![-]( "Skypon2002") Skypon2002 at 6-07-2011 07:27 PM (12 years ago)  (m) Please ladies and guys tell me whats the benefit of having a girlfriend, wat is the guy gaining from the relationship or you, this is how most relationships go in naija, 1. You call the girl everyday, she does not call you back, highest she flashes you, then if you dont call you are not caring. 2. Because you tell her you love her, you immediately carry all her burden, buying her this and that, you change her wardrobe, make her hair etc, when u self have a lot of burden on your head, and if u dont do it, you are not caring, or u dont love her, and she does not spend her money on you.  3. When it comes to Being Intimate, then she start preaching, that she is not ready, she wants to wait till she is married, or its against Gods law, or they ask you whether your luv for them is based on sex, that you dont luv them for demanding sex from them. 4. Then after managing you for some time, she dumps you and moves to another guy, or she simply play games at your back. So please tell me, wats the benefit. If i spend all this time and money wit my guys, during my trying period they will be there for me. The best thing is wait till you are married then officially her responsibilities are yours, then u would know your investment is secured. ur first two points are quite reasonable but i dnt quite agree wif the odas!!! though the natural/common nigerian lady needs to learn how to spend/cater,care and xpress her love for her guy with the little she has!! concerning handling responsibilities, i fink we guyz caused it and nw dey r use to guyz takin responsibility their parents cant carry and even more!! we nid to address dat ourselves cause if one guy does, den the oda guyz might not hav much choice!!! note!!! spending for ur girlfriend of lover should not be seen as an investment but a way of showing care
but they are not reciprocating either..... bros, think am well well, u go understand wetin i dey talk
na only very few wey know wetin ee mean to share luv..... 
Am absolutely so made of what i cannot actually decode | Posted: at 6-07-2011 07:27 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Skypon2002") Skypon2002 at 6-07-2011 07:28 PM (12 years ago) (m) Na only God go help young people for Naija concerning this relationship issue
AMEN.........especially LADIES
Am absolutely so made of what i cannot actually decode | Posted: at 6-07-2011 07:28 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Skypon2002") Skypon2002 at 6-07-2011 07:30 PM (12 years ago) (m) to luv nobi by force.make u stop if e do u
ee be like say na wetin we (boys) go do.... so that if we no toast them the babes, them go cry well well..........
Am absolutely so made of what i cannot actually decode | Posted: at 6-07-2011 07:30 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Skypon2002") Skypon2002 at 6-07-2011 07:31 PM (12 years ago) (m) @poster, you said it all, truly there is no benefit.
thank you jare.....
Am absolutely so made of what i cannot actually decode | Posted: at 6-07-2011 07:31 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "rayspeed") rayspeed at 6-07-2011 08:54 PM (12 years ago) (m) comot ur lag make i no match em   hehehehhehe no tell ram jare, match ram comot 4 road
I AM COOLER THAN....... SOWRI I AM HOTTER THAN FIRE!!! | Posted: at 6-07-2011 08:54 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 6-07-2011 09:18 PM (12 years ago) (f) thnx swity 
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 6-07-2011 09:18 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Skypon2002") Skypon2002 at 6-07-2011 09:41 PM (12 years ago) (m) to kiss no dey hard una, but na una go still dey phyuk up @rayspeed, make ur head there there oooooo b4 dem go pangolo u 
Am absolutely so made of what i cannot actually decode | Posted: at 6-07-2011 09:41 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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i ll pass
this is meczy.u shd always expect the .... | Posted: at 6-07-2011 11:14 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Skypon2002") Skypon2002 at 7-07-2011 12:21 AM (12 years ago) (m) dont forget to shut the door behind you
Am absolutely so made of what i cannot actually decode | Posted: at 7-07-2011 12:21 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "jeffrey4u") jeffrey4u at 7-07-2011 12:40 AM (12 years ago) (m) for good company | Posted: at 7-07-2011 12:40 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Skypon2002") Skypon2002 at 7-07-2011 12:50 AM (12 years ago) (m) which company? NNPC company abi PHCN company? 
Am absolutely so made of what i cannot actually decode | Posted: at 7-07-2011 12:50 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Jecon") Jecon at 7-07-2011 01:04 AM (12 years ago) (m) Gone are the days when is was dreaming, I dreamth dreams that never came true (imagine dreaming that the first girl you'll meet will eventually become your wife, and tried, neath on your kneels even when you were wronged to keep the relationship alive- only to be taken as a fool because you cared so much ), when dem come show me peper, Na im realize say i never start sleep talkless of dream. I don't do rubbish like keeping one particular girl as a girl friend any more (in fact i don't have a gf), Na Carry i dey carry girls, those wey gree, i carry-if you no gree, bye bye. Keeping a gf is tantamount to cheating one' self because she will still be ridding on another cock. If na money she ask for, if get i give am- i run my show (provided you know am not your bf). If i don ready i go find girl marry, if after marriage, she fck up - i go drive am comot. It'll take an angel of a girl to change my position. I no fit shout! | Posted: at 7-07-2011 01:04 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 7-07-2011 02:21 AM (12 years ago) (f) i done hear
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either  , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool | Posted: at 7-07-2011 02:21 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Waoooooooo, what a topic ? The fact remains that not all ladies are bad, but the percentage of the bad ones are overwhelming, Due to my past experience, i dont really believe in the word called love. most of the ladies you meet oyt there now adays are hungry bitches looking for who to suck . More that 9 months i broke up with my so call Gf, I now have peace of mind, I save more money than I used to. I now see that I have been wasting my life on a particular that does not what it. My advice to you guys out there, Try to stay lonely, you will spend less, your savings will surely increase drastically ........... Give it a try & see yoursef ... | Posted: at 7-07-2011 10:57 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Peter_Ade") Peter_Ade at 7-07-2011 12:24 PM (12 years ago) (m) I wonder if there is still relationship anymore. If u try to be good in a relationship, u ll be taking for a mumumic fool. So Y being a fool? | Posted: at 7-07-2011 12:24 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Peter_Ade") Peter_Ade at 7-07-2011 12:24 PM (12 years ago) (m) I wonder if there is still relationship anymore. If u try to be good in a relationship, u ll be taking for a mumumic fool. So Y being a fool? | Posted: at 7-07-2011 12:24 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Peter_Ade") Peter_Ade at 7-07-2011 12:24 PM (12 years ago) (m) I wonder if there is still relationship anymore. If u try to be good in a relationship, u ll be taking for a mumumic fool. So Y being a fool? | Posted: at 7-07-2011 12:24 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Bazemaster") Bazemaster at 7-07-2011 02:53 PM (12 years ago) (m) no benefit
I report from ma BAZEHOOD, niggaz feeling ma BAZESWAG 'cos it's hooded like my nigga HOODEDSWAG coming from BAZESQUAD in da BAZESTUDIOS UNITED.... I AM BAZEMASTER | Posted: at 7-07-2011 02:53 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Smarrt") Smarrt at 7-07-2011 03:13 PM (12 years ago) (m) wen u ask a garl awt..u've issued ha cert2 scholarshipzzzzzzzzzz.....................bt ma garl spendz sha | Posted: at 7-07-2011 03:13 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "prof96") prof96 at 7-07-2011 04:27 PM (12 years ago) (m) Na so one come say no she had vowed 'no sex' till afta marriage buh 4get 2 include in d vow no shopping and making of demands buh wen d guy come say he too had vowed no ' no any form of spending' till afta marriage, she accuse d guy of not caring. Me i just tire for dem | Posted: at 7-07-2011 04:27 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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