to only show their true colour after they are married. though the married ones should probably know better. To start with, in our society going by moral values and not with the recent social trend, the man is the one who sees a lady and falls for her first,i believe he who has that power should spare himself the time to study her before asking her out, that way she might not b conscious of the fact that someone is checking her out so she wouldnt have to act in her best behaviour in a bid to conceal her trueself.

Then by the time the man has finished all his background check and underground move he then makes the next necessary move or asking her out... thats an advantage to the man.

The lady on the other hand is being asked out, she knows nothing about you yet she accepts and gives you a trial, why don't you be as honest as possible to show her your true colours, why do you have to pretend to like or tolerate what in the real sense you wouldn't, remember that that image of yourself that you portray to her is what she's going to build her foundation of love upon.

Then finally after she has accepted you to spend the rest of her life with, then she finally gets to know the real you, which is or could be the opposite of what she saw.. in this instance tell me, how is sh e suppose to start all over again to get to know the real you?? when at that time she's supposed to be coping with the marriage institution and other hurdles of life which comes as a package with marriage.


please people help me out with answers........... coz someone here with me needs a life saving solution or opinion about that...

where do u get ur research from? the percentage of change (negatively) after marriage is against women.