12 Attributes Of A Good Man

Date: 19-09-2011 5:15 pm (9 years ago) | Author: Ibe Daniel Okereke
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Here are 12 signs the man you’ve found is a real man. It’s up to you what you do with him after you find him.






1. Are first and foremost, gentlemen.
They are polite, respectful, considerate and attentive to a woman’s needs. They open the door, pull her chair, lend their coat, offer to escort her home, pay for the dinner and kiss her goodbye on the cheek not on the lips. Good guys never cross the line of being inappropriate.

2. Are not intimidated by strong women.Good guys are not threatened by women who speak their minds, have different opinions, show passion or the causes they believe in or perhaps, earn more money than them. They see strong women as a gift to society because they are the ones who have the power to change things for the better.

3. He’s Patient–A real man won’t try to force you to be with him. He’ll try to impress you and convince you that he’s worth your time, but he won’t force you to do anything. If you find a real man you won’t have to worry about unwanted groping, date violation, or worse. He’ll take the time to get to know you and take things at a speed you’re comfortable with.A real man will wait for you to open your arms to him. Good guys are humble guys. They don’t need to beat themselves in the chest to show they are better, stronger, smarter, more successful or more handsome than other men. The ego is the enemy of good guys and they usually have it under control.

4. Are supportive to woman’s personal and career goals.
They understand the importance of individual growth outside the relationship realm. Good guys see their woman’s success as their own success. Therefore, they prefer to encourage her to move forward as opposed to oppress her desires for expansion.

5. Write cards, send text messages, buy flowers and cook dinners for a woman as an act of thoughtfulness. Good guys don’t need an occasion to express their love. They just do it spontaneously. See their woman as the most beautiful, glorious, magnificent and unique woman in the entire Universe! Other beautiful women may catch a good guy’s eye but his heart and soul belong to her!

6. Keep their word. If they promised to call, stop by, take you out or do anything else, they stick to their promise.
If they are unable to fulfill their promise, good guys have a sensible explanation…not a lame excuse.

7. Are not jealous. Good guys don’t require for a woman to check with them every single hour, to give them detailed reports on who she’s speaking to on the phone, to document every one of her activities or to follow everywhere she goes. They are secure enough in themselves to need a constant reaffirmation of the status of their relationship.

8. He’s Flexible –A real man might not be able to touch his own toes, let alone bend into a human pretzel. But he will be able to sleep on concrete, wear the same clothes for days, and survive for indefinite periods of time in beer and ramen noodles. Any man who says he couldn’t survive under the same conditions is either lying to appeal to your fair nose or is hiding a sex change. If he’s being real with you, he’ll admit to his, um, flexibility when it comes to lifestyle options. How is this good for you? A real man’s flexibility means he’ll be able to take your ups and downs, curves and flats, and wild ideas in stride. If a real man loves you, he’ll flex to you. That’s huge.

9. Are in touch with their romantic side. They are not afraid to express their emotions, talk about their feelings, show their interest and do it in the most romantic ways possible. Good guys can make a woman’s heart melt from miles away just by opening their romantic side and letting the love flow. Make love to a woman’s soul at the same time as her body. Merging with her soul is their ultimate goal…not just a mere heavenly feeling.

10. Have achieved a balance in their lives on their own.Good guys have invested enough time in all aspects in their development – family, education, career, health, hobbies, interests and sports. They are happy with who they are and are satisfied with their lives.

11. Will find time and place for you no matter how busy and crazy their schedule may be.Good guys never use the excuse, “Sorry, but I was busy with work.” If they want to be with you, they will move mountains, sail oceans, cross continents, fly countries and do anything they can to be with their special woman.

12. Don’t use past relationship disappointments as excuses to why they don’t want to commit to a woman. What happened in the past, stays there. What’s important is the here and the now…and that is YOU!

Posted: at 19-09-2011 05:15 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
- divineproject at 19-09-2011 05:31 PM (9 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmmmm, gets me thinking>>>>>>>>>thanks poster

Posted: at 19-09-2011 05:31 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- jossy4reall at 19-09-2011 07:06 PM (9 years ago)
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Dis must be d same hw to make a woman happy wit a reverse subject................anywayz am in d middle of ma sleep .........I will read when I wake up

Posted: at 19-09-2011 07:06 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- Beco4real at 20-09-2011 01:50 AM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 19-09-2011 05:31 PM
hmmmmmmmmmmm, gets me thinking>>>>>>>>>thanks poster

Thanks Divine,that is the hallmark of a sweet man.
Posted: at 20-09-2011 01:50 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- giftmurphy at 20-09-2011 11:51 AM (9 years ago)
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my guy has all this attribute..,makin me thinkin of him already....thanks poster take this....... Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss
Posted: at 20-09-2011 11:51 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- Beco4real at 20-09-2011 12:54 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 20-09-2011 11:51 AM
my guy has all this attribute..,makin me thinkin of him already....thanks poster take this....... Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss
Uhmmmmmmmmmm,with that kiss,i will jump in love soon with...................
Posted: at 20-09-2011 12:54 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- giftmurphy at 20-09-2011 01:07 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: Beco4real on 20-09-2011 12:54 PM
Quote from: giftmurphy on 20-09-2011 11:51 AM
my guy has all this attribute..,makin me thinkin of him already....thanks poster take this....... Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss
Uhmmmmmmmmmm,with that kiss,i will jump in love soon with...................
with who?my guy? Smiley
Posted: at 20-09-2011 01:07 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 20-09-2011 01:09 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 20-09-2011 11:51 AM
my guy has all this attribute..,makin me thinkin of him already....thanks poster take this....... Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss

Hmmmmmmm
Posted: at 20-09-2011 01:09 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 20-09-2011 01:20 PM (9 years ago)
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poster i feel yu Cool Cool

Posted: at 20-09-2011 01:20 PM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- happinee at 20-09-2011 01:37 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 19-09-2011 05:31 PM
hmmmmmmmmmmm, gets me thinking>>>>>>>>>thanks poster

my sweetheart got all this qualities,no kidding.im definitely on the right track...........
Posted: at 20-09-2011 01:37 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kebella at 20-09-2011 01:41 PM (9 years ago)
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lucky yu Cool

Posted: at 20-09-2011 01:41 PM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- happinee at 20-09-2011 01:51 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 20-09-2011 01:41 PM
lucky yu Cool

you can say that again
Posted: at 20-09-2011 01:51 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xena15 at 20-09-2011 01:54 PM (9 years ago)
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Huh?

Posted: at 20-09-2011 01:54 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Beco4real at 20-09-2011 04:33 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 20-09-2011 01:07 PM
Quote from: Beco4real on 20-09-2011 12:54 PM
Quote from: giftmurphy on 20-09-2011 11:51 AM
my guy has all this attribute..,makin me thinkin of him already....thanks poster take this....... Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss
Uhmmmmmmmmmm,with that kiss,i will jump in love soon with...................
with who?my guy? Smiley

With her.................... Huh? Grin Kiss
Posted: at 20-09-2011 04:33 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Beco4real at 20-09-2011 04:34 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 20-09-2011 01:20 PM
poster i feel yu Cool Cool

Hmmmmmmmmmm,where you feel me reach? Huh?
Posted: at 20-09-2011 04:34 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- divineproject at 20-09-2011 05:17 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: happinee on 20-09-2011 01:37 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 19-09-2011 05:31 PM
hmmmmmmmmmmm, gets me thinking>>>>>>>>>thanks poster

my sweetheart got all this qualities,no kidding.im definitely on the right track...........

You are lucky then..........

Posted: at 20-09-2011 05:17 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- giftmurphy at 20-09-2011 06:08 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on 20-09-2011 01:09 PM
Quote from: giftmurphy on 20-09-2011 11:51 AM
my guy has all this attribute..,makin me thinkin of him already....thanks poster take this....... Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss

Hmmmmmmm
yh baby.......
Posted: at 20-09-2011 06:08 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- ogunfunmi at 20-09-2011 08:02 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: Beco4real on 19-09-2011 05:15 PM
Here are 12 signs the man you’ve found is a real man. It’s up to you what you do with him after you find him.

1. Are first and foremost, gentlemen.They are polite, respectful, considerate and attentive to a woman’s needs. They open the door, pull her chair, lend their coat, offer to escort her home, pay for the dinner and kiss her goodbye on the cheek not on the lips. Good guys never cross the line of being inappropriate.

2. Are not intimidated by strong women.Good guys are not threatened by women who speak their minds, have different opinions, show passion or the causes they believe in or perhaps, earn more money than them. They see strong women as a gift to society because they are the ones who have the power to change things for the better.

3. He’s Patient–A real man won’t try to force you to be with him. He’ll try to impress you and convince you that he’s worth your time, but he won’t force you to do anything. If you find a real man you won’t have to worry about unwanted groping, date violation, or worse. He’ll take the time to get to know you and take things at a speed you’re comfortable with.A real man will wait for you to open your arms to him. Good guys are humble guys. They don’t need to beat themselves in the chest to show they are better, stronger, smarter, more successful or more handsome than other men. The ego is the enemy of good guys and they usually have it under control.

4. Are supportive to woman’s personal and career goals.They understand the importance of individual growth outside the relationship realm. Good guys see their woman’s success as their own success. Therefore, they prefer to encourage her to move forward as opposed to oppress her desires for expansion.

5. Write cards, send text messages, buy flowers and cook dinners for a woman as an act of thoughtfulness. Good guys don’t need an occasion to express their love. They just do it spontaneously. See their woman as the most beautiful, glorious, magnificent and unique woman in the entire Universe! Other beautiful women may catch a good guy’s eye but his heart and soul belong to her!

6. Keep their word. If they promised to call, stop by, take you out or do anything else, they stick to their promise. If they are unable to fulfill their promise, good guys have a sensible explanation…not a lame excuse.

7. Are not jealous. Good guys don’t require for a woman to check with them every single hour, to give them detailed reports on who she’s speaking to on the phone, to document every one of her activities or to follow everywhere she goes. They are secure enough in themselves to need a constant reaffirmation of the status of their relationship.

8. He’s Flexible –A real man might not be able to touch his own toes, let alone bend into a human pretzel. But he will be able to sleep on concrete, wear the same clothes for days, and survive for indefinite periods of time in beer and ramen noodles. Any man who says he couldn’t survive under the same conditions is either lying to appeal to your fair nose or is hiding a sex change. If he’s being real with you, he’ll admit to his, um, flexibility when it comes to lifestyle options. How is this good for you? A real man’s flexibility means he’ll be able to take your ups and downs, curves and flats, and wild ideas in stride. If a real man loves you, he’ll flex to you. That’s huge.

9. Are in touch with their romantic side. They are not afraid to express their emotions, talk about their feelings, show their interest and do it in the most romantic ways possible. Good guys can make a woman’s heart melt from miles away just by opening their romantic side and letting the love flow. Make love to a woman’s soul at the same time as her body. Merging with her soul is their ultimate goal…not just a mere heavenly feeling.

10. Have achieved a balance in their lives on their own.Good guys have invested enough time in all aspects in their development – family, education, career, health, hobbies, interests and sports. They are happy with who they are and are satisfied with their lives.

11. Will find time and place for you no matter how busy and crazy their schedule may be.Good guys never use the excuse, “Sorry, but I was busy with work.” If they want to be with you, they will move mountains, sail oceans, cross continents, fly countries and do anything they can to be with their special woman.

12. Don’t use past relationship disappointments as excuses to why they don’t want to commit to a woman. What happened in the past, stays there. What’s important is the here and the now…and that is YOU!

really
Posted: at 20-09-2011 08:02 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jossy4reall at 20-09-2011 08:23 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 20-09-2011 11:51 AM
my guy has all this attribute..,makin me thinkin of him already....thanks poster take this....... Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss

Thank u for believing in ma dream

Posted: at 20-09-2011 08:23 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 20-09-2011 09:11 PM (9 years ago)
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 Huh? Lips Sealed

Posted: at 20-09-2011 09:11 PM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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