Must Ladies Cook For Men? (Page 11)

Date: 14-04-2011 8:31 am (14 years ago) | Author: PreetyInstinct
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- Moseszz at 15-04-2011 02:09 PM (14 years ago)
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We should be mindful of many things including what happens around us. We are Africans and black. It is not a mistake from the creator, let us call it divine uniqueness. What I am saying is simple, look at those who preached freedom or rather raised freedom to levels never seen in this world before, the west. They are suffering from lack of morals because of lack of culture. And where is all these leading, silent genetic annihilation of their race. We as Africans are original and are culture conscious, we should desist from copying what would destroy us as a people. Some of us have copied to the extent that we are neither Africans nor do we fit as white and have lost our identities. What is wrong with a wife being responsible for the cooking in the house or for her husband? Cooking for the husband or the home is not slavery and in fact, it is what makes many to love their homes more than any other. Cooking for a husband is not only a good thing but it's advantages are simply numerous. It cements love in a family and brings the home together. Of course we know that some girls these days can't do it but they can still learn. Cooking for the home is an art and blessed is a woman who master it. However, the inability to do this simple hereditary art or question it as a whole is trending a path that is destructive because we are already questioning who we are as a people, but believe me, you can not change yourself to fit any other race. It is not a mistake that we have these cultures, these are who we are and the more we teach ourselves that our culture defines our identities, the better for our race.
Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- kelechi_1 at 15-04-2011 02:26 PM (14 years ago)
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THANK GOD SAY MY MAMA TEASH ME HW 2 COOK OOO... SO LADIES, UNA NO GO FIT DO SHAKARA 4 ME OOO... BUT I PRAY MAKE GOD GIVE ME BETA WIFY OOO  Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:26 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- sophiebaby at 15-04-2011 02:32 PM (14 years ago)
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 Grin
Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:32 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kelechi_1 at 15-04-2011 02:37 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 15-04-2011 02:32 PM
Grin

I DEY VERY SERIOUS OOO I SABI COOK WELL WELL EVEN MY NATIVE FOOD... Wink
Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:37 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- kelechi_1 at 15-04-2011 02:53 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Youngstoriez on 14-04-2011 12:41 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 14-04-2011 12:39 PM
me na only INDOMIE i sabi cook
... Shocked Shocked Shocked Grin

hahahaahah...u sure de INDOMIE sef go done well?.. Grin Grin
Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:53 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- kebella at 15-04-2011 04:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ubongette on 15-04-2011 01:34 PM
Nigerian husbands always feel like there are the boss to their wife,why men can't cook? i mean what's wrong with their hands? As for me no one cook better than me,because my mama taught me how to cook. so please every one should learn how to cook,either husband,wife,bosses,slaves,every body,    thankz
Kiss Kiss
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- diplomatik at 15-04-2011 04:29 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: moniconyez on 15-04-2011 11:12 AM
Quote from: diplomatik on 14-04-2011 12:13 PM
i don't like to cook..i like making stuff...i know it sounds weird but thats just me , making stuff maybe like from a recipe or something thats interesting to me...anyways i do cook for him, i was spoiled growing up(grams never allowed me touch a spoon)  so i had every excuse not to cook if i wanted to but i watched and learned from my mom and any1 who cooks around me.. i also learned that mehn like food it doesn't make sense to be  eating out 24/7 and yeah he cooks for me all the time sometimes we cook together also  Cheesy Tongue

Hmmmm

what up moni  Cheesy
Posted: at 15-04-2011 04:29 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- diplomatik at 15-04-2011 04:34 PM (14 years ago)
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is cooking  a culture /african thing Huh?

other races and different ethnicity  don't they cook as well Huh?

can some 1 make me understand please i'm so lost  Undecided
Posted: at 15-04-2011 04:34 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 15-04-2011 04:38 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ugochuks on 15-04-2011 09:03 AM
Quote from: betty55 on 14-04-2011 09:32 PM
Quote from: ugochuks on 14-04-2011 09:02 PM
Quote from: kebella on 14-04-2011 08:50 PM
Lips Sealed Lips Sealed need lighter  Grin Grin Grin no more searching am all urs  Kiss Kiss Kiss

DEAL DONE! SIGNED!! SEALED!!! NOW PASS ME THE LIGHETR AS USUAL WITH OLD NO 7, IM SO HAPPY NOW,,I WANNA FLY HIGH Grin Grin Grin Kiss
u don enter agbero motor be that.na prayer u need now to get out.this woman get net wey she take dey hook big fishes.but no bi me talk me.


Grin Grin Grin Grin AHHHH U NO FIT CONFUSE ME OH, I DON ENTER BE SAY I DON ENTER AND I NO WAN GO OUT,, I GO FOLLOW HER REACH THE LAST BUS STOP,, HABA BETTY BUT WHY NOW? SHEBI DEM SAY... WHAT GOD HAS JOINED 2GETHER LET NO MAN PUT.....?  I NO GO LISTEN COS U BE WOMAN,  Grin Grin

yes dear tell em Cool no matter how they try they wil not succede Cool anytime they see us our face wil look strange to them sabotuo's...
thanx dear for ur understanding  Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss ugochuks + kebella 4 life  Cool Wink Kiss
Posted: at 15-04-2011 04:38 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 15-04-2011 04:41 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ugochuks on 15-04-2011 09:08 AM
Quote from: kebella on 14-04-2011 10:30 PM
Quote from: ugochuks on 14-04-2011 09:02 PM
Quote from: kebella on 14-04-2011 08:50 PM
Lips Sealed Lips Sealed need lighter  Grin Grin Grin no more searching am all urs  Kiss Kiss Kiss

DEAL DONE! SIGNED!! SEALED!!! NOW PASS ME THE LIGHETR AS USUAL WITH OLD NO 7, IM SO HAPPY NOW,,I WANNA FLY HIGH Grin Grin Grin Kiss

yu no what dearies  Wink i think we can make a perfect match  Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss


U DEY MIND DEM?NO WORRY WE GO SOON GIVE NAIJAPALS OUR WEDDING IV,,DEM GO FEAR FEAR NOW Grin Grin,,,

anywhere i go , anything i do , any single day any air i breath i belong to yu  Tongue i can wait for d iv to be publish Cool
Posted: at 15-04-2011 04:41 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 15-04-2011 05:09 PM (14 years ago)
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AWW DIPLO LOOKS UTE WHEN SHE IS LOST Cool
Posted: at 15-04-2011 05:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Youngstoriez at 15-04-2011 05:29 PM (14 years ago)
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A lady has to cook for man....
Posted: at 15-04-2011 05:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tyabo at 15-04-2011 05:29 PM (14 years ago)
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well 4 doz who think trading away dere culture's value all in d name of being civilized are doing dat at dere own detriment dat ain't ma biz...bt 1 thing for sure is dat we are Africans and naffing can change dat fact...

OUR CULTURE IS OUR I DENTITY !!
Posted: at 15-04-2011 05:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Makasine at 15-04-2011 06:11 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Moseszz on 15-04-2011 02:09 PM
We should be mindful of many things including what happens around us. We are Africans and black. It is not a mistake from the creator, let us call it divine uniqueness. What I am saying is simple, look at those who preached freedom or rather raised freedom to levels never seen in this world before, the west. They are suffering from lack of morals because of lack of culture. And where is all these leading, silent genetic annihilation of their race. We as Africans are original and are culture conscious, we should desist from copying what would destroy us as a people. Some of us have copied to the extent that we are neither Africans nor do we fit as white and have lost our identities. What is wrong with a wife being responsible for the cooking in the house or for her husband? Cooking for the husband or the home is not slavery and in fact, it is what makes many to love their homes more than any other. Cooking for a husband is not only a good thing but it's advantages are simply numerous. It cements love in a family and brings the home together. Of course we know that some girls these days can't do it but they can still learn. Cooking for the home is an art and blessed is a woman who master it. However, the inability to do this simple hereditary art or question it as a whole is trending a path that is destructive because we are already questioning who we are as a people, but believe me, you can not change yourself to fit any other race. It is not a mistake that we have these cultures, these are who we are and the more we teach ourselves that our culture defines our identities, the better for our race.

Ele ihe onyea na ekwueri?Huh? What does this long essay about history has to do with the freewill to cook in a relationship or marriage.
Posted: at 15-04-2011 06:11 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- holyp at 15-04-2011 06:28 PM (14 years ago)
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Must Ladies Cook For Men?
« posted : April 14, 2011, 12:22:19 PM (yesterday at 12:22 PM) »

i will never cook for my lover  for what nah unless he cooks and i will eat  but me cooking i resemble hin cook or hin no know where catering school dey , but for my hubby dat is my responsibility doesnt mean i will be the only one that cooks he cooks too 

So food is ready now na even person wey no get money abi, u no wan coke but if he cooks den u go eat, well i no kn wetin i go tell u.

For me i don't like women cooking for me, i am my cook, i feel i am using them, so i do my cooking, let her eat, besides i love cooking anything cookable.
Posted: at 15-04-2011 06:28 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- truenaija2 at 15-04-2011 06:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Peter_Ade on 15-04-2011 11:05 AM
Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 15-04-2011 06:22 AM
Quote from: Peter_Ade on 14-04-2011 04:19 PM
Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 14-04-2011 08:31 AM
Do you cook for your man?

Does he cook for you?

I think people(men) are asking for to much nowadays, if she is not ur wife or fiance why should she cook for you?


your views.

i wonder where the world is goin, people dont want to do anything again!
Imagin a tailor asking me If its compulsory for him to sew cloths or Mechanic
sayin he's not d one to fix d car dat i should take it to d carpenter....

God will help us ooooo
For God's sake, d 2nd primary assignment of a wife is to cook.
He should satisfy d man in d Kitchen after satisfying him on bed!
& a mother's responsibility is to feed d Kids


I'm sure the thread title must ave mislead you!, but i'm sure u still are not blind as the title still reads 'MAN' & not husband i am already aware of that, even in my post itself i said if she is NOT ur fiance or wife...so pelase read again b4 speaking out of no sense context! Smiley


se emi lomode yi ba wi bayen ehnnn, Ori e ti baje patapata.inu si bu o ri orun sa
Gbaaaa!!!

peter wetin dey vex u  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy abii u no sabi cook nii :'(
Posted: at 15-04-2011 06:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 15-04-2011 06:49 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: holyp on 15-04-2011 06:28 PM
   
Must Ladies Cook For Men?
« posted : April 14, 2011, 12:22:19 PM (yesterday at 12:22 PM) »

i will never cook for my lover  for what nah unless he cooks and i will eat  but me cooking i resemble hin cook or hin no know where catering school dey , but for my hubby dat is my responsibility doesnt mean i will be the only one that cooks he cooks too 

So food is ready now na even person wey no get money abi, u no wan coke but if he cooks den u go eat, well i no kn wetin i go tell u.

For me i don't like women cooking for me, i am my cook, i feel i am using them, so i do my cooking, let her eat, besides i love cooking anything cookable.

exactly atleast african culture did not say we should have boyfriebd and girlfriend and it is african culture to have husbands and wife so i cook for my husband and boyfriend is not my husband so it is not my duty to cook for him but if he cooks for me nothing spoil nawa oo
Posted: at 15-04-2011 06:49 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- proniceangel4lv at 15-04-2011 06:51 PM (14 years ago)
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i love cooking,it's one of my hobbies,as a noble and a complete woman,i don't have to wait for my man to cook for me or tell him to do that cos it's nt speakg well of me,except am sick, very sick he can do it if he wants to,it's not his responsibility,he can only assist me,if he wants not by force or anytin,you don't blame some women who doesn't want to cook maybe because,they can't do it,if you can do it,you can teach them or help them bt it's too shameful.
Posted: at 15-04-2011 06:51 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- truenaija2 at 15-04-2011 06:58 PM (14 years ago)
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 Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided it is only shameful to be a cook to someone that is not married to u and might end up using and dumping you Cool no be today e don tey
Posted: at 15-04-2011 06:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- cyndi3 at 15-04-2011 07:00 PM (14 years ago)
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For me, cookin is nothin, I enjoy cookin more than eatin sef, unless he wants to try somethin diff, maybe he knows one or two recipe that he wants to impress me, why not...but that kitchen na my Knox Cool Cool
Posted: at 15-04-2011 07:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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