Protect yourself in relationships

Date: 01-07-2011 4:20 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Myne Whitman
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- at 1-07-2011 04:20 PM (12 years ago)
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I read the news about a man who killed his wife, and was shocked. The report said that the man appeared mentally deranged, and I'm guessing he became unhinged while in a fracas with the wife. This is an issue we hear a lot of hear in America, where sociopaths and psychopaths kidnap, murder and dismember even babies and children. While it used not to be common in Nigeria, the more western the naija society becomes, the more prevalent such mental health issues may become.

Bad things happen in all relationships. The man could have been her father, brother, friend, boyfriend, colleague, etc. Women are generally - in naija as well as other countries - physically weaker, and therefore prone to be the victims of attacks or abuse, domestic or otherwise. We all heard of a senator that was slapped within the halls of the Nigerian national assembly. We should make ourselves strong, physically and mentally, so as to recognize and get out of potentially dangerous situations, or defend ourselves to the best of our ability.

This is about health and safety. Children are most times even more vulnerable than women. The report did not say anything about the daughter, and I hope she's OK.

My thoughts on Domestic Violence for both married and single(in a r/ship) women: Get out, Get therapy/help, and if necessary, Stay out. Divorce is an option.

May the woman's soul rest in peace.

Posted: at 1-07-2011 04:20 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
- xena15 at 1-07-2011 09:04 PM (12 years ago)
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Tanx. Nice writeup

Posted: at 1-07-2011 09:04 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wandepope at 1-07-2011 10:28 PM (12 years ago)
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its okay,its allowed just proeed with caution
Posted: at 1-07-2011 10:28 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- HOPEA23 at 1-07-2011 11:24 PM (12 years ago)
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Ok

Posted: at 1-07-2011 11:24 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xena15 at 2-07-2011 05:49 AM (12 years ago)
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Ok. Copied

Posted: at 2-07-2011 05:49 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- frayobkk at 2-07-2011 05:59 AM (12 years ago)
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Xena u too like NP
i notice that u wake up with NP and go to bed with NP lolz

Posted: at 2-07-2011 05:59 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Omilim at 2-07-2011 09:26 AM (12 years ago)
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Alright
Posted: at 2-07-2011 09:26 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- frayobkk at 3-07-2011 05:13 PM (12 years ago)
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thanks advicer have u protected urs

Posted: at 3-07-2011 05:13 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- slimben at 4-07-2011 10:02 PM (12 years ago)
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ok note
Posted: at 4-07-2011 10:02 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- diplomatik at 4-07-2011 11:02 PM (12 years ago)
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thanks poster  Cool Cool

Posted: at 4-07-2011 11:02 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- vivian07 at 5-07-2011 12:33 AM (12 years ago)
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passing with my shield, helmet and condom....for protection... poli do u have some ?
Posted: at 5-07-2011 12:33 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 5-07-2011 12:43 AM (12 years ago)
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Over Protection mood activated !

Posted: at 5-07-2011 12:43 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- diplomatik at 5-07-2011 02:00 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: vivian07 on  5-07-2011 12:33 AM
passing with my shield, helmet and condom....for protection... poli do u have some ?

my baby has enough for us  Tongue Tongue

Posted: at 5-07-2011 02:00 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 5-07-2011 02:15 PM (12 years ago)
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hi

Posted: at 5-07-2011 02:15 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- yukicares4u at 5-07-2011 02:31 PM (12 years ago)
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The best thing 2 do is to quickly walk away b4 the fight escalates..poster thx 4 ur tips Cheesy
Posted: at 5-07-2011 02:31 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MissyBarbie at 5-07-2011 02:33 PM (12 years ago)
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Hello
Posted: at 5-07-2011 02:33 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 5-07-2011 02:41 PM (12 years ago)
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hi

Posted: at 5-07-2011 02:41 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- vivian07 at 6-07-2011 12:23 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: diplomatik on  5-07-2011 02:00 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on  5-07-2011 12:33 AM
passing with my shield, helmet and condom....for protection... poli do u have some ?

my baby has enough for us  Tongue Tongue
u mean ur stand by... guy ? u better stop decieving the guy and tell him about ur kids   Lips Sealed Cheesy
Posted: at 6-07-2011 12:23 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 6-07-2011 01:42 PM (12 years ago)
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Cheesy

Posted: at 6-07-2011 01:42 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 6-07-2011 02:12 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: vivian07 on  6-07-2011 12:23 PM
Quote from: diplomatik on  5-07-2011 02:00 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on  5-07-2011 12:33 AM
passing with my shield, helmet and condom....for protection... poli do u have some ?

my baby has enough for us  Tongue Tongue
u mean ur stand by... guy ? u better stop decieving the guy and tell him about ur kids   Lips Sealed Cheesy

 Grin Shocked

Posted: at 6-07-2011 02:12 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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