Una see me trouble oh! I enrolled my 15yr old boy into a boarding school. The guy is indeed stubborn-that's way I enrolled him there! Spending only three months there and coming home, my wife cries the boy has cut down in weight and that her boy will not go to the dormitory again. She claims the boy is being punished unneccesarily. He must go is my stand. Now the family is divided- the boy buying his mother's stand but I am adamant! My wife even told me this could lead to a divorce if I insist. Now many things are coming up. I am becoming to suspect this boy may not be mine. I am becoming to suspect this woman hadn't any intention to marry me. Should I submit or stand my ground? Help me please!
Posted: at 21-09-2011 02:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Marriage don suffer! Every lil wahala na divorce! Chei! Anyway,me i no knw hw Emmandazie take get 15yr old pikin,so yes,no be ur pikin! No tell ur wife say na me talk am o!
Dis one na husband and wife matter,i no fit put mouth.
D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u!
Posted: at 21-09-2011 05:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 21-09-2011 05:54 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Na truly marriage don suffer..........small thing una mind go run go divorce.........all these things dey make some of us wey never marry to fear to marry self..........Really I get worried by such issues.......I really hate the word divorce, i believe in sticking it out, divorce not in my dictionary at all..haba
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Posted: at 21-09-2011 05:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Emmandazie at 21-09-2011 06:05 PM (13 years ago) (m)
@xena, the pikin be ma own oh! You no put mouth leave make she kill ur pal? Pls tell me what to do, either I allow the boy to spoil or stay firm for the child to get decent education and learn how to work for himself in the dormitory. Tell me if ma wif is only playing one of those ur women's tricks.
Posted: at 21-09-2011 06:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Emmandazie at 21-09-2011 06:10 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: 1daful on 21-09-2011 06:07 PM
Take your stand and see what happens, is the boy not ur son as well.
He is oh ma sista, I no only understand why his mama di give me headache. She feel say I no get heart and like 2 see the boy suffer whereas I know that I want him to learn how to defend himself in society. At home she pampers him!
Posted: at 21-09-2011 06:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
@xena, the pikin be ma own oh! You no put mouth leave make she kill ur pal? Pls tell me what to do, either I allow the boy to spoil or stay firm for the child to get decent education and learn how to work for himself in the dormitory. Tell me if ma wif is only playing one of those ur women's tricks.
oh,so u knw sef say na ur pikin,why u come dey doubt na?
D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u!
Posted: at 21-09-2011 06:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
maryclaret at 21-09-2011 07:23 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Geez, she wants to divorce you just because of that? You guys have to still talk about it more. I don't know about this boarding school trainign though. Boarding school will not train your child for you. You have to be the one to raise him in the manner you want. I don't like Nigerians, especially aborad sending their kids back home, as if Nigeria itself will do all the work.....Back to the family issue, it's really something u and ure wife must stick out. It's not that serious that divorce will come in haba.
Ada Mbaise
Posted: at 21-09-2011 07:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
wandepope at 22-09-2011 12:02 AM (13 years ago) (m)
poster the good attributes your child gets from outside your custody will never be attributed to you,,,besides the boy is a teenager and this is the TRANSITION stage between childhood and adulthood,if you love your son and you wantto save your family name better keep him in your house because not all teenamgers can withstand peer pressure and segxwal tension in the wrong enviroment....you just said he is stubborn and i consider that normal for adolescents.i could go on and on with reasons why your boy shouldnt be in boarding school but the reason yourwife gave i personally dont subscribe fully to it......i even doubt if you would read this at all.
Posted: at 22-09-2011 12:02 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Una see me trouble oh! I enrolled my 15yr old boy into a boarding school. The guy is indeed stubborn-that's way I enrolled him there! Spending only three months there and coming home, my wife cries the boy has cut down in weight and that her boy will not go to the dormitory again. She claims the boy is being punished unneccesarily. He must go is my stand. Now the family is divided- the boy buying his mother's stand but I am adamant! My wife even told me this could lead to a divorce if I insist. Now many things are coming up. I am becoming to suspect this boy may not be mine. I am becoming to suspect this woman hadn't any intention to marry me. Should I submit or stand my ground? Help me please!
The pikin resemble your friend?
Posted: at 22-09-2011 12:24 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
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