Was I Wrong in my Decision (Page 11)

I am sorry, but my comment will be a little bit different
from that of others.

You have been together for the past 5 years, yet your
guy have not been able to trust you for who you are. Think back
to those things you were doing at the initial stage of your relationship
that make him to have doubt over your sincerity to him.

And my question for you is that, are they other things
that your guy is doing which you don't like apart from
his behaviours? Answer this question before you
listen to those people telling you to leave and look elsewhere
for another person. "Remember, you won't know
the value of something until you have lost it".

Also, you need to pray, because for 5 years you have
been tolerating this (which not too many girls will do),
ask God, 'If I am able to tolerate this for this so long,
is this guy really for me or not'.

Since you are matured enough to handle the pressure
in a relationship, be careful with the advice you receive
from people, because some will help you while others
will mislead you. WISHING YOU THE BEST OF LUCK.

My Fiance nags alot always seeing things that needeth to be overlook as serious issues
He wouldnt allow me greet any male frnd on d road without me answering questions even on those he knows
He has registered all d numbers in my phone in his memory and thereby if any new number call or i store any new number on ma phone, I will have to give account on what was our discussion before calling or exchanging of numbers were involve
He slaps me and seizes my phone on different occassions
He checked my phones and monitor my movement as if i have guards following me around
He has asked some of his frnds within my neighborhood to keep eye on me, to inform him if i ever talk/see any man

Recently, He forwarded my incoming and outgoing calls to his phone so he can always have access to my discussion with anyone......so my madam (boss) called me yesterday buh i wasnt close to my phone....so i had a miss call which also rang on his phone as a missed call...later on, he started flashing my madam often times and then later called and started toasting her on d phone.....later in d night about 20 mins to twelve midnight he sent a text to the woman asking her if she knew anything about me.....but d woman quickly called me up from sleep and ask me if i knew this man and also forward d text message and d number to ma phone.......

i couldnt deny......and then d woman was so furious on how i gave my fiance her number or wat if her hubby was at home wat could have become of her that night.....

After pleading with her not to be offended, this morning she almost terminate ma appointment with d company if not for d pleas of other staff....and then i called ma fiance and told him off cos all ma frnds, relatives and otherwise, doesnt like his behaviour and d way he treats me, buh cos of d love i have for him, i learnt to endure and tolerates so much rubbish from him

Just want to know especially from d ladies, if u were in ma shoes what would u have done