macgreat at 7-07-2011 05:38 PM (12 years ago) (m) @sopiebaby, hope them dey handle ham well, if not make i come helep them.
My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time Posted: at 7-07-2011 05:38 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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wallas at 7-07-2011 05:39 PM (12 years ago) (m) u don contact na Posted: at 7-07-2011 05:39 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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50scent at 7-07-2011 05:40 PM (12 years ago) (m) Jukkiebukwes ojigbi jigbi jigbi jigbi I pity u , May be u dont know I'm the Minister for Women Affairs... Dont dare ME this WOMAN
RELATIONSHIP & ROMANCE FORUM; MINISTER FOR WOMEN AFFAIRS WELCOMES YOU Posted: at 7-07-2011 05:40 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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sophiebaby at 7-07-2011 05:47 PM (12 years ago) (f) mehnnnnnnnnnn come helep them abeg
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 7-07-2011 05:47 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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naijainct at 7-07-2011 05:52 PM (12 years ago) (m) You probably got all the advice you seek from folks here however, I'd like to put my 2cents. It wasn't exactly deceit considering that you didn't think to ask him when you first met but that's not to say that he shouldn't have told you all these while. That said, if you care about this guy and can also sense that he cares about you, why let little omission like that affect what could become a great relationship? Also, being a single dad of a 4 years old, I personally appreciate your man (if i can call him that) predicament considering the close-mindedness of us Nigerians. I know it's frowned upon in our culture for a single man or woman who has never been married to want to be with a partner who was divorced and has a child. That being the case Nigerians in diaspora are in a big predicament of finding a partner and as such we might chose to omit little information like....having a child or two and been married before. He lives in US, Los Angeles to be precise. we've been communicating 4 over a year now though we havent seen each other and he's talking about marriage. i didnt really put my heart into it coz of d stories i hv heard about abroad guys but i played along coz i felt he may be different, and he was beginning to tk "us" serious and has even suggested that i come 4 vacation (ofcourse he wud sponsor it).He's really a nice person. yesterday, i decided to ask him if he's been married and has a kid(s) (i dont know y it never occured to me to ask him all these while till now). initially, he kept dilly-dallying, didnt give me a straight answer, kept saying that he had an ill-fated r/s... i probed further, he then accepted that he's been married (divorced)and has a son. i now asked him y didnt he tell me from the start, he said he planned to tell me one-on-one when he comes back (this December). he has been apologizing ever since and still wants "us" to continue.
i felt bad and feel so deceived, i dont know if i can be able to trust him again. if he cud withold such vital info abt himself 4rm me, i wonder wat mor he may b hiding.
What do u tink peeps???
Posted: at 7-07-2011 05:52 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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sophiebaby at 7-07-2011 05:58 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 7-07-2011 05:58 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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50scent at 7-07-2011 06:10 PM (12 years ago) (m)
RELATIONSHIP & ROMANCE FORUM; MINISTER FOR WOMEN AFFAIRS WELCOMES YOU Posted: at 7-07-2011 06:10 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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sobeit at 7-07-2011 06:42 PM (12 years ago) (m) ......dunno wat to believe no more....jus saw a thread bout u bout to break up wit ur man...................this feels lyk uv been cheating on de other dude...........got nuthn to say mehn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!....................
u r really observant .let her keep deceiving herself!!! cheatin on a man am yet to see? :owell, dats how u see it but am sure . am real, i dont pretend so i have a bf coz am sure d man dey catch him fum too where him dey. una don talk like say una be holy Nweje! hypocrisy! let him who is without blame cast d first stone, mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww the truth they say it hurts!for ur info. i'm not holy either,but there is always a difference between reality and fiction. Posted: at 7-07-2011 06:42 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Sobeit...whr did u spring out from? Posted: at 7-07-2011 06:48 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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50scent at 7-07-2011 07:20 PM (12 years ago) (m) Reply |
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kebella at 8-07-2011 10:25 AM (12 years ago) (f) morning
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 8-07-2011 10:25 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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frayobkk at 8-07-2011 10:26 AM (12 years ago) (m) who is disapointing who
Jesus replied, "What is impossible with men is possible with God." Luke 18:27 Posted: at 8-07-2011 10:26 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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wallas at 8-07-2011 10:31 AM (12 years ago) (m) we dey quarrel? Posted: at 8-07-2011 10:31 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kebella at 8-07-2011 10:32 AM (12 years ago) (f) no sweety howdy
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 8-07-2011 10:32 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Passing Posted: at 8-07-2011 10:33 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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You probably got all the advice you seek from folks here however, I'd like to put my 2cents. It wasn't exactly deceit considering that you didn't think to ask him when you first met but that's not to say that he shouldn't have told you all these while. That said, if you care about this guy and can also sense that he cares about you, why let little omission like that affect what could become a great relationship? Also, being a single dad of a 4 years old, I personally appreciate your man (if i can call him that) predicament considering the close-mindedness of us Nigerians. I know it's frowned upon in our culture for a single man or woman who has never been married to want to be with a partner who was divorced and has a child. That being the case Nigerians in diaspora are in a big predicament of finding a partner and as such we might chose to omit little information like....having a child or two and been married before. He lives in US, Los Angeles to be precise. we've been communicating 4 over a year now though we havent seen each other and he's talking about marriage. i didnt really put my heart into it coz of d stories i hv heard about abroad guys but i played along coz i felt he may be different, and he was beginning to tk "us" serious and has even suggested that i come 4 vacation (ofcourse he wud sponsor it).He's really a nice person. yesterday, i decided to ask him if he's been married and has a kid(s) (i dont know y it never occured to me to ask him all these while till now). initially, he kept dilly-dallying, didnt give me a straight answer, kept saying that he had an ill-fated r/s... i probed further, he then accepted that he's been married (divorced)and has a son. i now asked him y didnt he tell me from the start, he said he planned to tell me one-on-one when he comes back (this December). he has been apologizing ever since and still wants "us" to continue.
i felt bad and feel so deceived, i dont know if i can be able to trust him again. if he cud withold such vital info abt himself 4rm me, i wonder wat mor he may b hiding.
What do u tink peeps???
i have noting against him being married and has a son. who is disapointing who
50 is disappionting... gud morning, how was ur night? Posted: at 8-07-2011 10:34 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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50scent at 8-07-2011 10:50 AM (12 years ago) (m) no sweety howdy What sweety what where howdy??? Woman have warn u and ya concubines
RELATIONSHIP & ROMANCE FORUM; MINISTER FOR WOMEN AFFAIRS WELCOMES YOU Posted: at 8-07-2011 10:50 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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wallas at 8-07-2011 11:15 AM (12 years ago) (m) no sweety howdy am dng super gr8 nw u diggin? Posted: at 8-07-2011 11:15 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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50scent at 8-07-2011 11:42 AM (12 years ago) (m) Reply |