what would you possibly do if your 15yr old girl friend is pregnant? (Page 4)

Quote from: 21Becca21 on 17-02-2008 05:17 PM

send her to a convent

send her to convent??.......i dont think that is the right answer... both families are still preoccupied on how to trade blames for their childrens misadventure and convent is the last place that will come to their mind

Posted: at 17-02-2008 05:44 PM (17 years ago) | Upcoming

let the family fight for superiority and who is to blame

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Posted: at 18-02-2008 09:46 AM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac

fight on who is to give the baby a name......

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Posted: at 18-02-2008 01:01 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero

ok,its a very heavy work,2 me i will let b a amother,not bcoz i distroy her life,bcoz i protect her 4rom two tings.[1]i dont want her 2 kno wat abortion is ,[2]i dont want her 2bcom a distroyer...........

Posted: at 23-02-2008 10:17 AM (17 years ago) | Newbie

to be pregnant at 15 is a very difficult situation.....especially if she is still immature.....it comes with a lot of responsibilities....

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Posted: at 24-02-2008 01:51 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero

does that help,Danny...?

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Posted: at 11-06-2008 08:05 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Ironically me aunt and uncle has dealt (is dealing with the same exact thing). My cousin, their daughter (now 17), was 15 when she got pregnant. When they heard she was about 3 months along but she had no clue she was pregnant herself. So she told her sister first then about a month later she told her parents. Of course they were shocked and hurt and disappointed. They threw her out of the house. Which I honestly couldn’t blame them.  So she move in with her sister. They went through a lot, trying to meet the boy’s (now 19) family and trying to figure out his plans for the future and baby. At around 6 months she moved in with the boyfriend and his mother. My aunt (her mother) decided the best thing was for her to come home but my uncle (her father) was not for it. She had the baby (both her mother and sister was there). Everything was as calm as it can be under that situation. Then she was kicked out the boyfriend’s house because all they did was fight and it was getting on the boyfriend’s mother’s nerve. She moved back home with her parents and it has been hard for her. Her parents let her know that the baby is her responsibility. She has to pay for daycare, find ways to pick up and drop off the child at day care. Her mother helps out at times but it’s her sole responsibility. I don’t blame them for the way they are dealing with this. If she was old enough and mature enough to have sex, she should have been just has mature to use a condom.  I will make her grow up. Let her know that her life is over; because what she does now not only affect her but affects her baby. No friends, going out, etc. It’s time for you to be an adult. 

It's sad; I can not give advice on whether or not she should get an abortion. That's between her and God. It's sad that she would make an adult decision to have sex but not be mature enough (financially, emotional and physically) to deal with the adult consequences. I feel so sorry for people in situations like this and thanked God that I knew that at 14,15, 16 even 17, I knew I was not mature enough to handle sex and all the repercussions that came with it. I was mature enough not to have sex.   

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Posted: at 13-06-2008 12:27 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

hmmmmmmm

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Posted: at 9-11-2009 10:55 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

d world is comin 2 an end oh...

Posted: at 10-11-2009 12:33 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

are you surprise? don't no nutihing

Posted: at 10-11-2009 12:08 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming