Are you maritally obliged ? (Page 9)

Date: 21-10-2011 11:26 am (12 years ago) | Author: Onyinyechi Miracle
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- sophiebaby at 21-10-2011 02:01 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 21-10-2011 01:45 PM
Quote from: yukicares4u on 21-10-2011 01:37 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 21-10-2011 01:30 PM
Ok......as her majesties have prevailed on me, I will give my take on this:

Firstly, my bible tells me that my body belongs to my husband and his belongs to me.  The bible frowns at denial...........but if this can not be avoided, it is good to explain to the other party in a way he/she would understand...........I would want to believe that couples are not always in the mood for bedmatics, therefore one partner should understand the other's desire to be left alone sometimes..........If I am not in the mood for roffo-roffo fight, I would let him know and I EXPECT him to understand because I would understand when he also turns me down......but if he goes ahead to have his way without my consent, I would consider it rape........becos rape is basically sex without the consent of one of the parties...........and Yes, I believe one can be RAPED, marriage or no marriage!
OK... FORCEFULLY WITHOUT UR CONSENT...NA RAPE....hahahaha i feel u Grin Grin Grin anywaz like i said b4 no responsible man will force himself on his wife. She's urs...if she doesnt give it to u now...she can alwaz give it to u later Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

You think it is every married man that is responsible?............even self, you think it is everybody on trousers with a flat chest claiming to be man that is a real man? Wink

 Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss gbam

Posted: at 21-10-2011 02:01 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 21-10-2011 02:06 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 21-10-2011 01:21 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 21-10-2011 11:26 AM
I was talking to a friend on phone the other day and she asked :

 What is your thought about this, is it rape if your married and you say no to your husband but he continues?
Do you feel once your married your obliged to give it up whenever he wants it?

What do u think pals ?

hmmmmmm yes to avoid him sleeping around but sometimes if u are not in a good mood, explain to him in a way he will understand

 Cheesy

Posted: at 21-10-2011 02:06 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyiis at 21-10-2011 02:09 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: yukicares4u on 21-10-2011 01:16 PM
Hw many of u can actually come out n tell us ur hubby rapes U smtimes?

What if he said NO and it was u who forced urself on him? what wud u also call that? i bet u wont call it rape abi?...then that will amount to double-standard

thinking and checking if mine rapes me sometimes  Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 21-10-2011 02:09 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 21-10-2011 02:11 PM (12 years ago)
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heheheheheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee !! this topic is getting really hot !!!

Posted: at 21-10-2011 02:11 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 21-10-2011 02:12 PM (12 years ago)
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no be wetin yu want Tongue

Posted: at 21-10-2011 02:12 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyiis at 21-10-2011 02:14 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: yukicares4u on 21-10-2011 01:48 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 21-10-2011 01:45 PM
Quote from: yukicares4u on 21-10-2011 01:37 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 21-10-2011 01:30 PM
Ok......as her majesties have prevailed on me, I will give my take on this:

Firstly, my bible tells me that my body belongs to my husband and his belongs to me.  The bible frowns at denial...........but if this can not be avoided, it is good to explain to the other party in a way he/she would understand...........I would want to believe that couples are not always in the mood for bedmatics, therefore one partner should understand the other's desire to be left alone sometimes..........If I am not in the mood for roffo-roffo fight, I would let him know and I EXPECT him to understand because I would understand when he also turns me down......but if he goes ahead to have his way without my consent, I would consider it rape........becos rape is basically sex without the consent of one of the parties...........and Yes, I believe one can be RAPED, marriage or no marriage!
OK... FORCEFULLY WITHOUT UR CONSENT...NA RAPE....hahahaha i feel u Grin Grin Grin anywaz like i said b4 no responsible man will force himself on his wife. She's urs...if she doesnt give it to u now...she can alwaz give it to u later Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed


You think it is every married man that is responsible?............even self, you think it is everybody on trousers with a flat chest claiming to be man that is a real man? Wink

Hahahahaha @Dp u gat me laffing and rolling with this oooo Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin this is abt the funniest comment on this post...lol

heheheheheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 21-10-2011 02:14 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 21-10-2011 02:15 PM (12 years ago)
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really really hotter..OMG!

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- MissyBarbie at 21-10-2011 02:17 PM (12 years ago)
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No be small thing ooo
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- onyiis at 21-10-2011 02:18 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 21-10-2011 02:12 PM
no be wetin yu want Tongue

lolz....................;na wetin we want

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- yukicares4u at 21-10-2011 02:20 PM (12 years ago)
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..and indeed it was hotter than the hottest fire...lmao Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 21-10-2011 02:20 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 21-10-2011 02:21 PM (12 years ago)
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So the society makes it difficult for a rape victime , married or not to come out oppenly and complain ?

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- onyiis at 21-10-2011 02:23 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: yukicares4u on 21-10-2011 01:16 PM
Hw many of u can actually come out n tell us ur hubby rapes U smtimes?

What if he said NO and it was u who forced urself on him? what wud u also call that? i bet u wont call it rape abi?...then that will amount to double-standard

a rape is a rape no matter who rape who  !!!  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

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- onyiis at 21-10-2011 02:25 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 21-10-2011 01:22 PM
Quote from: yukicares4u on 21-10-2011 01:17 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 21-10-2011 01:14 PM
Quote from: yukicares4u on 21-10-2011 01:06 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 21-10-2011 01:04 PM
They don talk am.............make I waka
Oya Mama DP...come here ...right away!

Yes your majesty.........how can I help you your majesty?.........am right here Wink Wink
Oya tell us can u say ur hubby raped u?

You and Onyiis just want me to talk..........why?..........

.........................because we are all talking  Grin Grin Grin

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- onyiis at 21-10-2011 02:27 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 21-10-2011 01:26 PM
Quote from: cheryllov on 21-10-2011 01:17 PM
Based on the definition of Rape, one is not obliged to give it up jux because she is married, they should  love and respect each other it should be a mutual agreement and not by force, this happens mostly when the man is not romantic or is jux too much of a sex addict then the lady gets tired or vise versa, if not me personally lol don't know how am gon b raped by my husby, we'll rock together ni anytime .lol anywhere anyhow lol rotfl......:0 jux my personal opinion
that is correct bcos i ve a frd who told me that her husb is not romantic n'' when he need it even if shes not inda mood he must tak it by force bcos his addicted to sex.......

dont think he is addicted to sex but think the man sees her as his property ! Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad

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- yukicares4u at 21-10-2011 02:27 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 21-10-2011 02:21 PM
So the society makes it difficult for a rape victime , married or not to come out oppenly and complain ?
Yes!
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- onyiis at 21-10-2011 02:27 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 21-10-2011 01:26 PM
Quote from: cheryllov on 21-10-2011 01:17 PM
Based on the definition of Rape, one is not obliged to give it up jux because she is married, they should  love and respect each other it should be a mutual agreement and not by force, this happens mostly when the man is not romantic or is jux too much of a sex addict then the lady gets tired or vise versa, if not me personally lol don't know how am gon b raped by my husby, we'll rock together ni anytime .lol anywhere anyhow lol rotfl......:0 jux my personal opinion
that is correct bcos i ve a frd who told me that her husb is not romantic n'' when he need it even if shes not inda mood he must tak it by force bcos his addicted to sex.......

dont think he is addicted to sex but think the man sees her as his property/posession ! Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad

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- divineproject at 21-10-2011 02:28 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 21-10-2011 02:21 PM
So the society makes it difficult for a rape victime , married or not to come out oppenly and complain ?

Na you dey ask this question abi na your daughter?.......... Wink Wink

for the single lady wey dey claim say dem rape her, dem go ask WETIN YOU SELF FIND GO THERE?

For the married woman wey dey claim say her husband rape her (hard claim oo).....wetin dem go ask her na?

Posted: at 21-10-2011 02:28 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 21-10-2011 02:29 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: yukicares4u on 21-10-2011 02:27 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 21-10-2011 02:21 PM
So the society makes it difficult for a rape victime , married or not to come out oppenly and complain ?
Yes!

that goes to tell u that there are soo many women dyeing in silence !

Posted: at 21-10-2011 02:29 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 21-10-2011 02:31 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 21-10-2011 02:28 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 21-10-2011 02:21 PM
So the society makes it difficult for a rape victime , married or not to come out oppenly and complain ?

Na you dey ask this question abi na your daughter?.......... Wink Wink

for the single lady wey dey claim say dem rape her, dem go ask WETIN YOU SELF FIND GO THERE?

For the married woman wey dey claim say her husband rape her (hard claim oo).....wetin dem go ask her na?
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i know , i just wanted to confirm if others feel the way i do abaut this rape issues.

as for that line in red , i dey wait for ue answeer  Grin Grin Grin Grin

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- yukicares4u at 21-10-2011 02:32 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 21-10-2011 02:29 PM
Quote from: yukicares4u on 21-10-2011 02:27 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 21-10-2011 02:21 PM
So the society makes it difficult for a rape victime , married or not to come out oppenly and complain ?
Yes!

that goes to tell u that there are soo many women dyeing in silence !
Of cos...a zillion of them out there re dying and languishing in absolute silence! Embarrassed Embarrassed Embarrassed
Posted: at 21-10-2011 02:32 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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