Was I Wrong in my Decision (Page 12)

Date: 04-05-2011 10:57 am (13 years ago) | Author: Blessing Edet
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- blessedme at 5-05-2011 09:49 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Labe on  5-05-2011 02:16 AM
You did d right thing but i think u shld hav done dt long b4 now coz dt kind of guy wll put u in isolated prison wen he marry you n wll even deny u access 2 ur own male children.RUN AWAY FROM HIM 4 UR PRECIOUS LIFE.
thanks love!! already doing that
Posted: at 5-05-2011 09:49 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 5-05-2011 09:52 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kings_antho on  5-05-2011 07:40 AM
To whom it may concern, am a guy too, am a jealous guy, but i have sense of understanding.I can't behave to the extent ur guy did. My humble advice to you, u said bot of u have dated for almost 5 years now, yet he find it difficult to change from he's behaviour after series of expression from you on how you felt. Everything depend's on. If you truly believe to entertain he's nauty life, go on. If you don't like it, shown de door at of him.
Thanks dearie
Posted: at 5-05-2011 09:52 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 5-05-2011 09:53 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: jgorio on  5-05-2011 07:42 AM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on  4-05-2011 11:57 AM
serious matters, this ur guy no trust u atall, hv u talk to him about it let him know dat nt the way to go about it, if no improvement then u shld let go for d fast dat u married him wnt mk u turn enemy to ur frnds, every one needs freedom.

Best i can say is  , if he doesn't trust you, then he no fit to be cald yo fiance , move on without him , imagine what its gonna be like wen yo married? Think of d future my dear ... yo future !!!
hmmmmm
Posted: at 5-05-2011 09:53 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 5-05-2011 09:55 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: GOLDENMEDAH on  5-05-2011 08:11 AM
Am  very sorry to say this, i think u re in stupid love and ur fiance also is "MUMU" monitoring woman dosen't stop her frm doing what ever she has in plan, if you end up marrying this man ,am really sorry, you may end up packing from his house because he's going to treat you d way he's doing now so.. think twice before u make him you life partner...
thanks dear
Posted: at 5-05-2011 09:55 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 5-05-2011 09:56 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: gabito1982 on  5-05-2011 08:25 AM
i think that guy is a fool, thank you my sister for that discussion, you even waited a lot of time with him. this is modern world and people need to be connected and make friends. Leave him for good and neva look back. you will find the love of you life. otherwise i am afraid i might do more than that to you in the long run. He who have ears let him hear.
thank u
Posted: at 5-05-2011 09:56 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 5-05-2011 09:57 AM (13 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy

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- blessedme at 5-05-2011 10:00 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Owhologbo on  5-05-2011 08:32 AM
Quote from: blessedme on  4-05-2011 10:57 AM
My Fiance nags alot always seeing things that needeth to be overlook as serious issues
He wouldnt allow me greet any male frnd on d road without me answering questions even on those he knows
He has registered all d numbers in my phone in his memory and thereby if any new number call or i store any new number on ma phone, I will have to give account on what was our discussion before calling or exchanging of numbers were involve
He slaps me and seizes my phone on different occassions
He checked my phones and monitor my movement as if i have guards following me around
He has asked some of his frnds within my neighborhood to keep eye on me, to inform him if i ever talk/see any man

Recently, He forwarded my incoming and outgoing calls to his phone so he can always have access to my discussion with anyone......so my madam (boss) called me yesterday buh i wasnt close to my phone....so i had a miss call which also rang on his phone as a missed call...later on, he started flashing my madam often times and then later called and started toasting her on d phone.....later in d night about 20 mins to twelve midnight he sent a text to the woman asking her if she knew anything about me.....but d woman quickly called me up from sleep and ask me if i knew this man and also forward d text message and d number to ma phone.......

i couldnt deny......and then d woman was so furious on how i gave my fiance her number or wat if her hubby was at home wat could have become of her that night.....

After pleading with her not to be offended, this morning she almost terminate ma appointment with d company if not for d pleas of other staff....and then i called ma fiance and told him off cos all ma frnds, relatives and otherwise, doesnt like his behaviour and d way he treats me, buh cos of d love i have for him, i learnt to endure and tolerates so much rubbish from him

Just want to know especially from d ladies, if u were in ma shoes what would u have done

Issue like this have to be considered properly before give advice(s) because you have to hear from the guy side of the story...... People do painted themselves good to ought out relationship. To me I am just passing.......

i would be d last person to paint myself good wen am wrong and i will also be d last person to frame up someone just to look good in d sight of others....so ma dear next time just read and pass or better still Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed rather than saying wat u know absolutely nothing about
Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:00 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 5-05-2011 10:03 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: skyleo on  5-05-2011 09:06 AM
How did you come accross this type of person in the first place. Stop fooling yourself, am a man when a man is looking for a mistake or the other there is no love in such a relationship he is looking for a  mistake of yours in order to let you go. Is better you leave before you kill yourself, let say you have lost your job did you think he would not continue with his own life. Think better and act best.
i appreciate
Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:03 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 5-05-2011 10:04 AM (13 years ago)
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 Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue

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- blessedme at 5-05-2011 10:13 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Owhologbo on  5-05-2011 09:10 AM
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There are several things he is doing that pisses me off big time
loosing more than 5years is better than enduring a life time in what seems like a prison yard
Thanks for ur advice anyway....ma mind is made up already

I strongly disagree with you BlessedMe.... for good 5 years you have really enjoy this guy in questions (in parasitic relationship) just that you are up to something that is why u are coming up with all these excuses... well my advice to you is that you can't get the will of God is you can't make yourself God's will.. that is the simple truth of your case. I wish you well.
U are beginning to get on ma nerves  Angry Angry Angry do u know me and this guy in question Huh? Huh? u talk as if u have been the third party that always settle our quarrels or better still our counsellor...what exactly do u think am up to Huh? Huh? if u dont know/be sure of something why dont u just keep Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed I will really appreciate if stay away from this post cos u are getting piss with ur comments....Tell me if u would advice ur sis to stay in such an abusive relationship Angry Angry Angry
Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:13 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- eoadex2003 at 5-05-2011 10:21 AM (13 years ago)
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There is no single trust in ur relationship, get rid of him. The kind luv u av 4 him is a self destructive luv, think.
Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:21 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 5-05-2011 10:29 AM (13 years ago)
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 Grin

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- blessedme at 5-05-2011 10:37 AM (13 years ago)
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lol...y u just dey laff naaa
Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:37 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- olumbareal at 5-05-2011 10:39 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on  5-05-2011 10:37 AM
lol...y u just dey laff naaa
Laffin mood activated. Grin
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- Idbabe at 5-05-2011 10:47 AM (13 years ago)
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You are wasting so much time with this good for nothing young man.  If he loves u that much, y den did he toast ur madam, until he remove bread from your mouth, u will not learn.  Love for him ko, hate for him ni.  Abeg do something before something do u.  Send him packing and never to return again.  I don tell u my own ooo.  Una never marry sef e be like dis, if una marry, na e be say u no fit dey go toilet alone, u go get guard.  Sorry for urself.
Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:47 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- olatosho13 at 5-05-2011 10:53 AM (13 years ago)
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Xcuse me bleee.....can i ask u 1 personal question now?....b4 giving any comment's out....
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- itoroesie at 5-05-2011 11:03 AM (13 years ago)
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u could not have done better than u did.....bravo for pulling the shot .
Posted: at 5-05-2011 11:03 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- olatosho13 at 5-05-2011 11:10 AM (13 years ago)
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My question go does:.....hope u've never cheat on dis very gui...cos' such thing condem trust in relationship?...but my advice 2 u is that 5years ago is not a joke...u can reconcile base on luv & try 2 persuade him about those trash...but am very sure de gui luv u so much.....pls try on that....bleeeeee
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- ONYIBABY at 5-05-2011 11:24 AM (13 years ago)
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My dear you did the right thing. If u marry him you will suffer a lot deal in his hand. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
Posted: at 5-05-2011 11:24 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- blessedme at 5-05-2011 11:36 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Idbabe on  5-05-2011 10:47 AM
You are wasting so much time with this good for nothing young man.  If he loves u that much, y den did he toast ur madam, until he remove bread from your mouth, u will not learn.  Love for him ko, hate for him ni.  Abeg do something before something do u.  Send him packing and never to return again.  I don tell u my own ooo.  Una never marry sef e be like dis, if una marry, na e be say u no fit dey go toilet alone, u go get guard.  Sorry for urself.
ma sis thanks
Posted: at 5-05-2011 11:36 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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