![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 11-05-2011 04:46 PM (13 years ago)  (f)  | Posted: at 11-05-2011 04:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kenolis") kenolis at 11-05-2011 05:02 PM (13 years ago) (m) i no be pikin oooo i be skeleton correct man  | Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:02 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Richard33") Richard33 at 11-05-2011 05:33 PM (13 years ago) (m) what of if a guy just doesn't get annoyed easily? | Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:33 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "kenolis") kenolis at 11-05-2011 06:14 PM (13 years ago) (m) na who you dey ask? | Posted: at 11-05-2011 06:14 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 11-05-2011 06:20 PM (13 years ago) (f) passing and *singing* i love you! i love u!! i love u too soon. besides no love lost, no love found.
singing along i forgive yu too soon 
my name is kebella ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 11-05-2011 06:20 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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what of if a guy just doesn't get annoyed easily?
Why must be d guy?
One of them usually does!It's how it is!One hot -one cold!
But what's your point, exactly?
Live and let live! | Posted: at 11-05-2011 06:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kenolis") kenolis at 11-05-2011 06:25 PM (13 years ago) (m) ok | Posted: at 11-05-2011 06:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 11-05-2011 06:46 PM (13 years ago) (m) oh yeah! | Posted: at 11-05-2011 06:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 11-05-2011 06:51 PM (13 years ago) (f)
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 11-05-2011 06:51 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "kenolis") kenolis at 11-05-2011 07:04 PM (13 years ago) (m) i pass with full speed | Posted: at 11-05-2011 07:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Insighting BS weldone | Posted: at 11-05-2011 07:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Live and let live! | Posted: at 11-05-2011 07:36 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Thx,sweetie!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 11-05-2011 07:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 11-05-2011 07:41 PM (13 years ago) (f) BS they are all true and very correct.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 11-05-2011 07:41 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "mazi") mazi at 11-05-2011 07:51 PM (13 years ago) (m) Showering with gifts
Some ppl,usually men,may equate spending money on a woman with making her like him more. Showering ur partner with gifts in d first stages of a relationship won’t make him or her like more or motivate him or her to keep u around. It suggests u have little else to offer other than what’s in ur chequing account.And even worse, they may begin to expect gifts all d time.
Wait for a milestone in ur relationship,such as an anniversary or birthday,b4 exchanging gifts.
Spending all ur free time together
There r 2 dangers with being needy or clingy in a relationship.First,u forgo ur social life,which u need to maintain for ur own well-being.We all need to have a healthy circle of friends for support & companionship.Second,u smother d other person’s own personal time,which may cause him or her to resent u.U'll end up getting sick of each other early on in d relationship.
Meeting family & friends prematurely
Meeting d other person’s friends and family is a rite of passage in any relationship. But,it could be a mistake to meet them before u know ur new partner well enough.Establish a comfortable,solid rapport with him or her first. Also,try to get to know those close to him or her by asking and talking about them.Then,when it's d right time,u'll know what to expect & u’ll be more at ease when u actually meet them.
Not coming clean about ur past
Whatever skeletons u’re hiding,they'll come out eventually. U should tell d other person about any addictions u had,if u've been married,and so on.Granted,all of this doesn’t have to be revealed all at once or all within d first few weeks of dating.When u feel like d relationship is getting serious,u should come out & be fully honest.
Avoiding Confrontation
Communication is d key to resolving those quarrels all lovers have.If u avoid talking about ur problems,they'll only get bigger.A small argument in d present is better than a painful fight later.Avoiding confrontation can also be taken as a sign of indifference towards d relationship.
Forgiving mistakes too easily
If there is something that bothers u about the other person,don’t let these annoying habits slide.If he/she has done something to hurt or offend u,let them know right away.If u sweep all of ur feelings under d rug,it will blow up.He/she will never know how u feel & d behaviour will continue.
Taking them for granted
In order to keep d glow of a relationship alive,seduction must be a long withstanding effort.So don’t fall into d trap of getting too comfortable too early on.For example:u stop going out on dates,u no longer care about ur appearance or u stop being attentive & affectionate.Falling into these bad practices may spell d end of ur relationship.
Saying “I Love You” Too Soon
These words r not to be thrown around carelessly.They must be used with an amount of frugality,otherwise they become meaningless.
Saying it too soon may scare d other person off.So wait until u know d other person really well & a solid base of trust has been established.Then,u'll both know that u really mean it.Feel free to add more! helo ma lady!...quiet agree wit u.
but s second nd fourth ones are a lil tricky | Posted: at 11-05-2011 07:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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1. Not askin questions enuf
2. Premature compromises
3. wen u put commitment b4 compatibility
4. bein obsessed wit ur partner
5. early pregnancy
6.neediness
hmmmm nice topic sweetie,,  | Posted: at 11-05-2011 07:59 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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1. Not askin questions enuf
2. Premature compromises
3. wen u put commitment b4 compatibility
4. bein obsessed wit ur partner
5. early pregnancy
6.neediness
hmmmm nice topic sweetie,, nice one! flymama | Posted: at 11-05-2011 08:04 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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BS they are all true and very correct.
Live and let live! | Posted: at 11-05-2011 08:07 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Showering with gifts
Some ppl,usually men,may equate spending money on a woman with making her like him more. Showering ur partner with gifts in d first stages of a relationship won’t make him or her like more or motivate him or her to keep u around. It suggests u have little else to offer other than what’s in ur chequing account.And even worse, they may begin to expect gifts all d time.
Wait for a milestone in ur relationship,such as an anniversary or birthday,b4 exchanging gifts.
Spending all ur free time together
There r 2 dangers with being needy or clingy in a relationship.First,u forgo ur social life,which u need to maintain for ur own well-being.We all need to have a healthy circle of friends for support & companionship.Second,u smother d other person’s own personal time,which may cause him or her to resent u.U'll end up getting sick of each other early on in d relationship.
Meeting family & friends prematurely
Meeting d other person’s friends and family is a rite of passage in any relationship. But,it could be a mistake to meet them before u know ur new partner well enough.Establish a comfortable,solid rapport with him or her first. Also,try to get to know those close to him or her by asking and talking about them.Then,when it's d right time,u'll know what to expect & u’ll be more at ease when u actually meet them.
Not coming clean about ur past
Whatever skeletons u’re hiding,they'll come out eventually. U should tell d other person about any addictions u had,if u've been married,and so on.Granted,all of this doesn’t have to be revealed all at once or all within d first few weeks of dating.When u feel like d relationship is getting serious,u should come out & be fully honest.
Avoiding Confrontation
Communication is d key to resolving those quarrels all lovers have.If u avoid talking about ur problems,they'll only get bigger.A small argument in d present is better than a painful fight later.Avoiding confrontation can also be taken as a sign of indifference towards d relationship.
Forgiving mistakes too easily
If there is something that bothers u about the other person,don’t let these annoying habits slide.If he/she has done something to hurt or offend u,let them know right away.If u sweep all of ur feelings under d rug,it will blow up.He/she will never know how u feel & d behaviour will continue.
Taking them for granted
In order to keep d glow of a relationship alive,seduction must be a long withstanding effort.So don’t fall into d trap of getting too comfortable too early on.For example:u stop going out on dates,u no longer care about ur appearance or u stop being attentive & affectionate.Falling into these bad practices may spell d end of ur relationship.
Saying “I Love You” Too Soon
These words r not to be thrown around carelessly.They must be used with an amount of frugality,otherwise they become meaningless.
Saying it too soon may scare d other person off.So wait until u know d other person really well & a solid base of trust has been established.Then,u'll both know that u really mean it.Feel free to add more! helo ma lady!...quiet agree wit u.
but s second nd fourth ones are a lil tricky
Stay blessed! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 11-05-2011 08:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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thx darlin | Posted: at 11-05-2011 08:10 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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