Why do 80% of men change after marriage. (Page 2)

Then finally after she has accepted you to spend the rest of her life with, then she finally gets to know the real you, which is or could be the opposite of what she saw..
Who tell you say na woman dey accept man? the woman consents, agrees or yield's
to the man's request or proposal, how can a woman accept a man? Nonsense!!
Back to your question or topic, it's as simple as courting a man or woman before yall get married.

Posted: at 8-04-2011 01:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

passing

Posted: at 8-04-2011 02:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Poster, where do you get your figure from ? I don't think that figure is fair, it means only 20% of Men are just alright. I can tell you 100 reasons as well while women change after marriage as well.

Just know that it goes both ways and as people grow and advance daily, so characters, attitude, approach towards everything automatically is changing. But we only hope for a positive change in everything we do in life not the other way round.

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Posted: at 8-04-2011 06:57 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

will stick to this your comment bro especially the one in red

Posted: at 8-04-2011 08:24 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Do men really change? or do their priorities change. When a man gets married, his focus normally changes from "lover boy" to husband and this means he has to provide for the family. That's one of the major reasons

Posted: at 8-04-2011 10:36 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

na who tell u say some men don't change huh?


@poster..is like you were sleping while writing this post.80% my ass

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Posted: at 8-04-2011 11:36 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

I am one man that got married to a women after we promised to sit together, assemble and pray over our monthly earnings and share responsibilities according to the level of income. Because she was an apprentice by then, it was easy for her to accept. While we struggled together and she started up a business place and her income became more than mine, tables changed and I was potrayed in her family as "choping" her money. She then went on to refute I hadn't the least coin in her business.

Tell me how could I not become change from  soft spoken to a hard spoken man on such?

Posted: at 9-04-2011 03:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Come on say something........

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Posted: at 9-04-2011 05:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Marriage is never an issue to be tackled lightly. As sides the love the couple will definitely have for each other, discipline is another thing that is needed. The Man or woman is definitely going to change after a few years of marriage. Many people react to such changes differently (as infidelity which both parties are going to be guilty of will show). That is where the discipline comes in. He or she ( the husband or wife) may not be so hot looking, but morality demands that you don't hurt their feelings. I would be a little reluctant to agree with that figure of 80%. Most men just lack that discipline which is why they change. It's like giving a child a toy which he or she gets bored with only after a few minutes and the child will be looking for another thing of interest. A man who changes shortly after marriage forgot that his wife will not always be looking like a queen through d years of Marriage. He will need discipline to maintain his fidelity or he still has the nature of a child

Posted: at 9-04-2011 05:42 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Only God knows.

Posted: at 9-04-2011 09:07 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming