Is this a good idea or a bad one? (Page 2)

Date: 21-06-2011 3:18 pm (13 years ago) | Author: wummzy
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- Emmandazie at 21-06-2011 04:17 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: whitedove255 on 21-06-2011 03:56 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 21-06-2011 03:46 PM
23 is nt bad to settle down if he is matured, been matured dos nt mean u  hv to be 27 -35 years, but with wt u said abt him
he is still in school, still feeding frm his parents so hw will he cope with his wife
my advice is he shld first of all settle down with himself get through with school find a good job and bfore then he be more matured
if is d will of God for them to remain she will be their for him but i wnt advise him to keep the girl waiting by promising her marriage is nt advisable.







the guy is working..
Work=wealth
Wealth is not maturity but reasoning. How far is he able to reason as a man and swallow the caprices of a woman? Now they could be singing love cos they are not yet faced with a difficulty but if that occurs now,  that zeal to settle may be wiped off.
Posted: at 21-06-2011 04:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- manscater at 21-06-2011 04:24 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: whitedove255 on 21-06-2011 04:11 PM
Quote from: manscater on 21-06-2011 03:48 PM
Pls poster, is dis guy from french country. D reason is because over there, na sekwa sekwa all d way Grin Grin Grin.







nope...is from nigeria
Oki d oki, tell him 2 go ahead and get married b/4 d sun goes down.
Posted: at 21-06-2011 04:24 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- whitedove255 at 21-06-2011 05:14 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Sheree on 21-06-2011 04:06 PM
It is a good thing to meet someone you love and want to spend the rest of ur life with that person. The bible say, he that finds a woman/wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord. I think he should get all his priorities right. He is still in school, doesn't have a house and still lives with his parents. He shouldn't be too hasty. He should finish is education and I guess the girl should be in school too Huh? One step at a time, first thing first and others will follow with time.




you are right,thanks 4 ur contribution
Posted: at 21-06-2011 05:14 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MissyBarbie at 21-06-2011 05:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Posted: at 21-06-2011 05:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 21-06-2011 10:29 PM (13 years ago)
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A Man Should be Independent b4 he gets Married
Posted: at 21-06-2011 10:29 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 21-06-2011 10:49 PM (13 years ago)
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if i were him..i would make sure i am settle first..ave those things which i need before i settle down...or they can still got marriage and put a hold of having kids..
Posted: at 21-06-2011 10:49 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 10000bc at 21-06-2011 11:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Posted: at 21-06-2011 11:01 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- just2sexy at 21-06-2011 11:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Tell him no hurry in life.. Na small small dem dey take lick woman yansh..
Posted: at 21-06-2011 11:26 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- just2sexy at 21-06-2011 11:27 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: just2sexy on 21-06-2011 11:26 PM
Tell him no hurry in life.. Na sofri sofri dem dey take lick woman yansh..
Posted: at 21-06-2011 11:27 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- LOYOLAR at 22-06-2011 03:17 AM (13 years ago)
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A bad idea. He should not dabble into marriage all because of the so called love. If you rush in because you dey fear make they no snatch am from you, you go rush out chap-chap. The girl @19 is too young to settle down with you.
Posted: at 22-06-2011 03:17 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- slimben at 22-06-2011 08:57 AM (13 years ago)
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    Tell him to slow down  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 22-06-2011 08:57 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- whitedove255 at 22-06-2011 09:07 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on 21-06-2011 05:16 PM
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missybarbie why u dey roll ur eyes Huh?
Posted: at 22-06-2011 09:07 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- whitedove255 at 22-06-2011 09:57 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 21-06-2011 04:03 PM
Quote from: whitedove255 on 21-06-2011 03:56 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 21-06-2011 03:46 PM
23 is nt bad to settle down if he is matured, been matured dos nt mean u  hv to be 27 -35 years, but with wt u said abt him
he is still in school, still feeding frm his parents so hw will he cope with his wife
my advice is he shld first of all settle down with himself get through with school find a good job and bfore then he be more matured
if is d will of God for them to remain she will be their for him but i wnt advise him to keep the girl waiting by promising her marriage is nt advisable.

my dear marriage is nt smthing u rush into
their are lots of guys out their who hv d money but hv nt settled down nt dat dey dnt wnt to
they ar just taking their time nt to make mistake cos any mistake in marriage no mekwatalizim



good points chiglamour4u
Posted: at 22-06-2011 09:57 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 22-06-2011 10:59 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: whitedove255 on 22-06-2011 09:07 AM
Quote from: MissyBarbie on 21-06-2011 05:16 PM
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missybarbie why u dey roll ur eyes Huh?

hmmm  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 22-06-2011 10:59 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Mercies at 22-06-2011 11:14 AM (13 years ago)
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You have to slow down. If it is God's will then it will come to pass at the time that you both will not regret anything. Just be prayerful and let God lead. I will say you both have to cool down.
Posted: at 22-06-2011 11:14 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 50scent at 22-06-2011 11:25 AM (13 years ago)
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 Sad Sad Sad Sad hmm adviser
Posted: at 22-06-2011 11:25 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- whitedove255 at 22-06-2011 11:29 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 22-06-2011 10:59 AM
Quote from: whitedove255 on 22-06-2011 09:07 AM
Quote from: MissyBarbie on 21-06-2011 05:16 PM
Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
missybarbie why u dey roll ur eyes Huh?

hmmm  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked






50cent wetin shock u electric light no dey here now Cheesy
Posted: at 22-06-2011 11:29 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 22-06-2011 11:38 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: whitedove255 on 22-06-2011 11:29 AM
Quote from: 50scent on 22-06-2011 10:59 AM
Quote from: whitedove255 on 22-06-2011 09:07 AM
Quote from: MissyBarbie on 21-06-2011 05:16 PM
Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
missybarbie why u dey roll ur eyes Huh?
hmmm  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked


Glad i am the Minister of sexy ladies in here  Grin





50cent wetin shock u electric light no dey here now Cheesy
Posted: at 22-06-2011 11:38 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- harold634 at 22-06-2011 12:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Time will tell.
Posted: at 22-06-2011 12:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 22-06-2011 12:36 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: whitedove255 on 21-06-2011 03:18 PM
This is a true confession from a young guy that need your advice.


I will be 23years old on november 1st,have got a job you might call ''Good For Starters.''

Haven't got a degree yet,but in my 300 level in lasu studing Accounting.

Would say i am mature at heart and can handle human beings.

straight to the point...i have fallen inlove with a very Godly and beautiful young lady who's about nineteen years of age

I think as  a Godly person too i want to do the right thing:i want to settle down.

I want to start my life on time: wanna see my children come of age while am still young..but most especially because am in love

with a Girl that loves me,that can bear my me,and that appreciates me.but i don't have a car of my  own neither do i have a

house..infact i still live with my parent.


with the little you already know about him,do u think he should go ahead? What do u think of his plans? is this wise or not

if it is a bad idea please give reasons

Please pals no insult...thank u all

It's really more about if the girl has crossed the confused stage successfully. Truth is no matter how ready a guy is, if the girl isn't ready there will be problems.

You're young, take things easy and eventually all good things will fall into place.
Posted: at 22-06-2011 12:36 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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