Why do 80% of men change after marriage. (Page 4)

Date: 08-04-2011 11:24 am (14 years ago) | Author: coolaid
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- Matthew2010 at 10-04-2011 07:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Do you think it is only men that change after marriage? I do not think so. I believe it is on both sides. There are so many reasons for this: One of them is if men lose their jobs and the women have to become the bread winners of the home, then danger looms. On the part of the women, if they are delay in giving birth or producing girls be rest assured there's going to be problems. On the other hand, if men become richer than they were before getting married and they allow this new status to get into their heads, change may come or if the women attain higher statuses the end result will be change. Though the change in question may be both positives or otherwise. Shocked Roll Eyes Lips Sealed Grin
Posted: at 10-04-2011 07:46 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Josh4love at 10-04-2011 07:49 PM (14 years ago)
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For me i can,t change after marriage i will always be living positive life with my wife till death,
but know it that women 90% of them changes after marriage not to cheat but they will  bring out there hiden character in them expecially after given birth to a boy to the man. if you say 1 she say 20. Grin
Posted: at 10-04-2011 07:49 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Kennee at 10-04-2011 10:30 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ceejay58 on  9-04-2011 11:55 PM
My dear i really think that this ur assertion should ve been the other way round. cos is women who usually change once they re bn officially announced as the wife..  women can conceal their characters and emotions far more than any man can..

So i would consider as stupid any woman who couldn't take her time to know who her man really is while courting.
to be candid with u men don't hide their true colors even while in courtship.  though they might lie when trying to get fresh with a woman just to impress her (again u can agree with me that you women re always the cause of that too, cos most of u pretends a lot and love to play hard to get and the poor guy would want to put himself into that particular level just to be accepted) but then, once u re his that's all.. no man can pretend for long to any woman he loves and want to marry unlike women..

So dear it's absolutely ur fault if u had just jumped into marriage with a man u didn't even know.... perhaps u were too anxious to get married or because the guy is well endowed in every sense so u didn't even bothered to find out one or two things about him before jumping into marriage....  look closely. 

Wellsaid and Supported
Posted: at 10-04-2011 10:30 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mary123 at 10-04-2011 11:04 PM (14 years ago)
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There is always a in everything under the earth...nothing is parmanet
Posted: at 10-04-2011 11:04 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- mary123 at 10-04-2011 11:06 PM (14 years ago)
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Change is normal in everything... but for good
Posted: at 10-04-2011 11:06 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onyenkocha at 11-04-2011 12:32 AM (14 years ago)
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   If any man agree on this i no gree at all.......na woman dey sabi change..in the first place dem be green snake in green grass...to get married the will pretend and be cool bt once  they sure the secure that marriage is a different person and start pushing unnecessarily.And whn that happen what do u expect from a man?? In turn woman will start saying is man changing.....
Posted: at 11-04-2011 12:32 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- kenolis at 11-04-2011 01:22 AM (14 years ago)
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they change because is not good to eat only egusi sup.
Posted: at 11-04-2011 01:22 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mine123543 at 11-04-2011 12:18 PM (14 years ago)
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THE REASON WHY MOST MEN CHANGE AFTER MARRIAGE IS (1) THE WIFE DON'T SATISFY HIM DURING BED TIME.OTHER PREFER TO CHEAT ON THEIR WIFE WITHOUT GOOD REASON.MEN STOP CHEATING IT WILL NOT HELP   
Posted: at 11-04-2011 12:18 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Emmandazie at 11-04-2011 02:12 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mine123543 on 11-04-2011 12:18 PM
THE REASON WHY MOST MEN CHANGE AFTER MARRIAGE IS (1) THE WIFE DON'T SATISFY HIM DURING BED TIME.OTHER PREFER TO CHEAT ON THEIR WIFE WITHOUT GOOD REASON.MEN STOP CHEATING IT WILL NOT HELP   

Na who tell you it will not help?
Abi variety food no di help you?
Posted: at 11-04-2011 02:12 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Ortopazz at 11-04-2011 02:22 PM (14 years ago)
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Come to think of it, y shld a man change wen he his married, itz useless cuz d wives tend 2 b so secadelic and this brings about initial "gra-gra" dn d man tries eryting posible 2 get u, but wen he gets u and all those 4ma qualitiz u displayd tel me y i shld or he shld stil hold on.
Posted: at 11-04-2011 02:22 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pepesy at 11-04-2011 02:37 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  8-04-2011 12:26 PM
Men change after marriage for a number of different reasons.The main reason is bcz they r not satisfied with what they have.No matter how beautiful,forgiving,supporting or loving a man's wife is,he'll always feel as though he has missed d better bus.

Another reason for d changes in man after marriage is d marital contract.Once he obtains a woman's signature & her "I do", that is all he needs to feel secure that she can't get away & must deal with his many flaws & shortcomings.He may no longer feel d need to impress her,woo her,or even tell her he loves her once she's locked down for life.

Some men r emotional carpenters.They enjoy building d shelves of marriage,only to sit their wives on them while they go & work, hang out with their friends,or chase d better bus.These types like to know that they have a lady at home,but they don't put much effort into giving her a reason to stay there.

Men also enjoy the thrill of d chase.Once they obtain a woman's hand in marriage d chase pretty much ends.Sometimes d thrill ends as well.

Not  all man change in these ways after marriage.There still r a handful of chivalrious,loyal,attentive men out there.
It is also not only men who change after marriage.Women change as well.

BS dear,,,, re u talkin 4rm xperince? u got it all right...  Kiss
Posted: at 11-04-2011 02:37 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 11-04-2011 02:40 PM (14 years ago)
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 Wink Kiss
Posted: at 11-04-2011 02:40 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Adikpe at 11-04-2011 06:36 PM (14 years ago)
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That's not true, I will rather say it is the ladies
that changed after marriage!

Anyway, I am not part of the 80% according to the
post because even as we are not married yet, I always
try as much as possible to avoid anything that I
know will hurt her.
Posted: at 11-04-2011 06:36 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Adikpe at 11-04-2011 06:39 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Matthew2010 on 10-04-2011 07:46 PM
Do you think it is only men that change after marriage? I do not think so. I believe it is on both sides. There are so many reasons for this: One of them is if men lose their jobs and the women have to become the bread winners of the home, then danger looms. On the part of the women, if they are delay in giving birth or producing girls be rest assured there's going to be problems. On the other hand, if men become richer than they were before getting married and they allow this new status to get into their heads, change may come or if the women attain higher statuses the end result will be change. Though the change in question may be both positives or otherwise. Shocked Roll Eyes Lips Sealed Grin


...from the stable of a married man!
Posted: at 11-04-2011 06:39 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- aminun at 11-04-2011 08:39 PM (14 years ago)
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d fact is d ups n down is of d man neck
Posted: at 11-04-2011 08:39 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- kenolis at 11-04-2011 10:15 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mine123543 on 11-04-2011 12:18 PM
THE REASON WHY MOST MEN CHANGE AFTER MARRIAGE IS (1) THE WIFE DON'T SATISFY HIM DURING BED TIME.OTHER PREFER TO CHEAT ON THEIR WIFE WITHOUT GOOD REASON.MEN STOP CHEATING IT WILL NOT HELP   

can you satisfy me? Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 11-04-2011 10:15 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- clementf at 12-04-2011 12:28 PM (14 years ago)
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 They are talking the way they understand
Posted: at 12-04-2011 12:28 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- skyleo at 12-04-2011 01:39 PM (14 years ago)
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This issue can never be eredicated in our community, because it takes much time to understand each other since is a submittion of two different people from different background that want to become one. Though at time goes on they understand each other better.
Posted: at 12-04-2011 01:39 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- oyibekee at 12-04-2011 02:44 PM (14 years ago)
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very interesting question
Posted: at 12-04-2011 02:44 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- olumbareal at 12-04-2011 03:00 PM (14 years ago)
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Its vice versa am facing the same thing presently. How i wish i can open up, Its killing me men.
Posted: at 12-04-2011 03:00 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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