Double Standard...........Your Take (Page 3)

Date: 11-04-2011 3:25 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- chiglamour4u at 11-04-2011 04:47 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 11-04-2011 04:45 PM
u wan just take style style tell us say ya brother don GRAD naaaaaaaaaa Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

na him be first person to graduate ni. u like to dey miss yarn o
Posted: at 11-04-2011 04:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 11-04-2011 04:48 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 11-04-2011 04:43 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 11-04-2011 04:30 PM
Women do their best..buh the men  shld try and assist and oversee their childrens whereabout..
not just providing for the hoose buh also looking into ur childrens affairs..

In a home that both parents are spiritually ok.u cant see the man falling off track naaaaaa

To be honest with you, Men have their roles to play when it comes to upbringing of a child/children, They got their own ways, as well as been impatient with what kids do, MEN get irritates easily from the way children behaves esp when they're not always around them, some attitudes from kids can trigger the man to react the way the woman will not even like, You will see the woman trying to protect the baby, because only her knows what the child could do at a particular time, for example Over crying kids or stubborn, Men hardly stand that, the next thing they will do is to raise the stick on that kid, not every mother likes to see her child beaten up. Some Men will even react and tell the woman to take her kid away before he will beat the kid.. you get what i mean. So is always the problem Men have with kids.. Impatient !!

Whatever..they still have a role to play in this situation..

Posted: at 11-04-2011 04:48 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- esonu at 11-04-2011 04:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Posted: at 11-04-2011 04:49 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 11-04-2011 04:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 11-04-2011 04:33 PM
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Quote from: trolling on 11-04-2011 03:52 PM
If the child turns out bad that means while the man was going into the fields to provide for the family,the wife was busy gossipping or watching nollywood lol.

now u got it wrong..
it is only a selfish man that allows his woman to be a full time house wife..
not in this day and age man!

do u think women dont go into the field?
so many always think its just the right of the woman to takia and watchover the kids..buh no..thats not it..
when ur child goes astray do not just put all the blame on her.. buh on urself(MAN) too. cos
i believe after ur field work u shld have time for ur kids and not just the Bar..
think right man...

Tell am jor.........as if he is not aware that most women are now working to help provide for the family.......Both parents have a part to play in the upbringing of a child and if the child turns wayward, both parents should take the knock..........

i never wanted to say something sha.. buh trolling bruzz my head with those words of hiss..
i am disapointed in him with such words.. in this day and age..haba..no naaaaaaa
men even if na 30mins with ur pikin sef.. they will feel loved..haba trollinggg.. say sometin berra naaaaaa

I am surprised that you were surprised at his response.....how come you expected something better from him?.......

la lolo..i no understand oooooo
does it mean that no other thing bearra than what he said could  come out from his mouth?

I challenge him to say something better....let him be more of an Abraham if he expects us to be the Sarahs of this world......

Posted: at 11-04-2011 04:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 11-04-2011 04:53 PM (13 years ago)
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i have been wondering about this phrase too buh lack d courage to ask peeps cos even d bible confirm it too
"a good child belongs to d father while a bad child belongs to d mother"

i also want to hear peeps contribution on this to
Posted: at 11-04-2011 04:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 11-04-2011 04:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 11-04-2011 04:43 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 11-04-2011 04:30 PM
Women do their best..buh the men  shld try and assist and oversee their childrens whereabout..
not just providing for the hoose buh also looking into ur childrens affairs..

In a home that both parents are spiritually ok.u cant see the man falling off track naaaaaa

To be honest with you, Men have their roles to play when it comes to upbringing of a child/children, They got their own ways, as well as been impatient with what kids do, MEN get irritates easily from the way children behaves esp when they're not always around them, some attitudes from kids can trigger the man to react the way the woman will not even like, You will see the woman trying to protect the baby, because only her knows what the child could do at a particular time, for example Over crying kids or stubborn, Men hardly stand that, the next thing they will do is to raise the stick on that kid, not every mother likes to see her child beaten up. Some Men will even react and tell the woman to take her kid away before he will beat the kid.. you get what i mean. So is always the problem Men have with kids.. Impatient !!

If a man is patient enough to make that baby, he should be patient enough to bring up the child properly........the woman cant play both motherly and fatherly roles....I cant accept this excuse at all, it doesnt hold water......which kain IMPATIENCE be dat?

Posted: at 11-04-2011 04:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 11-04-2011 05:09 PM (13 years ago)
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Well thats what Men seems not to have like women do, Women knows how to pet a kid, not all men knows that, Not even all Men knows how to carry their own kid on the hand for few mins, But women got this 100%. thats how it goes, if the women are waiting for the Men to start doing all that... i'm afraid is not actually gonna work out perfectly, if you ask me why ... i will tell you the truth, because I really don't know why is like that.  Undecided Undecided


Posted: at 11-04-2011 05:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 11-04-2011 05:15 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 11-04-2011 05:09 PM
Well thats what Men seems not to have like women do, Women knows how to pet a kid, not all men knows that, Not even all Men knows how to carry their own kid on the hand for few mins, But women got this 100%. thats how it goes, if the women are waiting for the Men to start doing all that... i'm afraid is not actually gonna work out perfectly, if you ask me why ... i will tell you the truth, because I really don't know why is like that.  Undecided Undecided



me i only pet whenever she needs the petting..
u dont pet a child when he/she is wrong..no..

i beat her when she is wrong and thats why whenever she feels like doing same wrong she looks at my face b4 doing it..
and when she notices that my expression has changed , then she knows that what she's abt doing is really wrong..

Posted: at 11-04-2011 05:15 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 11-04-2011 05:18 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 11-04-2011 05:09 PM
Well thats what Men seems not to have like women do, Women knows how to pet a kid, not all men knows that, Not even all Men knows how to carry their own kid on the hand for few mins, But women got this 100%. thats how it goes, if the women are waiting for the Men to start doing all that... i'm afraid is not actually gonna work out perfectly, if you ask me why ... i will tell you the truth, because I really don't know why is like that.  Undecided Undecided



Dk, the part you have highlighted right here is actually the woman's role.....men have their role, if they dont know it, they better go and find out.......

Posted: at 11-04-2011 05:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- deboalabi262 at 11-04-2011 05:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 11-04-2011 04:53 PM
i have been wondering about this phrase too buh lack d courage to ask peeps cos even d bible confirm it too
"a good child belongs to d father while a bad child belongs to d mother"

i also want to hear peeps contribution on this to
Say it again. No more argument, Lol.....

Posted: at 11-04-2011 05:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 11-04-2011 05:35 PM (13 years ago)
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hmmmmmmm

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- Emmandazie at 11-04-2011 05:40 PM (13 years ago)
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I believe claiming praise for good upbringing and attributing blame to mothers for poor upbringing of children is just part of male chevaunism and is always purported by lazy fathers who do not master and/or implement their duties as family heads.In reality, some claim good children to be theirs whereas they practically do nothing.
Tell me such and I will ask such a father where he was before his wife spoilt his child!
Posted: at 11-04-2011 05:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 11-04-2011 05:53 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 11-04-2011 05:40 PM
I believe claiming praise for good upbringing and attributing blame to mothers for poor upbringing of children is just part of male chevaunism and is always purported by lazy fathers who do not master and/or implement their duties as family heads.In reality, some claim good children to be theirs whereas they practically do nothing.
Tell me such and I will ask such a father where he was before his wife spoilt his child!

Thumbs up jor

Posted: at 11-04-2011 05:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 11-04-2011 06:04 PM (13 years ago)
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listen mood activated!!!  Cool

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- yukicares4u at 11-04-2011 06:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 11-04-2011 06:04 PM
listen mood activated!!!  Cool
access denied for listening mood  Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 11-04-2011 06:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 11-04-2011 06:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Ignore the post and kiss KB cutie  Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss

Posted: at 11-04-2011 06:07 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- diplomatik at 11-04-2011 10:26 PM (13 years ago)
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see this yeye man  Angry

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- Beauti4 at 11-04-2011 10:41 PM (13 years ago)
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All these standards are among the Africans...so i really don't hve anything to say for now
Posted: at 11-04-2011 10:41 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 12-04-2011 11:56 AM (13 years ago)
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passing and listening
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- HearMyCry at 12-04-2011 04:56 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 11-04-2011 04:53 PM
i have been wondering about this phrase too buh lack d courage to ask peeps cos even d bible confirm it too
"a good child belongs to d father while a bad child belongs to d mother"

i also want to hear peeps contribution on this to

I need the bible quotation pls
Posted: at 12-04-2011 04:56 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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