Why most women prefer parasitic relationship to mutualistic relationship? (Page 4)

I would want to blame that on the fact that (apologies to all the ladies in the house) most Nigerian women are still living in the Era where the size of  a man's wallet equates the level of his love for a woman. Up to 8 out of 10 relationships in Nigeria are more or less 'Cupboard Love' class relationships. Most times Luxury in a relationship is only one aspect in that relationship. There are other aspects that are equally important that are usually neglected with very serious consequences. The mistake many women make is that when you take a man's money he wants something in return which you better be willing to give when the time comes. The problem is most women think about the money more than the consequences of taking it. Most times when a man finds out that you want only want his money, he'll definitely want to use you as a sex object. Sadly, Many women with that kind of agenda end up being desperate to marry later in Life and end up marry the wrong kind of guys.

Posted: at 29-04-2011 09:19 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

speak am for pidgin english abeg. My english teacher die wen i dey primary 2, so i no sabi english abeg.

Posted: at 30-04-2011 02:13 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

Eya sowwie

Posted: at 30-04-2011 03:10 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

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Posted: at 30-04-2011 04:35 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Abi?

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Posted: at 30-04-2011 09:18 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

ladies,go about parasitic relationships,because,of lack of contentedness,selfish motives,and lack of prestige.

Posted: at 2-05-2011 05:12 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

Riches, Riches, Riches, 

Posted: at 27-05-2011 01:00 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

U tell us now.

Posted: at 15-09-2011 10:26 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

thanks

Posted: at 9-10-2011 11:36 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

Well, Nigerians invented the rule that the man must be sole provider in all aspects of a relationship so, I would say that its a side effect of that ideology. Any confident woman would not sit idly by and have a man provide all wants in a relationship, she would contribute something to some extent. But the vast Majority of 'Hungry' Nigerian girls prefer the 'Olden days' philosophy that the man must provide all the material things in a relationship. For her, all she has to is submit herself for sex when the man is in the mood as her contribution in the relationship. Recently, Fuel Subsidy Removal has not been in favor of the Majority of the 'Hungry' Girls so, the contribution quota in many relationships is now more or less 50-50 as I am not sure that many guys can bear the cost of maintaining a relationship alone anymore.

Posted: at 10-06-2012 08:58 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming