blessedme at 5-05-2011 09:49 AM (13 years ago) (f) You did d right thing but i think u shld hav done dt long b4 now coz dt kind of guy wll put u in isolated prison wen he marry you n wll even deny u access 2 ur own male children.RUN AWAY FROM HIM 4 UR PRECIOUS LIFE. thanks love!! already doing that Posted: at 5-05-2011 09:49 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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blessedme at 5-05-2011 09:52 AM (13 years ago) (f) To whom it may concern, am a guy too, am a jealous guy, but i have sense of understanding.I can't behave to the extent ur guy did. My humble advice to you, u said bot of u have dated for almost 5 years now, yet he find it difficult to change from he's behaviour after series of expression from you on how you felt. Everything depend's on. If you truly believe to entertain he's nauty life, go on. If you don't like it, shown de door at of him.
Thanks dearie Posted: at 5-05-2011 09:52 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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blessedme at 5-05-2011 09:53 AM (13 years ago) (f) serious matters, this ur guy no trust u atall, hv u talk to him about it let him know dat nt the way to go about it, if no improvement then u shld let go for d fast dat u married him wnt mk u turn enemy to ur frnds, every one needs freedom.
Best i can say is , if he doesn't trust you, then he no fit to be cald yo fiance , move on without him , imagine what its gonna be like wen yo married? Think of d future my dear ... yo future !!! hmmmmm Posted: at 5-05-2011 09:53 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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blessedme at 5-05-2011 09:55 AM (13 years ago) (f) Am very sorry to say this, i think u re in stupid love and ur fiance also is "MUMU" monitoring woman dosen't stop her frm doing what ever she has in plan, if you end up marrying this man ,am really sorry, you may end up packing from his house because he's going to treat you d way he's doing now so.. think twice before u make him you life partner...
thanks dear Posted: at 5-05-2011 09:55 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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blessedme at 5-05-2011 09:56 AM (13 years ago) (f) i think that guy is a fool, thank you my sister for that discussion, you even waited a lot of time with him. this is modern world and people need to be connected and make friends. Leave him for good and neva look back. you will find the love of you life. otherwise i am afraid i might do more than that to you in the long run. He who have ears let him hear.
thank u Posted: at 5-05-2011 09:56 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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sophiebaby at 5-05-2011 09:57 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 5-05-2011 09:57 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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blessedme at 5-05-2011 10:00 AM (13 years ago) (f) My Fiance nags alot always seeing things that needeth to be overlook as serious issues He wouldnt allow me greet any male frnd on d road without me answering questions even on those he knows He has registered all d numbers in my phone in his memory and thereby if any new number call or i store any new number on ma phone, I will have to give account on what was our discussion before calling or exchanging of numbers were involve He slaps me and seizes my phone on different occassions He checked my phones and monitor my movement as if i have guards following me around He has asked some of his frnds within my neighborhood to keep eye on me, to inform him if i ever talk/see any man
Recently, He forwarded my incoming and outgoing calls to his phone so he can always have access to my discussion with anyone......so my madam (boss) called me yesterday buh i wasnt close to my phone....so i had a miss call which also rang on his phone as a missed call...later on, he started flashing my madam often times and then later called and started toasting her on d phone.....later in d night about 20 mins to twelve midnight he sent a text to the woman asking her if she knew anything about me.....but d woman quickly called me up from sleep and ask me if i knew this man and also forward d text message and d number to ma phone.......
i couldnt deny......and then d woman was so furious on how i gave my fiance her number or wat if her hubby was at home wat could have become of her that night.....
After pleading with her not to be offended, this morning she almost terminate ma appointment with d company if not for d pleas of other staff....and then i called ma fiance and told him off cos all ma frnds, relatives and otherwise, doesnt like his behaviour and d way he treats me, buh cos of d love i have for him, i learnt to endure and tolerates so much rubbish from him
Just want to know especially from d ladies, if u were in ma shoes what would u have done
Issue like this have to be considered properly before give advice(s) because you have to hear from the guy side of the story...... People do painted themselves good to ought out relationship. To me I am just passing.......i would be d last person to paint myself good wen am wrong and i will also be d last person to frame up someone just to look good in d sight of others....so ma dear next time just read and pass or better still rather than saying wat u know absolutely nothing about Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:00 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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blessedme at 5-05-2011 10:03 AM (13 years ago) (f) How did you come accross this type of person in the first place. Stop fooling yourself, am a man when a man is looking for a mistake or the other there is no love in such a relationship he is looking for a mistake of yours in order to let you go. Is better you leave before you kill yourself, let say you have lost your job did you think he would not continue with his own life. Think better and act best.
i appreciate Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:03 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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sophiebaby at 5-05-2011 10:04 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:04 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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eoadex2003 at 5-05-2011 10:21 AM (13 years ago) (m) There is no single trust in ur relationship, get rid of him. The kind luv u av 4 him is a self destructive luv, think. Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:21 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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sophiebaby at 5-05-2011 10:29 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:29 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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blessedme at 5-05-2011 10:37 AM (13 years ago) (f) lol...y u just dey laff naaa Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:37 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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olumbareal at 5-05-2011 10:39 AM (13 years ago) (m) lol...y u just dey laff naaa
Laffin mood activated. Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:39 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Idbabe at 5-05-2011 10:47 AM (13 years ago) (f) You are wasting so much time with this good for nothing young man. If he loves u that much, y den did he toast ur madam, until he remove bread from your mouth, u will not learn. Love for him ko, hate for him ni. Abeg do something before something do u. Send him packing and never to return again. I don tell u my own ooo. Una never marry sef e be like dis, if una marry, na e be say u no fit dey go toilet alone, u go get guard. Sorry for urself. Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:47 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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olatosho13 at 5-05-2011 10:53 AM (13 years ago) (m) Xcuse me bleee.....can i ask u 1 personal question now?....b4 giving any comment's out.... Posted: at 5-05-2011 10:53 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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itoroesie at 5-05-2011 11:03 AM (13 years ago) (m) u could not have done better than u did.....bravo for pulling the shot . Posted: at 5-05-2011 11:03 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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olatosho13 at 5-05-2011 11:10 AM (13 years ago) (m) My question go does:.....hope u've never cheat on dis very gui...cos' such thing condem trust in relationship?...but my advice 2 u is that 5years ago is not a joke...u can reconcile base on luv & try 2 persuade him about those trash...but am very sure de gui luv u so much.....pls try on that....bleeeeee Posted: at 5-05-2011 11:10 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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ONYIBABY at 5-05-2011 11:24 AM (13 years ago) (f) My dear you did the right thing. If u marry him you will suffer a lot deal in his hand. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Posted: at 5-05-2011 11:24 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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blessedme at 5-05-2011 11:36 AM (13 years ago) (f) You are wasting so much time with this good for nothing young man. If he loves u that much, y den did he toast ur madam, until he remove bread from your mouth, u will not learn. Love for him ko, hate for him ni. Abeg do something before something do u. Send him packing and never to return again. I don tell u my own ooo. Una never marry sef e be like dis, if una marry, na e be say u no fit dey go toilet alone, u go get guard. Sorry for urself.
ma sis thanks Posted: at 5-05-2011 11:36 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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